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writes:A story when I was 12 and in 7th grade. First let me explain that then, I was a nice, good guy when it came to girls. I never checked girls out or anything like that even if I wanted to because I always thought is was disrespectful to do so. I didn't know too much about sex and stuff, but I pretty much knew what is was.Anyway, on to the long story. In school, there was this girl who was pretty hot on most guy standards. She seemed to enjoy teasing me a lot. It usually happened at lunch or at the gym where people go after eating lunch. It started with her walking up with her friends and she just randomly bends over right in front of me showing her butt. I didn't think nothing of it. As days go on she will start throwing some things at me (tator tots at lunch, other stuff), give me wet-willies, mess with my hair. Her friends, of course, would be laughing and whatnot. I'd be walking down the hall between classes, and she'll just randomly push her butt into me nearly knocking me over. Eventually, she found where my locker was, and would find me. Sometimes she would ask if she could grab/squeeze my butt. I said sure, as long as you go away.I started asking why she was doing this and why she wouldn't stop, and she says it's because she loved me. Now, I know fool to know that someone just doesn't come along and says you love them. Other girls have told me I should tell a teacher, but I didn't want to have to go that far. I soon finally had enough and told someone, the VP actually at lunch. It all kind of died down from there.I felt violated from it all, and I know any other guy would probably have enjoyed it. Heck, looking back now, I wonder why I never turned the tables and had some fun myself with her. I did recently find a MySpace of her she hasn't used in a good while. Surprisingly, she's married with a kid. I just wish I could tell her off, and find out why she really did all these things. Did she really love me, did she just want to tease me and try to get me aroused and stuff (she did ask sometimes if I ever got a boner form her), or did she just wanted some sex. I don't know, so I am hoping someone could shed some light on this. It's still buried in my head and knowing why can really help out.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 January 2011):
 You know Buddy in this life sometimes you just don't get all the answers. My guess however is that she did like you and was trying to get your attention however and whenever she could. But really now it's time to just put this memory behind you and get on with your life.
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