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I'm scared I would annoy him so I never contact him first

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Question - (16 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2011)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

There's this boy I know.

I like him a LOT. I'm crazy for him but feel as if I can never tell him. He's had much experience with girls, and I've not had many experience with guys. I'm terrified that by texting or IM'ing him, I'm annoying him, so I never initiate conversation. I know I'm just shooting myself in the foot by doing so, but I'd rather have him as a distant friend, than to annoy him into forgetting me forever.

There's nothing I want more than to be with him, but alas, this seems like it can never happen. This depresses me so much, it hurts.

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A male reader, TOMMYaty United States +, writes (16 January 2011):

TOMMYaty agony auntDo you want him to be a close friend or just a boyfriend?

If a boyfriend, Just get a plan to be alone with him and ask him out.

If you want to be friends with him, try to find something in common and talk about that

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