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writes:I have been in a 3 year relationship with this girl who i know is the one, however, yesterday we had a conversation where i noticed she was feeling weird. after talking and talking she asked me for a break. she says that she has been thinking about it for some time, but things were happening to me and she felt bad about me. i recently lost my grand mother, which she was also close to. Our relationship has been great, i love her and parents and vice versa, but I'm afraid her parents believe I'm not enough for her. Anyways, when she asked me she said that she loves me, but she feels her life is stuck and she needs time to for herself, which i understand, but i feel like being together might help more since we can talk things thru. she also says that she wants to miss and maybe because of this she might realize how much she loves. i'm going crazy thinking about her and if she doesn't want to be anymore. she is everything to me, she is all i ever wanted
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011): A break can mean that seeing other people is allowed, or it can mean it is not allowed. You both had better be crystal clear about which kind of break this is. If you want there to be no other people allowed and she uncomfortably tries to avoid agreeing to that . . . look out.
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