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30-35,
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writes:HiI was in a relationship with a man for 10 months, however he was 40 and I was 20 at the time and at uni. I tried talking about it with my mum and dad a month into the realtionship but straight away I got a "no way on this earth was this going to happen" answer, but I still continued to see him behind their back. There were many strains on the relationship, including an ex of his who liked to cause trouble for us both, and we used to argue because of it and in the end we broke up and he moved to Wales to be with this ex. This was in May just gone and since November he has been texting me and telling me how much he loves me and can't live without me. Also that he is moving back to Liverpool and I am the reason he is coming back and that i am all he wants now and he has said this to quite a few people. I do still have feelings for him and couldn't imagine life without him, and would like to our relationship another go but there is the problem of my parents. I was wondering has anybody got any advice on how to tackle this situation as I am scared of either loosing my parents or him??Thanks
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reader, petina1 +, writes (16 January 2011):
 Age gap is massive really and i don't wonder your parents are worried about that. What do you want for your future and think about how it will affect if you want any children. That put aside I'm struggling with , he went back to his ex. Now why would he do that? I think that in itself tells you that he could be just having fun with you , for his ego, that he can pull a young girl. He isn;t taking you seriously really. You have no guarantees that he won't simply run off with his ex again either.
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