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I wish the spark was still there

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Question - (16 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi everybody im 16 my boyfriend is 18 we have been dating for 2 years and since about 5 months ago wen we was fighting alot the spark has gone away i wanna be with him but also I just wish the spark was still there and since its not it makes me want to flirt with other guys and also i know it would be so hard to see him with someone else if we broke up.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011):

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Well I love him because he's wonderful to me and he lives wit me and we have plans for a future together I don't want anybody else I just want the spark somone told me its because we see each other way to much an dnt ever get a break

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A female reader, Fabulosa United States +, writes (17 January 2011):

Fabulosa agony auntWhat are the reasons you want to be with him? Not just "I love him"... why do I love him? Ask yourself if u want to be with him because u been together so long and ur comfertable. If the feeling r gone it maybe be time to let it go. It probably not going to be easy. Your gointo mourn the relationship. That's normal we all do that. But you will find someone that. Will gi e you those feelin again. Goos luck.

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A female reader, brianne0605 United States +, writes (17 January 2011):

i have been in your position a bunch of times. what i did learn is that you cant just force love or the spark it has to happen because you both want it to work. of not then its not worth going through all the pain and sorrow. i think you should sit down and talk to him. try and go out on a date. te;; him how you feel.

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