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writes:okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about, a month and a couple weeks. He dated his ex for about 3 days , but they have known each other for quiet a while before they got together. He broke up with her when she admitted to cheating on him , so they just remained friends. She realized that he was a really good and respectful guy , and pleaded him back every single day..he gave her another chance and within the two weeks they were together she cheated on him again and got pregnant by another guy , so he broke up with her again. long story short , she knows she messed up and she wants him back..everygirl before me that was trying to get with my boyfriend was scared away from his ex..Hes been single for 2 years , then I came into his life and we talked for quite a while , then we finally got together. He told me that his ex was his homegirl at the beginning of our relationship , then he finally told me that she was his ex a couple weeks later , and that he doesn't love her anymore he only has love for her as a friend . And i was perfectly fine with him still talking to her since they go to the same church , and they are also in the same gang. And just a couple days ago I went on his Myspace and i saw a message from his ex saying that shes sorry that they shouldn't talk anymore, she just wants to focus on her and her baby daddy's relationship , and she's afraid that if she talks to my boyfriend then she'll ruin everything with her babys daddy. And he replyed back that she broke her promise , that they'll always talk. I realized when me and him talked he sounded really down. Should I be worried that he's cheating?[ sorry if i do not make any sense , this is my first time writing one of these . ]
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 hi
tricky question. she has treated him like crap in the past but he still wants to be friends and he is disapointed that she doesn't want to talk to him anymore? is he short of friends or something? i'm betting that if it doesn't work out with her baby-daddy then she will turn to your boyfriend again. just a hunch. at the beginning he tried to say she was just his friend and then he admitted that she was an ex. why lie??
i would be wary. you are only hearing his version of things. maybe she would have a different story to tell. you have only been with him a few weeks and you distrust him already.
advice: get out now before you get involved and attached any further. if you choose to carry on with him though, you need some truthful answers from him, starting with why he lied about her being an ex. also does he know what you saw on myspace? that also needs further discussion
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