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writes:This guy and I just ended our relationship and decided to just be friends. How long do I wait to talk to him again as "friends" I miss him. Even though i'm heartbroken about it I still want to talk to him. Or do I just wait till he writes to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI asked him if he still wanted to be with me because I sensed something wrong. He said he still likes me, but doesn't know if he still wants to be together. and today i was online and he deleted every conversation we've ever had and also from his friends. Does that mean we're officially done? We haven't talked in a week. He keeps posting things like "sigh" and in our last conversation he said good night and I never wrote back. It sucks because we have mutual friends. So should I just wait for him to text me? Or what.. Just let it go?
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (17 January 2011):
 Four months of no contact is a good amount of time to compose yourself enough to become friends again.
Rushing back can seriously hurt your chances at being friends again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): Usually its just one person who ends the relationship or initiates that. I'm assuming it was him? When someone breaks up with you it means they don't see being with you an attractive option. You can do a last call for closure and send him an email just asking how he's doing but you have to accept the results of that. If he doesn't respond or bring up wanting to see you then you can't pretend anymore there is hope unless you want to push things on him and get rejected all over again.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 You don't say the reasons for breaking up, or whether it was more one sided than the other. By the sounds of it you did not want to break up, as you still say that you miss him, and are feeling heart broken.
I know its hard because you are still feeling hurt, but things will get better for you, time heals all wounds. I agree with strongfp, keep you distance, and move on. Get out and about with friends, do stuff to take your mind off of it, as time goes by you will meet someone else who sweeps you off your feet, and you will forget all about your ex.
Good luck
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