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writes:I am seeing this 54 year old man. Our relationship is a no frills relationship. We occassionally get together to have sex. (Both divorced)Lately he's been bringing up the subject of having threesomes and group sex. And then he sent me this prostitues profile and told me she would be worth the money? I have never ever dealt with such requests before. And to top it off the woman prostitute was a female but has a penis. I am very open minded, but I do have to admit this is a bit mind boggling for me.We are both mature adults who don't mind getting together to have sex. My question is, would this be a man with a sex problem? Not sure...any kind of information would be appreciated.Also I'd like to add that people tell me he is constantly hunting down women for sex.
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reader, oppsie +, writes (16 January 2011):
oppsie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your replies
Cstingman....you are very accurate in you saying about being unhappy. Although it is a no frills relationship, I do find myself saddened by these requests, without trying to judge him at the same time.
BisSambo...the profile was someone who he would consider for the threesome, not to mention alot of other woman that he brings up to join us. As for bi-tendency...I'm not sure
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 January 2011):
I think this is a man trying to re-capture his youth, and I certainly think that all he wants is sex. What's most bizarre here is that he chose a prostitute with a penis, so maybe there's something else going on in his mind.
I'm not sure you should be involved with this man. Whilst you're open minded, you seem to be sinking into a dangerous world that will only drag you in even further. You'll wind up effectively prostituting yourself to this man to fulfil only his needs with other women/men, whatever, and this will put in you serious danger of STD's, depression, unhappiness and all the rest.
Let me be clear that there's nothing wrong with you having no frills sex with a man. But you need to be safe, and you need to keep your self respect, or you'll wind up really unhappy.
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reader, BigSambo  +, writes (16 January 2011):
Could it be that he is showing you the profile of the would be participant of your threesome?
Do you think or suspect that he has bi-tendency?
It does not sound that he gets enough sex and maybe that is the reason that he is hunting women for sex.
Did you offer to see him more than occasionally?
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