A
female
age
30-35,
*yper hippo 123
writes: Okay...So i like this guy.He was in my graphics class last year, there were a lot of hints thinking back to maybe he could just like me too. But now he has a girlfriend...My friends are aware i like him, obviously being my friends..Well i think them think he's out of my league or something..? he is gorgeous but there is just something about him. i don't know what, maybe it's liking someone who is unavailable, more of a challenge. Apart from the girlfriend the main issues are, when he's with his friends i'll be ignored, i guess i kinda ignore him too but i'm shy and i never know what to say and he's popular around college, i can't just go up to him and start a conversation i'm not one of those confident types. Well last year i got to know him a bit, he use to talk to me a lot (usually after college when we stayed behind and worked over hours) He always use to ask me what i thought of his work and use to help me out using photoshop..it's a classic move right, when i guy takes over what your doing and shows you how it's done, even if most of the time he didn't have a clue what he was doing it was nice to be close. He got a girlfriend... Anyways then he started calling me 'titch' in the corridors and around the college, i didn't like it, i know he was teasing but it was like he was showing me up in front of everyone, so i stopped talking to him. Year two of college it started with random smiles in the corridors and when ever he sees me he says hey. And a few months ago he randomly out of the blue guestured for a hug (i was thrilled, stayed cool) and gave him one, we probably only talked for 2 minutes but it was really nice. It's like he's a different person with me than with other people, he's usually a bit of a show off and annoying but with me he's polite and sweet. Soon there is a graphics trip to New York, we are both going. He says we are friends, but friends have each others facebook (i don't dare add him as a friend, i don't want to give away i like him) and friends talk. So i would be grateful for him just to notice me and actually be friends, we may never 'go out' but..:)So can anyone help me out with advice or there opinion, it would mean a lot. :)Sorry this was sooo long ^^^^ :DThank you.
View related questions:
facebook, has a girlfriend, notice me, shy, teasing Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! |