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writes:My romantic interest lives on the other side of the world and he found someone else. I needed some time to get past the hurt of it, I just want to know what sort of time period shoulld I wait until I contact him to see how he is. i just want to be friends, nothing more anymore, I just want to say hi and see how he is. How long should I wait to do this?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 January 2011):
Please don't contact him. You'll end up torturing yourself if he doesn't contact you, or torturing yourself because he's having a great time and you're not.
Truly let him go. The worst thing in life it to surround yourself with people who don't care for you, and he just doesn't. Please move on.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (16 January 2011):
 Belive me, you think you need that contact again but...YOU DON'T. It would be like carrying baggage and if you keep in touch with him, you will find it so much harder to move on with your life.
Be strong...you don't need to know how he is...not unless you want the pain to continue.
Good luck
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): If he was meant to be in your future than he would not have done a 180 and walked backwards out of your life. Leave him where he is, behind you, in your past. Your destiny is with the future which is free of and no longer is predestined with the burden of him.
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