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Tips on how to stop gagging during a blowjob and how to make it more enjoyable for the man?

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Question - (16 January 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So i've been curious about this for a while and I would like to know if there are any tips to giving a blow job and not gagging during or gagging less. Ive tried not going down as far but its less enjoyable for him. I really would like to give my boyfriend amazing bjs but i can't handle the gagging. I don't know if i just have a sensitive gag reflex or what? Also is there anything else i could do during the bj to make it more enjoyable for him? I'd appreciate any tips :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011):

Right then I had trouble with this when I first started to give head, what you should do is have your had at the base of the penis so when your head is going up and down so will you hand, so you won't have to go so deep. Also to make it more pleasurable I was told by my boyfriend to suck as well, it apparantly really helps, and the reaction I got from him sure showed it :D

hope this has been some help :)

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A female reader, fi_the_tree United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2011):

fi_the_tree agony auntIf you don't want to go as deep, then try grasping his penis between the base and your mouth, sounds gross, but let your saliva seep down into your hand, this will give me the sensation that your whole mouth is around his whole penis, and move your hand up and down in time with your head like you would when giving him a hand job.

It's the classic deepthroat cheat, and also when your mouth gets tired you can break away and give him a hand job for 30 seconds or so whilst your jaw recovers, then dive in again! Always worked for me, and i'm sure he'll love it...

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A female reader, golddigger99 United States +, writes (16 January 2011):

golddigger99 agony auntI have a similar issue with my man not finishing before my jaw cramps up. AMAZING blow jobs are mainly for porn stars, so I wouldn't stress about it not being perfect. Try laying on the bed on your back with your head hanging down off the bed. Have your boyfriend stand above you and enter your mouth that way. It is a straighter entry way and allows for a deeper penetration w/o much of the hassel. If he is going to cum in your mouth, be sure that he warns you before hand. It is easier for him to be deep in you when he does this because the taste is absolutely HORRIBLE! lol! When he cums deep inside you, the cum will bypass most of your tastebuds, so it'll be easier not to gag this way. Have fun should you decide to try this out!

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A female reader, harleygirl2010 United States +, writes (16 January 2011):

harleygirl2010 agony auntOk i had this problem too. If your gagging don't take him as deep. If it makes it less enjoyable for him then try knew things with it. Like licking around the tip and right under it (usually a great turn on for my man) and circle your head like you would your hips during intercourse. Bob your head a little and suck really hard then release and do it again like your sucking on a really good lollipop. I had to learn all this on my own and i found that these things helped my man and kept me from gagging. I hope this helps you.

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