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writes:I'm 24, single, and I have had 10 sexual partners, my sister is younger than me and is in a relationship, and she constantly dissaproves of my "love" life. She thinks I'm a whore. I've had my one night stands, also my serious relationships, sometimes it just doesn't work out, sometimes I've found out that the guy already had a girlfriend, I have friends with benefits, etc.I normally don't like men easily, or feel attracted to them, maybe I'm too picky, I have to like what I see first. But sometimes I'm really into a guy, and I'm happy when that happens, because it rarely happens. I also enjoy having sex a lot, it is an amazing feeling for me, especially when two people really are into each other.I'm not looking for a serious relationship, I just want to enjoy my single life, and have fun and mingle. My lifestyle has never caused problems until recently, well my sister bugs me all the time too about it. I think she's just bitching though.Recently, I've been feeling really attracted to a friend (A) of a "friend with benefits (B)" of mine, and it's obvious that he's also really into me, you can feel the chemistry, it's like a fire eating us from the inside when we see each other. We have only flirted at a few parties, and that is it, not even kissing, well he kissed me once on the cheek.I have had a one night stand before with someone from the same circle (C), and it lead to the end of my "friends with benefits (B)", so I'm not sure if seeing this guy (A) would be a good idea, I have never in my life felt like this about a guy, ever, when he touches me, I shiver, when he kissed me on the cheek, I get goosebumps. He's so damn hot and sexy, he's like my personal eye candy, tall dark and handsome. Oooh I can't wait to get me some of that.So, am I a whore for sleeping with guys I really like, and not wanting a serious relationship? and also for wanting to be with guys from the same circle?My sister gets pissed whenever she hears I had sex with someone new, she says I sleep with them too easily, but thing is, I don't want to have a boyfriend, so why play mind games, I'm digging the hot body and the sexy style, let's just get on with the sex already.
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reader, Mr. Smith  +, writes (17 January 2011):
well you do what you want with your life...but there are so meny other ways of enjoyinh your single life besdes opening your legs... i do not know how someone could do such things considering the amount of STD's.
I imagine that the day you decide to "settle down" you get real and don't go around looking for "prince charming" or similar crap...men will value you for what you have done in your life and honestly not many will or do feel attracted for a women that has the life style you do...
Just being honest..something not many people are in this website
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reader, babyboo22 +, writes (16 January 2011):
 no, you are not a whore at all, you are just a very sexual person, and theres nothing wrong with that. as long as you dont think your a whore than all is fine, you are obviously open to your sexuality and know what you want so just be careful, and have fun!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 January 2011):
Whore = Prostitute.
Prostitute = Woman or man who accepts payment in return for sexual favours.
So you're not a whore at all. You're a young woman who's having fun, and that's all that matters. That's all that matters, and as long as you're safe, you'll be fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): Your question has the answer in it, you already know what you want, why and how. Do as your Conscience says, that's the big thing. Do what you feel is right. Simply don't feel guilty of doing anything wrong unless you actually feel that way, just because your sister says so , don't bother yourself but certainly be cautious while selecting the partners.All the best and enjoy your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): I dont know if your a whore not.Thats really for u to decide.Im your age but as u say im really picky too.I love goodlooking sexy men.Also yes sex feels reall good.I though am very picky but have been with only 1 man.My ex i lost my virginity to.Why cant u find one man your attracted to who u can fall in love with and he with u and have lots of sex with.U should respect yourself as a young woman. Im waiting again to be with my second when i finda good man and staying celebate. When u have been around alot and word gets around and u are ready to settle down everyman would have heard about u and u will not be anyones wifey.
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reader, Kilcardy +, writes (16 January 2011):
You're young, sound beautiful, and are single. No, you are not a whore. If you were a guy, you'd be considered a "stud" with a normal sex life. Enjoy yourself, but be careful of course. Also, watch out when doing guys who all hang together. That can create some complications. But, otherwise...have fun!
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