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She wants me to get my penis pierced!

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Question - (16 January 2011) 12 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey everybody!

I've been in relationship with this girl for 2 years now...

She wants to spice things up so she got a tattoo and she asked me to get my dick pierced!!

Is this too much? Is it gonna hurt? Should I do it?

So many questions, PLEASE help me to take this decision...

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A female reader, iicandyxoxo Canada +, writes (25 January 2011):

iicandyxoxo agony auntIf you don't want to do it then don't.

Because if you guys decide to break up then you have a pierced dick.

&& What if your next gf doesn't like it?.

You can if you want to.

But you are who you are and don't let anyone change you.

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A female reader, happyface Greece +, writes (19 January 2011):

happyface agony auntYou don't want it?,so don't!!

it's yours not hers anyway..

never ever let somebody or even your girlfriend dictate you of what will you do..

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (16 January 2011):

tennisstar88 agony aunthttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prince_Albert_piercing

Looks pretty painful to me. A lot more painful than a swift kick in the dick.

It's your body, your choice, but if you're frightened and want to protect your sensitive member then I would tell her no.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (16 January 2011):

Danielepew agony auntOuch!

Ouch!

In addition to what everyone else has said, you have to think that this is a permanent thing. What if Ms. Pierce leaves you and Ms. "Why the Hell Are You Pierced" comes?

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (16 January 2011):

Jmtmj agony auntIs it gonna hurt? You better believe it.

Should you do it? Hell no. Not unless you're doing it for yourself. Mutilating your body because somebody else wants you to...

Not cool.

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A male reader, AlphaRS United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2011):

If you don't want to do it then don't do it. Stand up for yourself. It's your body and if your gal can't accept that then you with the wrong person.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2011):

This sounds like something that'll go wrong. Firstly, you're letting her make the decision. Secondly, it's your penis that'll become infected and ooze puss and God knows what else if it goes wrong.

Yes it will hurt - especially if you get it caught in the zip!

Sounds like a bad idea to me.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (16 January 2011):

Miamine agony auntPenis Piercing... yep, known to make penis sensitive and give good orgasm to both parties.

Also known for causing dangerous infections in penis and desensitise/overstimulate the penis in some men.

The fact that your asking, means you are not comfortable with the idea. If you don't want to do something, don't just go along and try to please...SAY NO!!!! Just tell the lady NO!!! It's silly to mutilate your body when your scared, just to please someone else.

The same stimulation she wants can be gained through either a penis sheath (extender) or a cock ring. These can be bought by any adult from a registered sex shop and are available on the internet.

Try a cock ring..same pleasure, but not permanent, they can be taken off at any time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011):

It is going to hurt like bloody hell! My x had two piercings, from before he met me. One came out and didn't go back, both came for anything. I would say no to it if I were you.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (16 January 2011):

CindyCares agony auntC.Grant gave you a male opinion, I'll give you the female opinion, which is...

Oh frigging YUCK.

The thought is sickening. Please don't do it.

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (16 January 2011):

C. Grant agony auntOh frigging YUCK. I feel like puking at the very thought. She must be hot as hell if you're even considering it. Good God man, you want someone to stick a pin in your prick????

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A male reader, Advice_man United States +, writes (16 January 2011):

Advice_man agony auntIt's not a question whether is gonna hurt! It's your dick man, not hers! She decided to mess up her skin to spice up things...fine! I wouldn't drill a hole on my dick to please a woman, unless I really wanted to! You are man! Honor your dick! Don't let your woman to decide for it. And if she doesn't agree, show her the door out!

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