He wants a little freedom before he asks me out?

A female age 26-29, *ose_lyne writes:

i had just recently moved to a new town and i had met a boy a month earlier that month and we both became friends on the spot i had grown feelings for him and i hoped he did to he would hold my hand and rub it with his thumb but my little sister found out i liked him and got his number from my phone and told him to ask me out and to answer me with yes or no. well it was his birthday that day and he was inside his house and asking his dad if i could come for a small little party for him and when he came out he just flat out said no at first i was confused then he told me what my sis had done and i ran away we still remained friends then he gets a girlfriend who is really good to him and i'm glad he's happy but one day he tells me " i was origonally going to ask you out" and i was confused cause he had said no then he finishes the story with " if i had asked you out i could see us happily in love gotten married later and had a couple of kids" and i asked why didn't you and he said he wanted a little freedom before anything like that happens. i still love him but if he does ask me out later should i say yes? should i say yes because he just wanted freedom for a little while before mariage even though that might not even happen?

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