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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I feel like i'm taking my boyfriend for granted and I wish I wanted to be with him as bad as does. I really love him and I think we could have a future together. But he says he wouldn't be able to live without me and that i'm the only one he'll ever want and that'd he'd do anything possible to get me back no matter how long it would take if we ever broke up. I don't really feel as strongly about him as he does with me... But deep down i know i love him and i think hes amazing. I just want to want him more if you get what i'm saying? Are there any ways to make myself realize or make my feelings grow stronger for him?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 January 2011):
You can't 'force' love. Chances are you do love him more than you realize. But love is something that takes time to develop, and men are more prone to falling quicker than women. Your boyfriend has done just that. He's fallen quickly and fallen hard. You're taking time, and there's nothing wrong with that.
So now, nurture what you're feeling. Make sure you're putting effort into the relationship, and make sure you're seeing real effort from him, and not just a whole bunch of words. That's how true love develops - it takes time and a lot of effort.
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