A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: What do you do when your husband wants to live in a town (ten years at tops) but you dont want to live there? He used to live there when he was younger and i know some of the people there they were very rude and jerks to me and now that me and him are married the girls i know around there still want to get with him. I dont like alot of people there so i dont wanna live there for that long i said a couple years is fine but he wants to stay well he finishes his schooling. Is there a solution were we both can be happy? Thanks. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (16 January 2011):
Hon, you haven't given us enough to go on. You don't live there now but you know the people there? And you feel like you know what to expect from them and it's not good. What's the problem?
Look, two years is no better than ten. If you're going to have problems, they'll be worked out in under two years or they never will be. If you think you're going to walk in to a situation in this town that you can't handle, then you husband should have your back and not put you there.
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