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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend often try both anal and vaginal sex, and even though he says that anal sex feels 'tighter' (and therefore better right?), he prefers vaginal sex saying that 'it feels better inside than the anus'. I seriously don't get it - what's the difference that guys feel? Two openings, two spaces to fill (to put it vulgarly). I've asked him but he says he just can't explain. I'm majorly confused! Any help here on what you think he's talking about?? Greatly appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2011): Hi, i'm 18 and i have recently had the same confusion. the first time i had sex with my boyfriend was on my 18th birthday and he treated my very nicely. i wanted to explore many feelings so i asked him about anal sex. he said to me that he preferred vaginal sex but he did it anyway, as he knew i wanted to try it. i asked him why he didnt enjoy it as much and he said vaginal sex feels more warm and it a bit more free (because of the anus being tighter) he also said that the penis slides easier and more in the vagina as it becomes wet, so the movement around his penis is faster, whereas the anus doesn't become wet. he told me that i can kind of experience it myself if i finger myself in both. so i did and i knew what he meant, you can try that too.
i hope that helps.
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