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male
age
36-40,
*romiker
writes:I miss my ex so much I cant stop thanking about her I don't know what to do any more. She was my first in bed In I know she still loves me she calls me up still some times saying that she is missing me but why is she blocking me from calling her is she just playing with me? Well we have a long distance relationship im from oregon and she is from boston. I miss her so much that I think about her all the time what she is doing and every thing I really miss her with all my hart. I cant get over her I want to go get help because I think Im really depressed over it I can't sleep I can't eat can't live my every day to day life any more. Its like a dark cloud over my head every where I go with out her. I just don't know what to do any more I need her so bad in my life I miss her a lot What should I do I can't talk to her any more. ?
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 You let her go and you move on with your life.
The five stages of grief are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance.
So where do you think you're at? I'd say somewhere between bargaining and depression as you're still trying to find ways to get her back, plus you're getting depressed.
You do need to accept this dude, she's blocked your calls, she doesn't want to talk to you, she doesn't want to fix things, she wants to move on with her life... and so should you. First love is always a hard one to get over- you're not used to handling all these new intense emotions and it can be very overwhelming... but you will survive, just try to keep yourself busy.
You need to let her go and move on with your life dude... harsh, but true. The longer you hold out hope for getting back together with this girl- the longer it'll take to get over her and the more you'll just end up hurting yourself.
Best of luck dude... chin up, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
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reader, Burnt Out +, writes (10 October 2010):
Who broke up with who?
If you broke up with her, then she has just blocked you because she cant deal with the pain of you calling her up saying you miss her, but then getting hurt again.
If she broke up with you, then she is trying her best to move on and forget you.
If you broke up with her, and you seriously want her back. Then make the grand gesture, by doing something to win her back.
Either way you should not get back togther if the original problem of why your broke up is still there. Trust me i know. 4 breakups with the one person.
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