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writes:Ok so this might be a little long so i apologies. I have had feelings for my best guy friend for about 3 years. I found out that he was bi one year ago. I told him that i was bi about 6 months ago but I have been hinting at it since he told me. Now the problem is I am incredibly shy. It took my 4 years to tell my last crush I liked her. To make matters worse he has a girlfriend. He comes to me when they get in fights and I can't help but fix everything for him. I know that their relationship isn't stable. They constantly get in arguments. I want to tell him how I feel but another part of me knows that it will hurt his current relationship. I know that his gf will find out and she will make sure that he doesn't hang out with me. He has hinted that he likes me. He said the his gf is jealous of me. I just don't know what to do. Should I tell him or not?
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reader, der_zyniker +, writes (10 October 2010):
Ok. From what you said about his current relationship it doesn't sound like it's going to last very long. I would wait until that one falls apart and then tell him. I wouldn't tell him immediately afterward. I'd wait a couple of weeks. I just need to be patient for now. I know that's hard to do in a situation like this, but that's what you need to do for now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): Just wait until he gets in a fight and breaks up with her, you don't want to do anything to drastic and mess everything up.
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