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writes:im 13, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 months. he is at my house all the time ive never been in his. but i dont care im afraid to meet his parents to be h=honest but he is quite close with mines. we never really talk much about his family. should i ask? Reply to this Question
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reader, one girl, thousands of questions. +, writes (12 October 2010):
one girl, thousands of questions. is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 Two years isnt a big gap if you are both enjoying each others company so dont worry about the age gap, just ask him about his family casually and be up front and then take the next step of meeting them yea you will be nervous we all are its only natural but just remember they are only people just like me and you am sure they wont be that scary.
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reader, one girl, thousands of questions. +, writes (11 October 2010):
one girl, thousands of questions. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thanks guys! this means alot to me.. he is 15, im not rushing into anything illegal
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reader, japjess83  +, writes (11 October 2010):
I would simply ask questions about his family. After asking so many questions, it may break the nervousness you have about meeting them. I have been married only a year, have known my husband's family for 2 years, and I still get nervous around them. That is a sign that you care ;)
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 i wonder if an age difference is an issue here, how old is he.
if he is much older his family will be against his going out with a 13year girl.
i just hope you are not being rushed into a sexual relationship at your age, older guys can tend to do that.
if you are just friends then thats fine, go meet his folks, and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): im not aisan lol, but anyways thanks :) i need to know all i can.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 It's a guess but I'm thinking you sound asain. I don't know the customs in that part of the world but there may be a conflict culturally so caution is advised. if I'm way off base and you are not asian then yes you must know all you can about anyone you are considering being close to. Good Luck in either event.
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reader, bloodyki88y +, writes (11 October 2010):
 yes you should well if u want
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reader, one girl, thousands of questions. +, writes (11 October 2010):
one girl, thousands of questions. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks :) i think ill just be forward with him, i hope hes not embaressed to let me meet them since im younger than him.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (11 October 2010):
yes just ask him casually about his family ask him would they ever like to meet you, hey there is nothing to be scared about, we all get nervous meeting our boyfriends parents its onlt natural.
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