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writes:guys im really freaking out !! my LDR gf just disapeared!! its been 4 days now , we used to talk like every single day , but now she is not online anymore , i tried to call her but her fone is jst ringin !! no one is pickin it up , i called her earlier again but it felt like she hang up , or cancelled my call i know if something bad happened to her then her sister would come to her msn and tell me . but she didnt and thats whats driving me crazy im like miles away from her and i cant go and see her at the moment now im starting to have those thoughts that maybe shes with some1 else or i dont know coz like i said if anything bad happened to her i would know as soon as possible !!!! but idk i dnt get why she doesnt answer her fone i called her like over 100 times but no1 answers idk what to do i dont even know how i feel
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reader, rolfen  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 It is normal to feel this way. Call whoever you can find around her. Her hotel, whatever... Even call the police if you have to, just to make sure she's OK. I don't know how people here can be going the "relationship issue" way. You did not ask any advice on that and you probably feel awful so that might not help.
I wish I had seen this thread earlier - I suppose it got resolved. An update will be appreciated. Hope all if OK.
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reader, george west  +, writes (10 October 2010):
mate she found someone else but does not want to tell you she just ignoring. her sister and friends won't tell you anything. if i were you i would move on to someone else. she and her sister and friends are making fool of you.
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reader, Nime  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Have you called your girlfriend's sister to find out if her sister or parents have heard from her???
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Over 100 times? Maybe you are being a little bit obsessive here and maybe she needs some time. Send her a txt or a email and tell her you are worried about her and you would like to know if she is ok or not, and leave it at that, if she doesnt respond then am guessing she doesnt want to contact you.
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Have you been having relationship issues? I think that this is the hardest thing about LDR's...the lack of actually knowing what is going on in their lives. I have friends that I communicate with that I can laugh and joke with when inside I am crying. The beauty of the internet. You dont see their expression, or hear their tone of voice. Its very hard to know how to deal with this when the internet and the real world become mixed into one.
When you talked to her last, what was her frame of mind? How did she sound when she said goodbye?
I am guessing that for some reason she doesnt want to talk to you right now. So I suggest that you put your thoughts in an email and send it, asking her to let you know what is going on. Then there is nothing you can do really but wait and see what and when she responds. (the only other thing that I can think of is if perhaps you could call her sister or a friend and see if they know what is going on? good luck
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reader, cheannryl  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Maybe she's not into you at all,yeah..the truth hurts but face it.
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