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My ex told me to never contact her again because I said I was falling for her

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Question - (10 October 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 October 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Told my ex I regretted falling in love with her because it wasn't worth the heartbreak, she took it badly and told me never to contact her again. I know she still has feelings for me and I really upset her.

How long should I wait before talking to her again, I'm not trying to get her back with me, I'm happy to move on but we had an absolutely amazing friendship before we got together and I'd like that back, is it at all possible?

P.S She broke up with me

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (10 October 2010):

person12345 agony auntNo it's not possible. If she still has feelings for you then you're toying with her feelings by trying to keep her close. You're preventing her from moving on. You shouldn't try to contact her again, especially since you really hurt her feelings by being unnecessarily harsh.

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A female reader, Dorothy Dix Australia +, writes (10 October 2010):

Hi there. It really depends on why she broke off with you.

(1) What did you do wrong.

(2) How long did you go out.

(3) Was the breakup out of the blue.

(4) Had you two been fighting at the time.

(5) Did you make her jealous in some way.

(6) Did you drink a lot when you were out together.

Why doesn't she want you to contact her? What happened between you that's so bad?

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (10 October 2010):

Odds agony auntThis is probably something you should just let go. If she broke up with you, she just doesn't want to be with you or around you anymore.

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