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writes:I'm trying to get my girlfriend back and I've hit a crossroads... I've been doing the no contact thing for 2 weeks now and I was certain it would work because we do both love each other like crazy and the circumstances surrounding our break up were kinda trivial. I know it's getting to her because she's told her friends that she still loves me, etc. but here's my problem, since breaking up with her, I've been going out clubbing a lot just to enjoy myself and in the process, someone has taken a picture of me with a friend of mine who is a girl. Her friend has since said that this is an obvious attempt by me to make her jealous which it isn't and she has now said that she can't be bothered with me at all anymore, I'm glad in a sense that something like this is bothering her, it means she still cares but at the same time, I'm kinda worried that I've now ruined all chances of her getting back with me.So, girls... what kind of effect would this have on you? The picture in question is nothing more than a kiss on the cheek to a friend of mine, this friend is particularly less aesthetically pleasing to the eye than my ex(to put it nicely...) and my ex knows that she is just a friend, my ex has told her friends(who have since told me) that I'm obviously trying to make her jealous and it's annoying her(even though she broke up with me). Have I inadvertently ruined our chances of getting back together?Some relevant information is that I have told my ex I'm happy to move on and that I'm sorry we broke up but I can accept it. I just need to know how girls would react to this sort of thing, I really love her and I'm considering breaking the no contact rule and telling her exactly how I feel again in the hope that she'll realise I wasn't trying to make her jealous and that I still really really love her. If she wants to move on, why would she be annoyed at me being with other girls... One other major worry is that this sort of thing might drive her to do something stupid with another boy in attempt to make me jealous in counter.Thanks in advance
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reader, cheannryl  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 You're such a jerk,i'll say that if i'm your girl.
That friend of her says you're trying to make her jealous.duh!
If you want me back then why with the picture?you seem very happy and moving on,what are you up to?haha,it's just my reaction you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): Not sure she'll be able to get past u going out clubbing so often.
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