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We're getting close but he's got a girlfriend! What should I do?

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Question - (10 October 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2010)
A female Syrian Arab Republic age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi m 16yre old gal.i have been chatting this boy for 2 years.we have got many chances to see each other..but due to some problems everytime we havent met each other, until i met him lastnight(09-10-10).i wasn't suppose to get close to him..but something in him attracted me towards him and finally i happen to kiss him.dts my first kiss.now the problem is that boy z already in a relationship and i'm single.since then he has been testing me.n m unable to get him out of my mind.at the same time m feeling bad for his girlfriend.but i think i have fallen for him(even though m nt suppose to)n i have a feeling dt he likes me too..could u guys please tell me what i should do??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2010):

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hey thanks again.i think u guys were right.i deserv much better than him.he is not the right guy for me.so today i told him that i have a new boyfrnd n i dnt want him in my life.but it hurts a lot.n it hurts even much when he ddnt reply.ok fine i'll fell great after few days.n will laugh at this in the future.thank you guys a lot.if u guys ddnt help he would have made a fool out of me.thanx a tonne

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (12 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntYou need to stop all contact he is a player and you are going to get badly hurt if you keep going down this path, text him and tell him you are not going to be second best and whatever he says is not going to change your mind and ask him not to reply just to delete your number and not contact you again or you will tell his girlfriend am sorry darling but this needs to be done.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010):

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hey guys thanx a lot.but i dont think this working.i have asked him to breakup with his girl n he said he need sometime.n he z texting n calling me often.i cant stop myself from texting him.dammnn..he z always on ma mind.but i'll try to stay away from him..

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (10 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntwell first of you need to find out if he likes you aswell, and if he does then suggest that he breaks up with his girlfriend and the both of you can start dating, if he refuses to break up with his girlfriend then he is not interested he is just a player so stay away from him dont contact him, ignore him if he contacts you and find a man of your own.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010):

He's not married so he is fair game.

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A female reader, Honest_Answers United Kingdom +, writes (10 October 2010):

Honest_Answers agony auntBack away now. Boys with girlfriends are bad news - he's a cheater. If he broke up with her and got with you what would stop him cheating on you? Don't do the dirty on your fellow women - men are perfectly capable of doing that on their own. He's a rat - leave him.

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