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writes:So i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now. We used to argue alot (on and off). But everytime we learn from our mistakes and just learn how to manage our relationship better. But lately ive been having trouble with my mom. She was fine with him back then but i used to cry in my room all the time over him. and it breaks her heart to see it. Now she just doesnt approve of us. She mentioned a point that really bothers me as well. I am Chinese and my boyfriend is White(jewish). For 3 years i have never met his parents.. his parents are very traditional and only wants him to marry a jewish girl. my mom thinks that it isnt good to be with someone which the parent wont accept me. I need some advice... im only 21 but im not jsut fooling around with this guy. i want to build a future with him. i dont want to just live for the moment. i dont want to waste time on something that'll just lead to a dead end later on in my life. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): If this has been going on for three years and he hasn't introduced you to his parents then it sounds like it will never lead anywhere.
It sounds like you are upset all the time, so why stay with him if you are not happy?
Would you be willing to convert to Jewish? If you would, then maybe you could talk to him about it.
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