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writes:okay, so today i found out that my ex boyfriend has a baby on the way. He is going out with the babys mother and i know that sounds soo easy to understand, but its far more complicated. Me and him have always kinda been bf and gf. i started going out with him about 5 yrs ago and we went out for about a year and a half and it was my fault we broke up. He tried to get back with me for like a yr and i didnt want to, but as soon as i saw him move on, i wanted to get back with him so for about 3 yrs thats what i been trying to do. Hes had girlfriends but he always still comes back to me and i always take him back. Well this time around, he got a new gf which theyve been only dating for like 4 months and i just found out she was pregnant. what hurts the most is that me and him just hung out like a week ago and everything between us seemed to be going great. I know i should let go but i just cant. He was my first true love and its soo hard to deal with this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): tennisstar88, youre totally right. i guess i should be happy that im not the one pregnant. Thanks a lot :)
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 October 2010):
 Female ANON, I'm guessing your the OP...That my dear is because you grow weak and let him. Be a strong woman and put your foot down...No, I will not take him back for the millionth time, no, he won't weasel his way back into my life, no, I will not set myself up for more drama. Drama isn't necessary you have the power to avoid it. Bottom line, sorry he's knocked up another girl just be glad it isn't you, his hands will be tied with a newborn if he doesn't run and if he does now you know his true colors.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2010): i dont know how to get over him. i have tried soo many times, but he always ends up winning his way back in my life again.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (11 October 2010):
What do you mean kinda bf and gf? You either are together in a relationship or you aren't. There's no such thing as an implied relationship. It's not a smart idea to pursue an ex who has a girlfriend that is pregnant with his child. In the rarity, that he broke up with her and got back together with you, that ex will always be in his life because of the child they have together. Don't proceed you will only set yourself up for drama and disappointment. He's a "kinda" ex for a reason.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 You really have a bad case of "I want what I can't have"...
You CAN let go, you just don't want to... can't you see you've wasted enough time with this guy?
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