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How do I get more time with my LDR without actually asking for it?

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Question - (10 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2010)
A age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I've answered a few questions and I've stated how much of a sweetheart my long distance love is. He's sweet, kind, always makes me happy and full of laughter. He's cute, smarter then people give him credit for, makes sure im happy. He knows when something is wrong like im an open book or something. The past 6 years he knows me better then anyone... and everything even if i dont like it. We've only been in a relationship for a few months but i swear its been longer. Like he's "The one", My one, My forever.

But its hard for me even though i probably make it not seem like it. He's got an ex thats tries to screw him, girls hit on him, flirt with him. He'll tell me, i get jealous. But at least he knows better and says no or doesnt acknowledge it and knows that he's got girlfriend right? So i should be happy... and i am. Its just that i want him to spend time with me, he goes from school, homework, skateboards, and work. he'll get home where i can talk to him more.. and then he's tired a lot sooner now schools started. And i understand why. But i dont want to be selfish and keep him up, or from his friends and stuff.

I miss him more and more every day, and it hurts, but i dont want to be clingy or anything. I know i talk to him more then i think but my parents dont know i have a boyfriend, if they knew they'd freak. So i cant text I love you or I miss you or anything like that and that only makes it harder on both of us. I'm not sure what im asking, maybe im just venting. I'm at the point of crying when he goes to work or bed. He calls at 6am, just wanna cry knowing he's there even without saying anything, i love being in his pressence... ok no i know what im asking, How do i get more time with my LDR without actually asking for it?

Thank you very much for your time. Ami

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010):

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how do i ask him?we've been together almost 3mo and known each other almost 6 years...I just feel weird asking becuase he can tell when somethings wrong and ive hid this from him for a little over a week.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (10 October 2010):

Jmtmj agony aunt"How do i get more time with my LDR without actually asking for it?"

Guys have never been known for their mind-reading abilities..

If it upsets you so much then just ask him, clinginess be damned.

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