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writes:Hey everyone..Has there been anyone out here who liked someone and that someone was been in committed relationship!if yes please share your story and tell me how it ended?Ps:there is this guy I like let's call him x and his gf Y,so I really like x and he likes me too,he told my friend he wld date me if he was single..I don't want to be attracted to me as it is a taboo but I still am Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): You think nothing ever felt so right. You think nothing ever felt so wrong. You lose your self respect. And it ends with you alone and in pain with no one to blame but yourself. And you cant talk to anyone about it. The shame is huge. The self blame is worse. Dont do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): If he really likes you, then he'll leave the other girl. Until then do not pursue anything with this guy. Respect yourself by not becoming the "other woman". Every real woman deserves to be #1 in a man's life. Those women who accept less, well they not only have little respect for themselves but they don't respect other women either.
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (10 October 2010):
I´ve been in this situation. I was 20 and he was 28 and he neglected to tell me he was married until I caught him wearing his ring. That´s when I ended it. No more phonecalls, no nothing. Just the idea of his wife sitting there unawares her hubby is actually a cheat doesn't fly with me.
You have to think like this: if you can lure him away from his girfriend, chances are another girl will come along and will do the exact same thing to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): I was in a similar situation to you. I fell for a friend who had a girlfriend. One day he told me he had feelings for me and it was eating him up inside and had to tell me. I told him I felt the same but as long as he had a girlfriend nothing could happen. Anyway to cut a long story short he broke up with his girlfriend to be with me ... three years later we're happier than ever.
If he really likes you and wants to be with you he will break up with his girlfriend. Untill then, stay clear
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Stay far, far away from him. When I was seventeen, a twenty-one yr old told me he liked me. I was flattered and what not and really did like him. Then, his WIFE calls me after finding my number on his phone and proceeds to curse me out even though she KNEW he NEVER told me he was married with a son though that's the first thing I asked when he asked me out. So, he calls me days later to say sorry, he couldn't help himself, he had really wanted to get to know me and blah blah blah. I considered what he said and was (stupidly) tempted to stay friends as he suggested. But, I deleted and blocked his number and thanked the fates that we had gone no further than dinner. Don't ever put yourself in such a situation. If a man's taken, he's taken. Don't pursue. It's ok to be attracted-after all, we all drool over celebs in relationships and other men we find attractive. The thing is to stay away from the temptation to act on that attraction. Best of luck!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Ok well i would advise not to go near this guy and stay clear as there wont be a good ending believe me, unless he is willing to break up with his girlfriend for you dont go near him, because if you get with him and he is still with his girlfriend, you will be the one that is left hurt and alone.
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