A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:My husband and I had an arranged marriage and 3 kids. He is well educated and family man; however I do not feel that he is in love with me.Last summer, while in our native country, we had a nasty fight because of his mother intervention in our lives. He supported his mother. We fought in front of the kids and our domestic help and we talked about divorce.I felt betrayed. After coming back to the US, he told me that he loves me and he wants sex with me. However, given work and kid responsibilities and my unhappy and not really relaxing vacation, I do not feel the same way about him. I do not want sex with him. I do not have an affair but I feel detached emotionally. I feel that his mother and daughter from previous marriage always come before our kids and me. Please advise.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 October 2010):
 You've got to tell him how you feel. He should be putting you ahead of his mom. His daughter from his previous marriage must have an absolute prominant place in his life, but he should never undermine you. His goal with you and his daughter should be in making the effort to help you two co-exist together.
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