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He seems to stare at my house a lot and then he seems to avoid me

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Question - (10 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *arah261 writes:

hi i moved into this house in december 2009 i realised that the lad that lives across the road, i know him as he knew my brother before he was killed 7yrs ago. this lad didn't remember who i was my friend told this lad i fancied him and then he started avoiding me so i wrote him a letter to apolgise about what my friend said and that i was upset about him ignoring me because he knew my brother and that i would like it if we could just say hi when we sore each other he wrote me a letter back saying he was sorry about the way him and his brothers were treating me and that he remebers my brother and me he did say he wasn't intrested which i can accept and that he doesn't mind saying hi when we see each other. now 1yr and 10mth down the line he goes out of his house and sits at the front of his house when he has a fag and he is always looking over at the house and he also goes out of his way to make sure i bump into him at the shop and talk to me and then the next minute he will avoid me I don't know what to do or what he's doing. I hope you can advise me.

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A female reader, sarah261 United Kingdom +, writes (10 October 2010):

sarah261 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

this is extra information that male reader Jmtmj asked for yes he would be going to the same convenience store as me but I go at 7:45am in the morning his mum always goes to the shop at this time not him and she isn't ill or anything and there is 4 other people in the house that could have gone. And no he doesn't normally look over at my house constantly, when he talks to me he asks how i am and what ive been doing and i ask him if he is ok and he tells me what he's been doing and stuff i think its just him being friendly its just unusual for him thats all, thanks for your answer anyway

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (10 October 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntHe goes out of his way to make sure you bump into him at the shop... How so? What makes you think he is going out of his way? I only ask because he does live just opposite you... he's gonna be going to the same convenience shop as you and he's naturally gonna be looking out at your house a lot if its right in front of his... Am I making sense?

More info? What does he say to you when you talk?

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (10 October 2010):

YouWish agony auntSounds like he's borderline creepy and lacks social skills. My skin would crawl if someone were acting that way towards me.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (10 October 2010):

YouWish agony auntSounds like he's borderline creepy and lacks social skills. My skin would crawl if someone were acting that way towards me.

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