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writes:im stuck here and i need help even thought i think ive got the answer on my own! i just want to know what others think. i postded an article like this only a few hours ago as i have only registered for a day or two, then i noticed i had stated myself as a male! lol. anyways my story is, im a 13 year old girl, dating a 15 yer old male. i think we work well and i actually think i love him. i feel like i want to be with him the rest of my life, but i cant say that yet im only 13. we have had some sexual activity, not sex itself as im obviously not ready but i think about it everyday as any teenager must, i just think about it alot and i dont really know what to think anymore. my friends think hes just another boyfriend as ive went through alot to be honest, and i have a reputation of playing them about but i think im being serious with this guy. he has the tanned skin, black hair, blue eyes.. just the appearance i dream for in a boy. my parents really like this guy and i do too. i feel like we are going to last i just want to know what you people think of this. do you think its love? Reply to this Question
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reader, one girl, thousands of questions. +, writes (12 October 2010):
one girl, thousands of questions. is verified as being by the original poster of the question i suppose both these answers are true, it might not be love but im making myself belive it is, i talked to him about it and it ended up in an arguement and now he thinks i dont really love him.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 No, I think this sounds like regular teenager infatuation. He's just the cutest guy you have been able to catch so far, and if all of a sudden he should lose his hair or his tan, your love would sensibly fade.
Said that , I agree with the other respondent. You are only 13 , you are happy, he is happy, even your parents are happy... why investigating too deply. Enjoy it while it lasts , and if it does not ,you'll anyway cherish the memories .
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reader, Odds  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 I'd have a hard time saying so. Normally, what I see from people your age is better called "infatuation," which is really just hormones making us act like idiots.
On the other hand, our ability to pair-bond is strongest at that impressionable age - and decreases a little with every subsequent relationship. It may be real love, and first loves may be the strongest of all. I honestly don't know if I'd say kids your age are capable of seperating love from infatuation, or even of feeling more mature love.
What I can say for certain is this: if the relationship is healthy, making the two of you happier, inspiring you both to be better people, and you're keeping a cool head about sex - well, screw labels. You've got a good thing going.
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