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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend and I have dated for almost 2 years. Well, I feel that we are more like friends than lovers. He won't even kiss me, as in french kiss me. We have kissed before but since months ago he has shown no interest in kissing me passionately. I actually questioned him and all he has to say is "save it for marriage". I get frustrated with him sometimes. I mean we are those who do not believe in pre-marital sex but french kissing is like, okay right? I have feelings and desires but he doesn't seem to care. I really want my relationship to be slightly more physical (not to the point of sex) but I don't know how to ask/tell him again as I already had. Please please tell me how to approach him regarding this issue:( Thank you!
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (10 October 2010):
Hi well just be honest with him tell him that you miss how things were and you feel like he is not as interested in you anymore as he doesnt kiss you or show you affection, there is plenty of affection you can give each other without having sex, enjoy evenings in cuddled up watching a film ensure that there is lots of kisses and cuddles, if he is not taking the hint then you hug him first and you start the kiss and hopefully he will soon get that there needs to be more physical contact to keep things fresh between you.
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