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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Readers,I have been dating the same girl for slightly over a year now. We are a great couple fell in love, moved in together. I am also her first real boyfriend. We also had our problems with communication this summer, more or less it broke down, and we didnt know how to communicate our issues healthy with each other. Well that resolved it self with practice and hard work. But we are once again at another difficult point in our relationship. We are currently living two hours apart and she is going through a phase ( I believe) where she doesnt know if I am the right guy, or if she wants to be in a long term relationship. We have talked about it a decent amount in the last month, and she seems happy about everything in our relationship but she just doesn't know if she wants to date me. I love her to death, and I know she loves me, but she says shes just not feeling it anymore. But from my perspective she is 13 out of 14 days, its like shes perfectly ok with things, and we talk about something and this comes up. I always just try to point out that shes happy with everything, and its just her fear of commitment. I just don't know what to do anymore, I love this girl with all of my heart, and I dont want to lose out on what we have. Please help.Thank you,A concerned boyfriend.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 October 2010):
 Hi well dont worry as if she loves you she will come back to you, if she needs to clear her head then give her some time to do that, believe me if she loves you she will come back, it could also be that there is distance between you both at the moment and this might be setting doubts in her mind as you dont get to see each other as often anymore. Tell her you love her and that if she needs space to sort her head then you are willing to do that and stand by her, insure her that you love her and you will wait for her. Goodluck
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