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I'm ready for sex! Now where's the boyfriend?

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Question - (10 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My problem, in a nutshell, is that I feel ready to have sex but I do not have a boyfriend.

I feel like I have reached a point of emotional maturity where I know myself and my body very well and I am also very knowledgeable when it comes to protection and sex in general. I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember and have explored it is so many different ways, but now, I feel like it has almost become boring and monotonous in a way and I crave to actually feel pleasure at the hands of another person. However, I am single. Over the past few years I have come to accept that I am simply one of them people that does not get into relationships easily due to shyness and I have never even had a relationship yet (which is just a whole other problem). But, I am pretty certain that this problem won't be completely solved without a partner so it kind of links. By the way, please do not think that I just want a relationship for sex :D

So, what I'm asking for advice on is basically how to deal with the boredom and loneliness? Or even some help with the shyness x relationship problem? Thanks in advance :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010):

You need to speak to my friend, relationship advisor bartmaverick.

PM him.....

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (11 October 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntBest post title ever, lol

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