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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get rid of this flu bug???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Sorry this isn't a relationship question, but I have had awful flu for nearly four days and it's really getting me down. I haven't been out of the house and not been at work and I feel lonely and miserable with a terrible cough and sore chest that simply won't ease no ... (65 words)

I want to add my teacher to Facebook!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I tried to add a teacher that I think I love and I mean honestly love on facebook last year and he declined because he obviously wasn't allowed, but I didn't know that teachers werent allowed to accept students on the site, at the time. He said he was leaving at the end of last ... (172 words)

Is there such thing as a much too sweet guy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is there such thing as a much too sweet guy? I'm dating a great guy he sends me good morning texts. Buys me stuff for no reason and makes me art pieces and makes sure I'm okay but I'm kinda aggravated by him. I'm so used to being neglected and stuff and now that I have a really ... (83 words)

Advice needed. How can I get him to last longer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I are sexually active and he'll only "hold up" for less than 5 mins.. I get "wetter" than normal and we're not using any protection.. he'll pull out when he starts to cum though.. how do we prevent this and make him last longer.?... (47 words)

I struggle to have a good conversation with women...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and I struggle to have a good conversation with women. I talk to guys I know and they say they just click with their girlfriends when it comes to talking wih them. Most/all people seem to meet several/a lot of people that they can talk to about anything, but in reality, ... (126 words)

How do you know how to trust when different doctors tell you different things???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

- How do you know how to trust when different doctors tell you different things, as well as pharmaists? My male doctor tells me that when you start on the pill you are not protected until you finish at least one full pack, if not 2 packets, just to be on the safe side. Howev... (242 words)

I slept with my best friend... I need to get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - OK... So I slept with my friend (Ultimate mistake!!) And of course, me being the chick, I started to have feelings for him.I thought we could have been really good together and I know he did at one stage too cuz he told me. Anyway, I have totally ruined things between us cuz I ... (716 words)

I just feel like a loser...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started going out with this guy around halloween time last year, not that long ago. We met on a uni night out he seemed really interested as did his friend in me, but I told him straight away I had a boyfriend. I really started to like him and since my bf at the time wasnt as... (383 words)

In love with my ex-girlfriend who is horny for other guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my ex-girlfriend who broke up with me in August. We're in high school and she switched schools and called me up the other day to tell me she loved me and always will. We had some phone sex conversations, and we both talked about how much we loved each other. ... (146 words)

Any first date tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - ok people i need helppp!! i am going on a first date with a guy i've liked for sooooo long, and i am sooooooooooo nervous!! i'm just out a 5 year relationship, we never really done the whole dating thing, anyway what do i say, what do i wear? what do i NOT say. we're going to ... (104 words)

First time jitters...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been speaking to a guy from my hometown over msn for a few months. We are arranging to meet up for the first time soon. We are both virgins and feel ready now to lose my virginity. Although I'll point out that it wont be the first time we meet that we do have sex. He has ... (104 words)

My boyfriend is so lovely... so why do I feel so insecure???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 months. He is 23, out of school, smart, successful, and wonderful to me. I'm 18, and a college student. This is both of our first relationships. Sometimes though, I feel really insecure. I know he loves me and I know he wants ... (143 words)

Should I still play hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I would like to have answers from guys! We saw each other 3 times as we are both very busy but also because I went for Xmas break for 2 weeks. He seems to be a nice guy and interested. he texts me every other day. We met on online dating. The thing is we slept t... (412 words)

Something so insignificant suddenly becomes all you can think about...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I've been here before a few times. This question is a kind of a follow up from one before where I was wanting to get back in contact with a guy, but here is basically my question. Ever started thinking of someone who you think is pretty insignificant, then somehow you... (116 words)

Is my ex boyfriend trying to get over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Am pregnant and alone. Father of baby denies his child so wants DNA. I said fine to that. No issue. He has been on/off, hot and cold..he said if baby doesn't come out as his he is gone and hope you are happy. I never replied cos I found this damn right disrespectful. I think he ... (210 words)

Question for the male aunts!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - A question for guys... do you prefer to make the first move or do you like the girl to do it?... (21 words)

I just want to get away from everything...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know where to start. I just feel really down. Basically, over the last few weeks the health of my grandparents has massively deteriorated putting strain on my family. They're all dependant on us. At the moment one set is in hospital with different problems... (377 words)

What happens next???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok im not quite sure what to do, my gf is a 18 im 21, and we basically had it worked out so that i would put things on hold until she finished college so we could live together and she got her education, then she would take a year out so i could finish what i need to finish and ... (188 words)

Is he a cheat?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is he a cheat... A few months ago mY partner went out in town and he got drunk and I didn't know where he was! I was ringing him and he wasn't answering and then his phone went off about an hour after I was constant ringing him. He came home the next day and said he had stayed ... (151 words)

What is the most common reason for a man losing interest in sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) age - What is the most common reason for a man losing interest in sex? And how common is that? My husband has no sexual interest in me. Well, I don't think he cares about anybody else, totally no interest in sex.. NOW, is it possible that he just shot down with me, but if he would ... (130 words)

I keep having these weird feelings... am I pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and recently lost my virginty to my boyfriend of 7 months now, I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or not but I keep having these weird feelings, could you guys help me out? I know the best way would be going to the doctors or taking a home pregnancy test but I'm not ready to ... (208 words)

I want some ideas on how to give my boyfriend the best 26th birthday ever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey i just want some ideas on how to give my boyfriend the best 26th birthday ever! Last year i suprised him and organised a fishing trip for him to go on. But i want to top this one. I've got a semi tight budget, but unlike last year i actually have a job now (which seems to ... (167 words)

Thought I wanted a no strings relationship but only with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so here's the situation. I am recently seperated from my husband, and started talking to this guy at work. He told me he had a girlfriend. So i chalked it up to harmless flirting. After a while the flirting became more serious. I know that him and his girlfriend were having ... (616 words)

Did that pain in my heart mean that much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I actually need your help. Im confused so much and Im seriously getting upset about it. There is this boy and don't stop reading this.. this isnt just some teenage matter. I fancied him for so long, like 2 years and i tried everything to get him to like me. We used to sit in ... (293 words)

How do I break it to him I'm a virgin and he's going to have to take things slow the next time I see him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently flew home for the holidays and got speaking on msn to a friend of a friend who'd asked me out for a drink a few months ago (but I'd never met up with him, as I had never seen him in person and asked my friends who had met him what he was like in person, and they told ... (347 words)

Break ups to make ups, why?????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I were togehter for 5 years. We both put each other through alot, till one day i threw her out. I didn't realize what I had till it was gone and begged her to come home. She decided to move out. I would see her every week and ask her if she was dating anyone ... (209 words)

I don't want to misinterpret his niceness, but does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help! I've been talking to this guy and i'm not sure if he likes me or not. I just want to be careful and not make an idiot out myself and misinterpret his actions. So far he's IMed me and talked to me and asked me about what im interested in. The second day I IMed ... (167 words)

I need some ideas for good sex toys for couples!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if anyone could recommend good sex toys for couples to use. I use to have a vibrator, which I liked, but have not had one in a long time. My current partner (who I have been with for several years) feels that I should not need a vibrator...that it means he is ... (113 words)

Will my moobs get bigger than my belly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Every year over xmas and new years I gain weight without trying. This year I gained more than ever and ended up 6kgs fatter. Although some of this weight has gone to my belly (which is a bit bigger) a lot of my weight has gone to my chest, which has really ballooned. I did... (107 words)

Masturbating tools?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - how to masterbate and what with what is good for people who dnt feel things easily.... (16 words)

I think I'm in the "why buy the milk?" situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 years old and my bf of 3 yrs (25) is really dragging his feet on the engagement issue. Since we started dating there has been so much discussion about our future, our children, where we'll live, etc. We've been living together for over 2 years, and I know he loves me ... (157 words)

I can never be bothered to make the first move

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i've completely lost my sex drive and i dont know why. i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, lived together for 1 year and for the past 4 months i have no sex drive whatsoever. Dont get me wrong, once we start having sex i really enjoy it but its like i cant be bothered... (145 words)

I might be the rebound? Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been only dating for 2 months All of November and December but him and his girlfriend still talked during middle of Oct. He says im not the rebound but i think i am, he started dating me only a month after they broke up, but he was SO angry with her and ... (401 words)

Help! What does he want???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - About 8 months ago, I met a boy called Gareth. We instantly got on, and were going out within a month. We were together for about a month, I lost my virginity to him. He had pretty bad anger issues and that's why we split. He'd recently come out of a 10 month relationship ... (298 words)

My boyfriend says my vagina is too loose!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been sexually active with my boyfriend (I also lost my virginity to him) for about a year and a half now. A few days ago I played with my PC muscles when he was inside me and he said it feels wonderful, and then proceeded to tell me that it was the first time for a few ... (114 words)

Confusion over the kids!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5339 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Should I call it quits? I know everyones answer will prob be yes straight away but here goes. I met my now second Husband in a bar May 2008 we had a lot in common he was charming and made me laugh. we both had children of the same age 3 and 5 and he was in the process of split... (463 words)

Is a condom enough to help keep me from getting the virus?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've met a guy who told me that he has genital herpes. He takes Valtrex, and hasn't had an outbreak in two years. I do like him but don't know if taking a risk to have sex with him would be worth it. He says he has only gotten outbreaks on his actual penis. He has had long ... (129 words)

My boyfriend is on online dating sites and I'm NOT happy about it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, I'm 28 and we love one another and we're living together but there are a few things I'm not happy about our relationship. He loves going out and barely asks me to go out together. Also I found that he uses online dating an... (111 words)

Should I call him and arrange to meet up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy at a training course through my workplace. He walked me to the station everyday over the 2 weeks and I felt so comfortable being around him, he was so easy to talk to and we had a lot in common. Each day, when we were around other people he was quite shy with me ... (370 words)

What can I do to regain her trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She had emotionally cheated on me with this other guy... she had been lying to me about a lot of things. I didn't trust her, so I hacked into his email. She said she was done talking with him, but the emails showed otherwise. I confronted her about it and she realizes she... (108 words)

Why don't I feel bad about losing a baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'll keep this short and simple, I had a miscarriage but I don't feel bad. The man I was pregnant by and I are not on speaking terms any more. All I feel is relief. I didn't wish for this to happen, but am I wrong to not feel bad?... (51 words)

Why do some people never see others pain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F) age - I have 3 drug addict children. They are doing it since 14. They are in their twenties right now. Me and my husband tried everything, and nothing helped. Ourselves, we never did anything, what could cause such a bad outcome? We never been showing any bad example, or abuse them. ... (254 words)

Should I be upset about the mens magazines?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently talked to my boyfriend, last chrsitmas he brought home some "men's magazines" from home and had them in our bathroom. Technically I guess they weren't considered porn, but i think they were as they had naked girls EVERYWHERE. Anyway, so i asked him if he buys p... (277 words)

I have a crush on my male gay friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on a friend he's gorgeous, short brown spikey hair, tanned skin, blue eyes, strong jaw line, has a beautiful body. But the thing is he's gay. But he's the perfect match for me I swear (well if he was straight) we treats me really nicely, we both love the same ... (180 words)

I want no strings sex - but only with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

Life is passing me by. I'm a virgin, I'm alone and I hate my job.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a straight male aged 21 years old. I live in a small town in the south of the Netherlands. I still live with my parents and i've got a job as an IT networking specialist. I really hate my job, but i see no other options. I've got a lot of friends who are doing fine. Some of ... (254 words)

I want to help my friend but I don't know who is in the right in this situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - In June 2008 my friend accused his mum of having an affair with her best friend. This caused close family members to all fall out. At this time my friends mum said she wasn’t having an affair but then in may 2009 my friends mum admitted having an affair in February 2009. My ... (254 words)

Whenever it comes to arranging to meet me he always has an excuse, is he playing games with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im really confused i have been texting this bloke for 2 months now and have seen him twice but when ever it comes to meeting again he changes the subject and tells me he has crazy stuff going on but is still texting me. im new back to dating as only started recently after a ... (75 words)

What does a break really mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend been together for 5 months,well My boyfriend said he wanted a break;; but he still wants to see me,he said "he is just stress" but not from me... i dnt understand why we are taking a break,if he still wants me to come over everyday.. Im so confused... (59 words)

If I cheat on my boyfriend how will it affect me if I never tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me an my bf are going on 4months. And for either of us this is a big deal. But I have been talking to this other guy corey and I am starting to get feelings for him. We talk more than my boyfriend and now I think that me and my bf are just too comfortable in our ... (197 words)

Are these signs that my mother is gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - There are some rumors going around our town that my mother is gay. She dismisses these rumors, but the entire town, including her parents and me believe she is. She won't go anywhere unless her "friend" goes with her, and its always the same person. When my stepdad is in, she ... (189 words)

All my boyfriends think I am too unpredictable! Can I ever change and get my boyfriend to like me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one] Question 1. ok here goes...iv always been quite insecure..mainly because my dad had quite a few affairs.. Iv had 2 serious boyfriends-both who finished the relationship after a year. ... (264 words)

I put so much effort into this relationship and I feel like I am the only one who is trying to make it work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So, I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. We're in a long distance relationship, and that needs work, but we agreed we would try to make it work. I live about 8 hours away by car, and by using the plane I can be back where he is in 30 minutes. Plane t... (620 words)

Every time I give him the option of breaking up he says he doesn't want to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have bee together for 4 yrs. most recently we had a huge fight and decided to go our seperate ways, because he dosent have a job and I my own bills and cant always help him when he needs it. I am 21 and hes 22 and both us are used to get our way with each ... (199 words)

Does he think am a SLU*T?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been texting this guy.. hes real sweet and sexy.. and ive been proper flirty..cos am like that naturally.. now am scared maybe he thinks am easy cos he just asked for exclusive pic and i text him i dont do them kinda pics.. i texted him that i was not easy an... (151 words)

Husband looking at porn sites rating wives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

5 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Is it normal for a man to be looking at a porn sight which focuses on other adults rating videos posted in of them having sex with their wives (it is actually called something that is about rating wives) when he has only been married less than a year?? He also told his da... (120 words)

Sometimes he's into me, other times he's just cold

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - does this guy like me? sometimes he's really into me and others he's just cold. When we are having a blast we laugh, he nudges me leg or foot or something, tells me im funny and once i told him a story from my childhood when i thought i was invisible and he always seems to go ... (93 words)

I think my teacher may be attracted to me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i think my teacher might be attracted to me, i see him all the time and we're pretty close. some things he has said or done: told me i am beautiful, cute, said i had a nice arse, once he even said i was orering him around like a married couple. Lately he's also been touching ... (86 words)

Is this real or just a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months thing were great until I found out not only is she still texting her ex but apparently she stopped seeing him only two weeks before she started seeing me. Their relationship ended because he showed another lady a little too much ... (167 words)

My husband has virtually no people skills and I am growing tired of it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Here's one for you. My husband treats me and the kids like gold. No complaints there. He treats our extended families well and also my friends. Notice I wrote my friends - he has none. He's a prick to pretty much everyone else in the world. He's a prick at his work, at ... (233 words)

I made a mistake whilst my girlfriend and I had split up, now there is a chance she could find out! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - About a year ago, my girlfriend, of about a year at the time and i, broke up, i stupidly got drunk to deal with it and slept with a girl who id been friends with and known for a while. I hated myself for it after and my girlfriend and i got back together after about 3 weeks. I... (145 words)

I asked him where I stand with him but I still have no idea what he means!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Thanks before hand for any answers. I've posted before about the situation i am in. But things have changed. So chatting to some guy for about 2 months, known him for like 3 years, we have like a online realtionship, you know the one, staying up for hours, sending p... (483 words)

My boyfriend and his ex are too close for my liking, is he messing around with her when he goes to visit his son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a relationship with a man who's baby momma will only let him see his kids if he goes to her house.. he has sworn to me he isn't messing with her while he is there but im not sure. she texts him all hours sending him pics of him holding his son sayn how the baby miss him ... (153 words)

My wife and I are giving our relationship another chance after we both had affairs, how can we move on from this and let go of the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi to all the people who answered my previous questions, about my affair and my wifes affair. We have got back together, we are both anxious, we both have trust issuse's, we both feel crushed. We are letting go of the past, after taking out the understanding of how we were ... (104 words)

My girlfriend wont tell me she loves me or show any affection towards me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl and i have been going out for over 8 months. We really get along but the only snag in our relationship is that she doesnt tell me she loves me and she doesnt allow me to hold her or stay close to her. I know that she loves me but not hearing it or seeing it from her ... (72 words)

Could my ex be starting to develop feelings for me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were together for 10 months and in that time we broke up once or twice and he would all ways come back to me. He would say he made a mistake and loves me and wants me back. We broke up again 3 weeks ago he dated another girl but it only lasted a day. He ... (184 words)

My man has done a disappearing act, will he come back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for about a month, he's expressed a lot of interest in me and it's been going great and we get on really really well. But I haven't seen him for almost a week, or heard from him for a couple of days and I'm starting to worry. I noticed after New ... (343 words)

How do I cope with the break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of a year and half and I are breaking up. The hardest part about it is that I'm pregnant and pretty much due any day. Its not a life I want to bring my baby into, and I wish it didn't have to be like this. We still love each other, but the problems we've been ... (78 words)

I really want another baby but I don't want to push my boyfriend into it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 19 years i have 2 year old girl ive not long told my boyfriend that i want another baby i told him just a few months b4 xmas just gone and i was going to stop taking my pill December but we both decaded not to until after xmas wall from then we havent talked about it and ... (125 words)

Is it a good idea to ignore him for a few months so he will eventually give up on me and I can move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

Should I stick with my long distance relationship or choose the other guy who lives in the same city as me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this problem I'm eighteen years old and I am already making mistakes when it comes to my relationship stats. I am a girl who has internet relationships and keeps them. My recent boyfriend Ryan who I have been talking and having a connection with for the past 8 months. We ... (547 words)

I'm still living with my ex and hoping we get back together, but I am getting so paranoid she is seeing someone else!

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Well, me and my ex were together for 3 years and we live together. We broke up a few months ago due to trust issues on both sides, but continued to live together. Almost straight after we broke up, she admitted that she had started seeing someone else. That ended as apparently ... (287 words)

I'm too afraid to come out because my family wont understand, is there a way to make me straight again?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi Anne, i am 20 years old now and have been very confused with my sexuality.hope you can help me out. well my story goes this way... i was about 7 maybe when i had my first physical relationship with another guy. i was kind of feminine and also loved wearing my sister's clot... (238 words)

My first time was not a good experience and now has me doubting that I might be gay!

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im 20 yrs old and im wondering if am i gay??? because i just lost my virginity to a girl complete stranger i dont know i just met her and did it. i thought the sex was gonna be real good cause its my first time but it wasnt hers and it was good but not how i imagined it or seen ... (271 words)

The pain from the terrible relationship with my first love came back after 3 years without warning, is this normal?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My first love used me and killed me emotionally for over a year and the pain after 3 years came back without warning. Is it normal for it to resurface without a trigger and after so long. ... (37 words)

How can I stop my feelings for my cousin?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a feelings for my cousin.And I'm sure that it is more than crush.I want to beak my feelings for him and I also want to share my feelings with him.Now please...someone help me what should I do? ... (39 words)

Is he just a mummy's boy or am I being unfair?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I may have the chance to get a job as a couple managing a private house in a new area. The only thing is, my partner is reluctant to leave his elderly mother who was widowed a year ago. He tends to chauffeur her around at weekends. She is fairly active but ... (106 words)

What should I do about my ex wanting me back?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About 2-3 months ago I broke up with my ex for many reasons.We were together almost 3 years. About 2 weeks after splittling up I started talking to a new guy which eventually led to dating. New guy was great! however...whenever I was with the new guy I was thinking about the ... (392 words)

A married man has been pressuring me for sex. What do you think he meant by his last comment?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with a married man who is 29 years older than I. I met him at my work place 3 years ago. I am a nurse married and he is a physician. Anyway, we started to become really close. We started going out, texting, and sending pics to each other. Things started ... (229 words)

I don't want to mislead anyone so can someone help me decide?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my gf in 2008 cos my ex-wife and I decided to try to make our relationship work cos we have 2 children together and were married for 14 years. We went back to arguing etc which proved to be unhealthy for us all - we are now apart since beginning of 2009. My e... (206 words)

Why would my partner be masturbating while they were asleep?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - has anyone ever caught their spouse masterbating while they thought you were asleep ?... (14 words)

He shattered my heart but should I still hang in there?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have a long history, we;ve been together for a year but we were best firends for 2 years before he asked me out , i recently foung out he had been messageing other women on a site called my year book , i found it on his computer , when i read what was being ... (296 words)

It's complicated...

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a complete mess. I'm going to try to explain this as easy as possible, but there's a lot to explain... Hoping someone can understand and help... Let me explain first that I am 35 years old and my clock is ticking and I really want to have a family well before I tur... (1612 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm lying about my bra size. Should I be pissed?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend doesnt believe I wear a size d or double-d bra, I know he was just saying that because he wants to see my boobs, but for some reason I got really pissed about it. Is it normal for me to get mad at him?... (46 words)

Is this strange behavior for a guy?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so confused! This guy is so different from every other man ive ever met,and I have no idea how to take him.Ive known him for a year.We agreed to be just friends,because he claims he doesnt want a commitment.This was after we were already doing mainly everything a couple ... (303 words)

What the hell does he want? I'm tired of being the one that always gets hurt!

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex were together for 2yrs, and we have been split up for 4 months now. Well its not only the two of us, he has a daughter as well. We had plans of marriage and kids the big happy family thing... His daughter calls me mom beacuse I am the only mother figure in her life ... (714 words)

Why won't he commit to anything when he loves me?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I meant this guy over 5 years ago,he became a close friend and I ended up falling in love with him and he fell in love with me. During the time I meant him I was in a horrible relationship that I was having a hard time getting out of. To say the least I hurt him because I could ... (205 words)

Why am I scared to be alone with him?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - k so ive liked this guy for 6 months and he likes me back and were pretty sure we love each other, and we just made out for the first time on new years, but it was my first time and i was drunk but when im sober im scared to even hold his hand or be alone with with, why is ... (230 words)

Anyone have an inkling of why my ex is like this?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I miss my ex.I try to think of the negative but I only end up thinkin bout how much fun we had. I want to feel that I've done everything to try to make things right.I thought I did but I still feel drawn to him. Its been 6 mo since we've broken up.I guess we went too fast a... (318 words)

My dream pretty much came true, how could this happen?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - well, heres my problem.. i have a girlfriend.. that im totally in love with.. she loves me.. we been together for 12 months, and the other day i had a dream that my step cousin wanted to have sex with me and she was sitting in my room naked! but last night i was talking to her ... (91 words)

What can I do to prove to her it's the real deal?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with my best friend. We've know each other for years (13 to be exact). She knows. She says that she is afraid of losing me when I've made it abundantly clear that nothing, and I mean nothing, could make that happen. I love her too much to just leave her b/c we ... (388 words)

Can I get birth control without my parents knowing?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to get a perscription 4 birth control w/ out my parrents finding out? Do doctors always tell ur parents about that stuff?... (26 words)

What's the best way to "hook up" with him again?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so theres this guy i kinda like, he's my friends brother and everyone thinks he's a total freak. I madeout w/ him a few times befor, but now that i dont hangout w/ his sister anymore i never get a chance 2 makeout w/ him. we go 2 the same skool and we have 1 class 2gether ... (95 words)

Will I find a girl I like inside and out?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well Ive never had a girlfriend, but i have liked girls a lot, the last one that i liked a lot, was because she looked beautiful inside and out, she was smart(she beat me in chess xD), funny and and i liked her a lot, well she was one of those girls that are extremely ... (317 words)

Can't stop thinking about this other guy...

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 26 years old and have been dating my current boyfriend for over 2 years. We had a long distance relationship for most of our time together and started living together a year ago. Since moving in together, the relationship has gotten too comfortable, boring. He only ... (456 words)

How can you tell if you are hemorrhaging?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help and I don't know who to go to. My question is... How can you tell if you are hemorrhaging? I let my friends make feel insecure about my virginity. So, like a dummy I went out and bought a dildo. It's heavy and glass and I've never been penetrated by anything... (215 words)

Help!!! How do I get him to notice me?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So there is this guy... I think he is so cute and sweet but i think he has changed since high school. Normally i wait till the guy notices me but he is this big hot shot in football at his college now and when he comes around he makes me so nervous i just say hey hug him and go ... (127 words)

How can I make sex more pleasurable for her?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been having sex for a little over two months. at first it was really painful for her now it just is when we start or if we go too long. she loves doing it but its not pleasurable for her at all shes turned on and we're trying new stuff and going over ... (90 words)

I like a teacher... more than I should... what do I do?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so. I've had a crush on a teacher for probably 3 years-ish. He's a mentor of mine and has been since coming to my new school. I'm in grade 12 this year and he is 29 so obviously there's a bit of an age gap but I have a lot of feelings for him. I've tried to shake them ... (514 words)

Do I wait and see if she comes back to me...?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, so before i get started ill give a little back story. 2 years ago i met this girl at work who i thought was the most beautiful thing i have ever seen, so far out of my league(mainly because i have severe self confidence issues, even though every woman who knows ... (761 words)

A guy wants me to move in after a week of talking.

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I work as a hair stylist and a guy that I have cut his hair for a few months started talking and teasing with me. When he would ask for my number I would not give it to him. I ended up giving it to him and we started texting each other. I was engaged to another man that I ... (260 words)

Our whole relationship has been one big lie! Help!

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i recently found out through a friend that my girl friend of 3 years has a AdultfriendFinder sliver membership, according to her profile shes been with 10 guys off there in the past year and also had a 3some, she has videos up using a toy that i made for her it was something ... (142 words)

Advice please! I don't know what to do about my boyfriend...

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I don’t know what to do with my boyfriend! He has everything I could ever want in a guy- nice, very much like me, adorable, caring, loving, funny, hot, fun, and I feel like he is practically my best friend. I can share anything with him and we can be ourselves around each ... (379 words)

How do you stop jealousy?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you stop jealousy? There's a girl I'm great friends with and I really like her but she's not interested. It's really painful to hear her talking about going on dates and the sex she's having and stuff. To make matters worse she keeps going back to this same bloke who ... (166 words)

He has not texed me or called me which he does whenever we have an argument, what should I do?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am gay and was in a relationship with my best friend for about 6 months we have know each other for about 1 year and a half. I told him about 6months ago that I care for him deeply and I am in love with him. He first said that he love me to but like a brother a... (688 words)

Why is he staring at me now more than ever?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Today was my crush/friend R was acting totally weird. I gave him a gift before vacation! Today was the first day of school after vacation and everything was normal. Then I was in the computer lab and R walked by after lunch and while he was walking he stared at me like he ... (190 words)

Help! I want to tell him I love him but am scared I push him away...

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i been seeing this guy for 5 months now. we have known each other for 2 years as friends. he was divorced bout a year and half ago. he was hurt horribly. so he is leary now. which is understandable. the thing is, i love him, and i want to tell him. i am not sure if i ... (93 words)

I spent all night feeling guilty...

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - It's my birthday and I'm having a little party with my family. My uncle leaves early tomorrow to another state (to his house) and another uncle of mine is taking him to the airport tomorrow morning. They both came to my house today and I was preparing myself because I had just ... (549 words)

Why is it I cannot get a boyfriend?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 black longish hair blue eyes pale skin rosy cheeks. Sorta petite at 5'3 with c-cup boobs slim legs and not too thin but not fat either im very intellegent ambitious love movies and music i do irish dancing and have a few close friends who describe me as nice funn... (171 words)

Widowed and lonely...

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5 January 2010 (F)

age - Over a year ago, my husband of 28 years died. I did not realize how lonely and vulnerable I was until now. Four months ago I met a man on the bus that I enjoyed talking to every day for a 30 minute bus ride. Once I accepted his invitation to lunch, he kept stalling and said ... (351 words)

Help!!! AM I jealous???

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend says I'm jealous. Here's why he may think so: he's still good friends with his ex (and her entire family) and goes to visit her at work and her home. She takes him to concerts and invites him out, but doesn't include me. At the same time, he's annoyed that I ... (273 words)

I want to see how he's doing but it's been 9 years!

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About 9 years ago I met a guy that still has my heart or maybe my mind. He was the first guy that gave me the butterfly feeling. He was also the first guy to make my heart ached. We didn't have an established relationship, we were getting very comfortable with talking on the ... (353 words)

Do I have a chance with him?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I likes a girl without knowing it and i was sure a lot of the time it was just because the both of us were so shy that nothing was happening. His aunt who hes really close to told me he loves me one day jokingly but she seemed really serious beneath it all and i was asked a few ... (327 words)

In love with two amazing women...

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and in a long term relationship with my 1st girlfriend (just over a year) about 6 months ago I starting having feelings for a woman I work with and we starting flirting. At 1st I just selfishly enjoyed the attention and then my feelings changed and I fell in love with ... (175 words)

Best form of birth control?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've recently decided to pick the option of going on birth control. Both to be safe and because my period kills me most of the time (as i'm sure it does with every girl). However, I also want to be very sure of the type of birth control I go on. I wanted to avoid Bloatin... (141 words)

She's only fine with me when her boyfriend's not around... why is she doing this?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, I'm a little frustrated right now. So I really like this girl I met at college a few months ago. found out she had a Boyfriend, so I forced myself to presume she was straight. Wrong. After ignoring me for nearly 2 months, deliberatly not looking at me, not saying anything ... (351 words)

Threesome upset.

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Good day all, Well, here is my issue. I have been married for 13 years to a wonderful man. I also have a best friend who I have been friends with for 8 years. We all are together all of the time, me and my husband and her and her husband. We are all very close. Over the... (435 words)

Help!!! I'm scared!

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5 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - what if my bf had a small amount of visible cum on his fingers and then fingered me? it has been 11 days since my period ended. would it be likely that i am pregnant? please help!!! im scareddd! ... (41 words)

Help!!! Misunderstood...

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, Me and my boyfriend been going together for 5 months, and on our 5th month anniversary, he wanted to tell me something, because he thought it was best for me to know, and he told me a year ago, he was attracted to men, but he never went with a man, last year he was ... (364 words)

Why is he telling everyone about us?

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5 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a relationship with my best friend I am gay and he is Bi curious . All my friends know i am gay and he said i am his first guy. He always says to me i don't know how much he loves me. But anyway i just found out that he is telling my friends and his friends that i am in ... (92 words)

Getting slapped by my boyfriend...

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a boyfriend for the past 10 months. usually i would tell him whatever i do. since he did not have his mobile for a few days we are not able to contact one another properly. yesterday i had gone to see a movie with my girlfriend he got angry ... (100 words)

My moods control my life... help!

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so here it goes, i have a really bad problem. My moods have control of my life...I can go from really happy to really angry in just seconds, my family tiptoe round me in fear that they say something and il snap, i just really want to know whats causing this as its quite ... (63 words)

I'm doing him a big favour... why won't he do this for me?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 years, i've sacrificed almost everything for him, and i still have to do huge favours like me asking for a loan so he make a promising business venture and i'm willing to use my salary to help him because he has been struggling to find ... (85 words)

He's not financially stable enough to marry me...

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend n me have been together for 4 years n we really wanted to get married. however we are of different religions so we knew we would face problems convincing our families. he tried his luck really hard at business so that he could stand on his feet n marry me. however ... (136 words)

Should I bother having this relationship or just stay friends because of the distance?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16/f. My boyfriend is 17. God, I love him a whole lot. We just started dating, but we've been friends for so long that it's just like what was supposed to happen. Except... He lives an hour away from me. I'm trying to be realistic here, because I'm only sixteen years ol... (194 words)

Help! How can I get to know him better?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this guy through ONLY text and online, but he is a mutual friend.. I here that he is a really great guy and he's super funny, good looking and so nice! I text him a lot and he actually recently just got dumped by his girlfriend.. He seems pretty flirty with me and I'm ... (114 words)

Do men get bored of their girlfriend's bodies once they've slept with them?

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 19, me an my boyfriend have been together for a year now and we've been sleeping together for about 3 months. im a bit worried though because of rumours ive heard that men get bored of their girlfriends bodies really quickly once they've slept with them a few times. is... (87 words)

Any advice on breaking it off cleanly with my bf..who has anger issues, in his past

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5 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I was truly in love with him but we had several problems during the relationship. He'd get incredibly angry for any reason, specially when he drank too much, and for 2 years he was addicted to cocaine, which really hurt the rela... (285 words)