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Can you get an abortion pill at 14?

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8 January 2010 (F age 26-29 - hello, i havent started my period because i am just 14 but 4 weeks ago i lost my virginity and i bled quiet heavily afterwards, we didnt have a condom on and i went and got the morning after pill 68 hours later and i told my doctor i had started my period because she just... (156 words

Did he really mean it when he apologised??

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - It finally ended. The guy I have been liking for months, the one who told me he liked me back, texted me one night and said, "I don't think you should wait for me anymore...I'm sorry." He then went on explaining how so much shit has happened in his life and that everyone wants ... (129 words

Does he feel the same way when we aren't together?

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I don’t know how my best friend feels about me but when I don’t see him after school it breaks my heart because talking to him is the only thing I look forward to. He always makes fun of me playfully if I say something wrong and he says that im dumb but I just give it back to ... (198 words

He's so tight and accuses me of taking money when I don't

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8 January 2010 (F age - I have been with the same guy in a relationship for 14 yrs, not married, I raised my own kids, and they were grown, and then after 9 months after meeting him, I was put on the spot to stay with him and raise his kids, I could have said no, but I loved him, and the kids mom went ... (320 words

Crying for no reason

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - My name is darla. Ive been crying for no reason. I would hear a song from my past and get teary eyed. Yesterday I was in school And couldn't figure out a math problem so I got teary eyed and the tears wouldn't stop. what is wrong with me and is it depression?... (53 words

Married a year and only had sex twice!

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - my husband and i have been married less than a year and im starting to regret marrying him, we rarely have sex in fact we only had sex twice last year and once the year before that. The thing is he spent the best part of four years cheating on me during that time we had lots of ... (142 words

The Not So Kiss

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8 January 2010 (? age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts incorporated into one.. Me and my boyfriend have beeen dating for almost 5 months now. the only problem is that we havent kissed yet. i want to but im honestly kinda scared. he wants to because he has told me, but im afraid he'll dump me if i dont do somethin... (123 words

Its burns when I pee, what could it be?

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok so i have this bad feeling like a bladder infection but i think its worst then that now i dont think it is a std because i have been to the doctor but not for this burning feeling. because i have this feeling off and on. now i am taking some pills called azo its to stop the ... (146 words

I didn't understand until now about my boss's behavior: She fancies me!

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8 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have left a couple of questions about this. It has been about my manager and how hard she has made me life while i've been where i work. I have always wondered why because i have never done anything to deserve her attitude, but just today I found out why. The long and sho... (242 words

It scares me that I am thinking of sleeping with someone other than my wife!

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8 January 2010 (M age 51-59 - hello all, i pretty much no the answers to the question i am going to ask, but i spose i want some reasurance that i am right. for the past 3 months or so my wife and i have only had sex twice. this is playing on my mind big time as to me she is acting very simular to when she... (287 words

He wants to be friends - I want more

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've met a guy online 3 years ago when I was outside the US - we talked a lot - mostly sexual converstions. We lost track of each other and I got married to someone else a year later and returned to US. I got pregnant from my husband then things got really bad between us (even ... (454 words

I like a guy but am still crushing on my teacher!

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need some advice! I am going crazy here. There is this nice, decent looking, sweet guy that likes me. I am trying to get to know him, to see if I like him. But, I am having trouble with this because I am still 100% crushing on my teacher! I cannot stop this! I've gotten to ... (126 words

What can I say to her before its too late?

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8 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm at a loss as to what to do. Over the past few months I have got more and more close to a friend of mine, so close that we were in the foundation stage of a relationship. We were so intimate with each other, it was not far before we were to be properly togethe... (524 words

Abortion pill??????

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one. I am 4 weeks pregnant and having issues. I dont believe in abortion , however having this baby is not the best idea at the moment. How safe is the abortion pill? 2nd question: How would the abortion pill affect my biblical beliefs? I feel ... (57 words

Why doesn't he tell people we're going out together?

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Me and my bf has been dating for 3 yrs and he still can't admit to anyone that I'm his gf and that he loves me. Its been going on since we started dating, he says he loves me and all this but then he's saying to everyone that I'm not his gf,its really messed up.but when no one ... (96 words

Help with first time sex???

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok your gunna think I'm really wierd. But me and my bf are planning on havin sex, I'm a virgin but he isn't. But the only thing I'm unsure of is myself down below. He prefers it shaved and that's ok. But i've done it and my skin is very prickely now, and you can see them. It's ... (177 words

Becoming a single mother by choice!

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - Im 29 years old and really want a baby. However, im single. Ive wanted children for a few years but it wasnt until i had an unplanned pregnancy with my boyfriend at the time just over a year ago and miscarried that the urge for children has gotten so much stronger. Anyway, i... (454 words

I would love this friendship to become something more.

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8 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am very confused. I recently started a post-grad course at university and get on really well with one of the guys on the course. We are both into the same types of music and have attended a couple of concerts together. Both of us went to a hous party on halloween and he had ... (124 words

Trust and ex problems!!!

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8 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi I have been with my current boyfriend, now fiance for almost 2 years. I am having a problem and IDK if its me or if there really is something. I have had trouble in the past where a guy i really trusted and loved kept things from me and wasnt completely honest with me. So ... (517 words

Will it last???

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8 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - dear cupid, im in a relationship with this guy but he is not over his ex.they have been separated for a year and we have been dating for 8.he says he loves me and wants to be with me as i feel the same for him. but this whole hes not over his ex thing is killing me. he ... (170 words

Help.... I DON'T understand him anymore and it's driving me to the point of COMPLETE insanity!

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8 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok, to put it simply, i like a guy and i'm pretty sure he likes me... i'm just slightly uncertain because of certain things that have been happening. Basically, i'm 23 and he is 37 and we work in the same work place and have been for about 4 years. It all started when i first ... (649 words

Best friend in love with me! But I am commited! what should I do?

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8 January 2010 (? age 30-35 - Today my best friend confessed that he loves me. That he thinks he is in love iwth me and asked me to give him a chance to make me happy. I have a boyfreind. We have been going out for 1 year and 2 months. we have shared many moments.. I was his first time.. and we are long dis... (129 words

I don't want my baby growing up with seperated parents. How can I make my relationship last?

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8 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - well me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 4 months and now me and her are thinking that we have moved too fast. I got my girlfriend pregnant and she does not think i am the one she wants to have a baby with. I want to know want i can do to keep our relationship ... (71 words

How can I make my husband crazy?

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8 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Iam a 22yrs old gal young married, love being advertous, funloving, loved to be recognised. My husband is a little rigid i want you to help me with tips that i can use to make him let lose of himself i mean make him crazy ... (46 words

What sort of questions will they ask me at this interview?

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8 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi. I have been invited for an interview for a modelling and acting agency. The thing is, it's in London, which is about 2 hours away by train from where i live, so would i be best going staying in a hotel for a couple of days while i have the interview ?. My friend lives in a ... (182 words

Friend keeps breaking dates

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8 January 2010 (M age 51-59 - i have kept making dates with a female friend but alwyas get an excuse for her not turning up. yet when she wants me there for a date or somthing else, she gets upset if i dont show on time. what can i do to make this an even playing field so to speak?... (54 words

In love with my best friend, but unsure if he loves me back.

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - I told my guy friend I loved him about a month ago after a fight. For the last year it seems like we keep getting into little fights over absolutely nothing. We have been friends going on seven yrs. now. I met him at work when I was still with my ex. My ex got me pregnant ... (350 words

Can Impotence be Caused by Emotional Problems?

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8 January 2010 (F age 51-59 - Do you know anything about impotence caused by Emotional Problems? My husband is impotent and we don't know why. Now ,they checked out everything medically, but no answer to the question. Why is he impotent? So ,he gets an erection,not very long, but when he enters he losing ... (126 words

If I befriend him I'm afraid I'll lose my other friends

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello! Please help me out. I started a new school this week and everything's going pretty much ok, I've started to fit in with people and such: But there is a boy there who I think is rather sweet (He has a very mild form of dyslexia) but he's very friendly and if people h... (214 words

I think a studen might have drugged and raped me

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8 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old good looking single girl, teaching in an engineering college. Recently, one of my students who was preparing for an interview wanted to learn something from me. That application that he wanted to learn, was not available in the college and the student ... (595 words

Broken up and she's made no contact at all with me

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8 January 2010 (M age 41-50 - ok here goes.. broke up with the girlfriend a few weeks ago and there has been no contact..she never called about her stuff, returning my key, or my few belongings at her place..I basically broke it off with her over some issues we had been having..Since then I haven't heard ... (77 words

Virgin always horny around male friends

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - well, i'm a virin, and i'm almost always horny around my guy friends. several of them even want to have it with me. and we even get pretty into it sometimes. but i'm too scared and nervous to have sex. for one; i don't know if they like the way i am when i'm with them. two; i'm ... (88 words

Can illicit strictly emotional only affairs be overcome?

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8 January 2010 (F age - If a guy has had an illicit emotional (nothing physical but sexy and loving talk) relationship with another woman, do you think it is possible for him to 'drop her' because he is found out? If he has been able to completely cut her out of his life do you think there was anyt... (337 words

Boyfriend trouble!

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one. I need advice bad i dont know what to my boyfriend and i have been together off and on for a year he took my virginity so he means alot to me but sometimes he can be the sweetest person when other times he act as if we arent togther yesterda... (269 words

Shy and in love!

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8 January 2010 (M age 26-29 - hi! I m in love with my class fellow from about two months but i m little bit fat and very shy thats why haven't talked to her yet! I want to talk to her, tell her how i feel and want to make her my girlfriend. How can i impress her?? Plz help me and thanks for any kind of ... (106 words

Should I tell my husband about my boyfriend or wait till our daughter is 18 as agreed?

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8 January 2010 (F age - Hi, I'd really appreciate some advice regarding my marital situation. I've been married for 19 years and we have one daughter who is about to turn 17 this year. My husband and I have had quite a lot of heated arguments over the years but we loved each other too. Now I am ... (277 words

Are his dreams normal?

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years and every night i wake up beacuse the bed is shaking. its shaking because my boyfriend is having a sex dream, hes fully erect, and he is acting exactly like we are having sex i mean hes doing all the movements and hes ... (84 words

Unnaceptable relationship.

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - just wanted to ask for some thoughts from all over the world. thanks for those who clicked in and willing to spend their time on reading my post and help me. i just broke up with a girl 5 months ago. her reason was, she wants a normal life/relationship and doesn't want to ... (385 words

How can I satisfy my wife?

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8 January 2010 (M age - I have multiple sclerosis and i cannot achieve an erection. I want to share the enjoyment my wife would have with a man who can provde her with an erect penis. We play and touch but nothing replaces an erection. Any advice?... (42 words

I'm so confused and don't know how he feels about me...

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok here we go. I like this guy. (lol of course i do) We have been getting so close we flirt none stop he stays up till like 5am talking to me on msn (his parents are strict, he's not allowed to have msn so his risking getting in big trouble talking to me but he still does), ... (209 words

She wants the best of both worlds!

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8 January 2010 (M age 41-50 - Me and my ex girlfriend were together for 3 years and have now been separated for a year and a half. During the relationship we lived together and raised our children together. We broke up because of trust issues and during the first year of separation we would keep in touch ... (351 words

He really does hold a special place in my heart...

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have this guy friend whom I've known for more than 6 years now, and we're pretty close. Well, we weren't close until he kind of had a quarrel with his best girl friend and he sort of joined my friends and I. We've been really close friends for like a year and I must say I ... (167 words

He has gone all weird, I didnt want our friendship to end this way

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I find that things get a bit weird between me and this guy. We came out for a meal in the summer, he paid and the conversation was cool. I visited my old school recently to catch up with some friends and to basically, see him since I didn't do so last time. It was really ... (161 words

He says he feels comfortable with me but doesn't want to get too close!

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8 January 2010 (F age 51-59 - hi guys,when a guy says he wants to be more than friends but is wary and doesn't like getting too close but feels comfortable with you what does that mean?a bit confused!opinions greatly welcomed!... (34 words

I ended an unhappy relationship and now he wants me to apologise

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Thank you first off for taking the time to read my post. I've been dating my currently ex bf for 3 years and have lived together for about 5 months. For the past few days we've been very unhappy. I was upset because he started acting like he was cheating on me and that I wa... (264 words

He says he wont do it again, but then he does ..........

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm so mad right now i really need some advice! Yesterday i went to my friend's house to watch a movie and talk. Before, I called my bf to let him know where i was going and that i wasn't going to be home, so he should call me on the cell phone later. He sounded wierd on ... (298 words

I am in love with my b/f but have an attraction to another guy

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm 16 in a couple of weeks, and my boyfriends almost 17, we've been together 2years in March and we have our ups and downs, as a whole I'd say were very happy with each other and we know our relationship won't last forever, but we love each other now which is all that matters. ... (339 words

I am attracted to a "playa'

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - This is really long but I think I need some professional help. I have never had much confidence but when I started my new job a few years back it was meant as a new start and I felt really positive, however, after a few weeks things weren't going well, I loved the work b... (475 words

What is going on with these nipples of mine?????

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been having VERY sore nipples for a long while, I can't remember how long, so I'm sorry there. Well anywho, I HAVE been on a hormone replacement meds which only lasted 2 weeks with taking it and that has been over 2 weeks ago and I've been trying to get pregnant. My ... (186 words

My mum's weight problem...

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - My Mum has a weight problem which has got significantly worse lately, and I'm not quite sure if there is anything more I can do to help her. I have been really supportive of her since I was a child. I have done all I can to be encouraging and have even offered to exercise and ... (348 words

What do you guys think? IS he cheating on me...?

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi all, I'm currently suspecting that the man I have been seeing for several years is cheating on me. If you could read through the below list of signs and give me your opinion about whether it could be something I'm overthinking.. or a list of petty things.. or absolute... (676 words

I want to be able to reconnect with her sexually as well as personally.

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8 January 2010 (M age - I have been married for 16 years. i have e.d. when my wife lets me have anal sex i dont stop when its hurting her. i take viagra and it is really hard to control myself. now my wife is having issues with self esteem and wants nothing to do with me touching her. i know this is ... (88 words

How EXACTLY should you kiss?

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - How do people kiss with their mouth closed? like, everything besides french kissing. are both lips supposed to be touching? should your lips interlock (like only kissing one of the lips)? basically, anything more than a peck but less than french kissing. like, in detail. ... (46 words

I could be just making a mountain out of a molehill but I can't help thinking it is devious behaviour.

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - I feel really cross with my partner. We have been together for 2 1/2 years. One of my major hobbies is dancing. When my partner and I got together we chatted about our hobbies and felt it was important that we had separate hobbies because he hated dancing and I didn't really ... (405 words

Why has my girlfriend suddenly changed?

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8 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi I have just came out of a long distance relationship that has lasted for 2 years. I had a friend at school who was very skilled at spanish and he would go on spanish forums and talk to people who lived in spain, he contacted a girl who really liked punk music and it was... (1581 words

My boyfriend cheated a year ago and it is still a big issue in our relationship!

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8 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey guy sorry this is a little long but please take a moment to read it, i will really appreciate it. well a year ago exactly i found out my boyfriend cheated (as in full blown sex) with his ex girlfriend. it was in the first month of em and him getting together, though... (496 words

My partner is verbally abusive and my daughters are disrespectful! Am I being too soft?

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8 January 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I've posted here before and found the advice really helpful. I'm in a distressing stressful family situation. My partner of 6 years is verbally abusive and my two daughters (19 and 22) constantly disregard my rules. My daughters are lovely girls ... (600 words

Could I be pregnant or is this phantom pregnancy symptoms?

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Well I don't know if I am or not! I just had sex 3 weeks ago without a condom 2 days in a roll... But my bf said when he felt like he was cuming he pulled out... But then I took the morning after pill the next day but I don't kno if it worked because I didn't get any side ... (98 words

Why do I get bored in relationships so quickly?

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - every time i get into a relationship with someone after a while i get sick of them i cant stand it and want to dump them this has happened to me many times its like i only like the chase but once im in a relationship i don't want to be anymore. i think there the one but then ... (77 words

Embarrising question most likely for females to answer!

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8 January 2010 (F age 26-29 - Ok this is a very embarrasing question to ask, but I told my boyfriend that I had to clean the drain in my shower because it was clogged. And he asked if I shaved my crotch and I told him no i haven't. Reason is because I was taught to wait till I'm older. I'm not sure how to ... (74 words

Is sex 3-4 times a week healthy and normal?

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8 January 2010 (M age 51-59 - Hi Just looking for feedback from people living with their partners. Ive been with my partner for 18 months now, its a distance relationship so we only see each other weekends. At weekends we have sex 3 or 4 times over the fri night, sat and sun..and ive always assumed s... (239 words

Marriage is good, sex stinks

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8 January 2010 (? age 41-50 - I am a guy who married someone who was a virgin and disliked oral (the thought of it), tried it reluctantly, but never really got used to it. Although I will freely and gladly go down on my wife, she does not reciprocate. My wife told me to have patience with her about oral ... (568 words

Marine guy has my number but he hasn't called!

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8 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi there, On Tuesday I was with my cousin and friend having a couple drink at this restaurant. A group of 6 guys come in and sit on 3 tables behind me. One of the guys that came in was really cute and I liked him. My cousin was sitting in front of me so she had a clear v... (750 words

He isn't good enough for her!

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay, basically one of my best friends was having major fights with her boyfriend. It was really depressing to watch, as they had a strong relationship for a year. I would never wish anything bad on them as a couple, however I do like the girl (my best friend). (we are both ... (129 words

Is this girl interested in me that I know from high school?

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8 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - Foremost, I am a male and obviously can't ask friends for relationship advice if it doesn't apply to me "getting laid". A girl recently got in touch with me out of the blue and I was wondering if she may be interested in me. Ok, here's the sich. I was really good friends with ... (320 words

She's a tomboy!

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8 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - i dont know from where should i start...its a long story short...i love this girl and she is a tomboy.we have been together for 2 years and have always been special and supportive to each other. we are soulmates and she is a great girl to be with,caring and very understanding, ... (485 words

Is there a deeper meaning to her text even though she doesn't want a relationship?

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8 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - OK, there's this girl that i really like and over the past few weeks I've been getting to know her pretty good. We talk all the time and hang out when ever possible and I have such an amazing! time when were together. To be honest it seems that she has a great! time also when ... (327 words

Why do we keep making excuses for making our relationship "official"? It's FWB right now.

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8 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Okay so ive been talking to this guy for about 8 months and have become friends with benefits but i know we both have feelings for each other. We both have admited to it but for some reason or another we both have excuses for not making it official i say im not ready for a ... (124 words

He doesn't want a serious relationship but should I still see him?

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8 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - So I started dating a guy a few months before going away to college and we never really broke up. We both just left and assumed the relationship was over i guess. I know he's seen other girls and I have seen other guys while in college but when we come home for breaks we get ... (102 words

My ex isn't ready to jump back into anything. Should I just hang back and wait?

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8 January 2010 (F - my ex and i were together for over 3 years and broke up over a year ago but noone did anything so wrong..no cheating or anything..just arguments over silly things i contacted him a year later leaving a v-mail and he called me back a few minutes later and i explained my reg... (680 words

I have a bucket list about sex

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8 January 2010 (F age 26-29 - so i'm young. but ive already done stuff, witch was a mistake i got caught up in the moment. and i really regretted it. but now i have this "bucket" list all these things i would like to do before i graduate high school. abd there are a few sexual things on there. and theres ... (129 words

He says we will be together but he never wants to see me or talk to me. What is going on?

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8 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hello okay I have this problem I've been with my partner for almost a year..we use to spend every day with each otha now its like he never want 2 spend tyme with me he's says I'm annoying he barley wants 2 talk 2 me on the phne..n when I askd him about our future he's say ho ... (72 words

Help! Is there any way to get rid of the discomfort of wet dreams?

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8 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - I sometimes have wet dreams. It is very annoying and uncomfortable. My clothes get wet, some parts of my body gets wet and I've to clean my body parts and change my clothes. Those all are very uncomfortable for me. I don't want to bear such discomfort. Is there any way round ... (54 words

He stood me up to be there for his ex. Should I give up on him?

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