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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Marriage problems, BOTH of us are writing for your help!

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22 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 6 years. During these years the last 3 have been pretty rocky. In these past 3 years we have only had sexual relations about a dozen times. I was the cause of this. I pushed him away and told him no so he quit asking. Well in May 2009 he ... (923 words

Help needed choosing camera for my gf please

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22 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi all, I am stuck between buying my gf a fujilm finepix J28 and a Fujifilm finepix J37. The J28 (10 mega pixels) has loads of reviews saying how great it is but I cannot find any for the J37 (12 mega pixels). However I can get them both for the same price of £80. I don't... (117 words

Stuck in a sex rut...

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I need to learn how to make sex more interesting for both me and my boyfriend. We still have a good sex life etc etc. but I want to learn how to surprise him. Well, not LEARN to be specific, but be given ideas. Im not failing epicially, I'd just like a little help I guess :) ... (58 words

Things get complicated when we're in all the same classes...

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - So, I moved to the UK in September to go to university, currently working through a Master's Degree, and I met a guy in one of my classes, and sooner than I realized we became very, very close and are practically best friends. Thing is, I have feelings for him, and I can't tell ... (484 words

My boyfriend told me 2 days ago that he needs space, what does this mean?

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend told me 2 days ago that he needs space, what does this mean? We have been seeing each other for 5 months, when i first met him i can remember being SO happy because i had finally found a nice guy. He promised me he would treat me right and never do anything to h... (1159 words

She still won't talk to me...

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22 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - Well its been 4 to 5 months now since me and my ex broke up.. i let her go but it was hard.. the thing is.. we havent talked in about 5 weeks... and she still doesnt want to talk to me.. am i missing something? our break up wasnt that bad.. but it wasnt a reason not to talk to ... (70 words

The end of a fine romance?

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22 January 2010 (M age - The end of a fine romance?? I've been in this relationship for 3 years of which he last two years its been a long distance haul of 520 miles round trip (due to family commmitments), I try and visit every 3 weeks. Last summer for fun, I googled her name and low and behold ... (510 words

A love triangle...

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22 January 2010 (F age 26-29 - i just got over a guy I liked for two years, and found i liked a new guy who likes me back, i went on a group date with him as friends and we were planing another when my best friend told me she liked him too. This was of course after I agreed to a one-on-one date with the guy ... (203 words

How often and when should I kiss her?

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22 January 2010 (M age 26-29 - Ok i'm 14 and male and my gf just kissed the first time today, now were going onto the weekend so I can sorta think on this and maybe listen to y'all! when do I kiss her in the day or when in school do I kiss her?... (49 words

I’m still uncertain about my friend and our relationship as friends.

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I’m still uncertain about my friend and our relationship as friends. He sometimes acts as if he really likes me and other times he can ignore me and talk more to his other girls who are his friend. He even complimented me that I was wearing a Boston college sweatshirt and I ... (447 words

If I forgave him, why do I still feel the hatred inside me?

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey, I was just wondering if anyone feels the same way that I do now. My ex and I broke up 8 months ago, he cheated on me. A little later we became friends after that, only friends. I forgave him of his fault but ofcourse we are not back, we just remain to be friends. I figured ... (249 words

Happy couple, wife meeting with ex umm friend

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22 January 2010 (M age 41-50 - Before we got married, my wife had a relationship with another GUY whom she wouldn't quite call a boyfriend. According to her, she liked the GUY as a friend and loved to spent time with him because he was very romantic in nature. She never had sex with him but few times they ... (530 words

Don't know how to deal with inexperienced boyfriend.

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hi, i am 19 and have just entered into a relationship with a guy who is also 19. I'm used to older guys but thought it would be nice to be with someone my own age... but it turns out he's really inexperienced. I am myself a virgin, but have experience doing everything else. To ... (237 words

I'm a freshman and she is a sophomore

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22 January 2010 (M age 26-29 - There is this girl and shes a sophomore... and i am a freshman. I like her and i want to ask her out but there are a few things. I'm not sure if she likes me, and also well shes a sophomore. So what I'm asking is not for a yeah i should go out with her or no i shouldn't but i ... (70 words

Help! Did I make the right decision...?

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22 January 2010 (F age 26-29 - Today i broke up with my long boyfriend called Sean who lives in ireland and who is the same age as me and i got asked out by a boy that goes to my school and he is called Fraser. Fraser was one of my ex boyfriends in the past and broke my heart a few times by dumping me in ... (187 words

I want to have my ex husband's baby

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22 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - i've being divorced now for 2.5 yrs. Still have a lot of contact with my ex during this time. We are friends with benefits, he has dated a few girls and I remained single. My choice has I feel being a mother is more important as my children are still young. My ex is an ... (451 words

I just want to experience being in a relationship and being loved...

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey i need some advice Every time someone fancies me i go off of them and also when i go out with someone it is the same. i just cant seem to become attracted to a person. ARGH someone please help i have been single for ages and i seem to be happier single :S i just want to e... (69 words

Should I try to fix this... and if so how?

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I'm not sure how to go about fixing things in my relationsip or if to fix them at all. A small back story, we met a year ago and have been in a commited relationship since. In August he moved in with me and my children, everything was fine until he got a job and moved to new... (385 words

Tantric sex...

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Tantric sex I'm interested in experimenting with it, what does it entail, can anyone give me any advice or point me to any websites that will help me? thanks... (32 words

Question to the male aunts...

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22 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - How many men could accept the fact that they are returning to a relationship to which they feel that their wife has been with someone more manly than themselves while separated, even though their spouse may have changed things about themselves for the better?... (44 words

I'm in an arranged married and don't love my husband AT ALL!!

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22 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - hi guys mine is a really complicated story I was in love with a guy for one and a half years who kept me completely happy and satisfied but he is 3 years younger than me and from a different religion so our marriage was not possible and i had to go for an arranged marriage... (434 words

Near menopause... help!

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22 January 2010 (F age - Hello ladies in menopause or pre-menopause. Could you please help me, if you have any good ideas for me. Well, I still get my period, but getting close to finishing soon I guess. But I have 2 very disturbing problems, and I wonder, if anybody here has the same and found some ... (168 words

How do I tell my parents I got a tatoo?

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - hey guys just a little question, how can i tell my parents i got a tattoo?? its only a small one on my back and i am of age to get a tattoo, its not against the rules of my house to get one, i live at home and recently got my ears pierced my dad went mad....... (58 words

Should I have sex with another man to make my husband happy?

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22 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - We are a happily married couple with a healthy sex life. My husband has mentioned during almost every love making session that he would want me to have sex with another man. He expresses an interest in threesomes (DP), watching me have sex with another man, and watching another ... (171 words

Do you think she will ever forgive me for not being completely honest with her?

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22 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hello, i met this girl and we hit it off. We became close freinds and shared lots of stuff with each other, she revealed some personal information, she had been sexually abused by her father as a child. She told me she had been in a relationship for 4 years. I am a virgin and ... (348 words

How long does false labor last?

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys, I was just wondering how long false labor lasts? Well actually I guess its more like prelabor, but my contractions never get stronger. They do start in my back and help me to dialate though. I had a dr. appt yesterday, and was having irregular contractions from about ... (130 words

I like this girl but I like her friend too and don't know who to choose.

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22 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 18 and I have been trying to get with this girl at work for almost a year now and its not looking good, she keeps making up excuses but this new guy started and she's obsessed with him! She's on him like a rash non stop. Her friend has also started at my work and we c... (152 words

Does she want a relationship or not?

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22 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - about two months ago, i went out with this girl for few weeks (btw we're both 19) and it seemed to be going well until she told me she 'wasn't ready for a relationship'. so we broke up and sort of drifted apart and stopped speaking. then suddenly, i get a text from her last ... (133 words

Should I continue to see my friend's ex because I feel happy and good with him, or should I ignore the feelings of my heart and end this before I ruin a friendship?

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - So there is this guy who is really cool and awesome to me. He has me get over this one guy who has been stringing me along for months. He's sweet to me and cares about me and I forgot what that feels like. We can chill and talk and laugh together, and everything is cool. ... (266 words

He's my best friend, but I don't feel any love for him anymore. What should I do?

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi, I'm with my fiance for the last 3 yrs and everything was going okay...but never great. We never argue, we like the same things and i know he loves me very much. But i dont know if i love him as much as he does. I love him, but I'm not IN love with him. We talk about our f... (278 words

Should I let her back in my life?

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22 January 2010 (? age 30-35 - Hey. Heres the story... I have a friend lets call her *K* and we have been really close for just over 4 years. In september we moved up to college, and she was doing a diploma and i was doing A-levels. We didnt see each other as often but we still talked and saw each other ... (430 words

Wife hints at a threesome, should I surprise her one day or keep it as a fantasy?

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22 January 2010 (M age 51-59 - I have always been turned on with the idea of a MMF threesome with my wife. Not Bisexual in anyway, just for her. The other day we had a couple drinks and we started fooling around, the topic came up and she told me the type of guy she would want and not want in a threesom... (182 words

How do I talk to him about my issues? WITHOUT yelling, screaming, or becoming hostile.

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am becoming one of those girls that yell at their boyfriend about everything. I feel automatically horrible and a lot of the time it's just because I want him to understand something that is bothering me. I feel I may have an anger issue. Whenever a problem comes up..I want ... (126 words

I really want the old her back so damn bad...

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22 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girl have been together for a year now, and back when we were on our third month, i kinda kissed her best friend for a sec. when she found out, she was of course devastated and hurt, and didnt wanna talk to neither one us at the time. then about an hour later when she ... (544 words

Am I just fantasizing about other people due to boredom in this relationship?

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ive been in a relationship for 13 months and it has been quite turbulent to put it politely. The guy im with i have been friends with for 4 years before we got together. I have recently stopped smoking cannabis after years of smoking it and i am finding it hard as my partner is ... (229 words

What is this pain I am experiencing?

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22 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello Everybody. Well see i have this problem im getting a bigger tummy my taking in food are more than i use to eat. My husband calls my fatty but when we have sex i have pain in said its very painful When we do it deep its ver very painfull it feels like he is hitting ... (128 words

I havent heard from my boyfriend since New Years Eve, what should I do?

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - l am a 23 year year old. have been dating my boyfriend for a year now.he is 27. he has gone all quite. we were suppose to meet on new year eve to go to a party. he called saying he was coming but never showed up. he didn't even text a message apologizing or anything. l had to ... (137 words

Are we over for good? He says he loves me but then he says he shouldn't see me anymore!

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22 January 2010 (F age - hi I have been seeing a man for around 18months. We are both in our 40's I supported him last year when he was made redundant by letting him live with me, until he found a place to rent and a job. He now has a managers job. I have never met any of his family, but he has t... (328 words

How do I move on from everything that has happened? I'm 32 and feel like I have nothing!

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22 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - Please help, I know that your think I am a fool after reading this and I know I am, at 32 I shouldn’t have wasted my life, I now have nothing, but I really need advice. Please. I am so sorry it is so long. Ok, so met guy, fall for each other and he had wife and I knew he w... (1123 words

I need advice on how to help my boyfriend with his testicular cancer

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - i am dating this amazing guy, i am completely crazy about him. the only problem is his health. unfortunately my boyfriend has testicular cancer. i am so worried about him, i don't know what to do. i can't even be with him right now so there's nothing i know of that i can do to ... (147 words

How do I choose between two men?

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I feel like my whole life depends on the decision I need to make and yet I'm completely unable to actually make it..... I'm 23 yrs old. I have a 2 yr old daughter. My boyfriend and I have been together since we were 16 except for about 8 months a year ago. I live with my bf an... (1065 words

She said she wants to take things slow, then she invites me on holiday with her!

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22 January 2010 (M age - Hello All, I recently started dating a girl, we have grown close but she said she wants to be just friends then move on when shes fully over a previous relationship. Fair enough, I'm not eager for a relationship and thats cool. Anyway today she told me how she's going ... (140 words

How exactly do I have phone sex?

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22 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - Okay my problem is my long distance girlfriend and I have been having cybersex for a while now. Well now shes Wanting to move on to Phone sex she says cyber is good and all its just she can't hear my voice she wants to hear my moans as im getting off. So the question is how ... (93 words

I cant help but think she is cheating on me, what should I do?

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22 January 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hey, Me and my fiance have been together for about three and a half years. Over the past few months I have noticed that she has been keeping her phone with her at all times even when we are at home. If it is not with her she has deleted her text messages. She has been talking... (222 words

My husband and I were very much in love but sudenly things have changed, am I doing anything wrong?

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22 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi well my problem is that me and my hubby is very much in love where married for 4 years but now im confussed. well see he changed jobs and he doesnt share anything with me no more when he brings stuff home after work and i ask him polite great stuff did u buy that for us? he ... (422 words

What is a guy's fantasy about losing his V-card?

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok for you guys out there...I am dating a guy who is a 27 year old virgin. I am 24 and im not a vigin. I know that he has been waiting for this to share with someone special and wants it to be special. he says that hes ready but im scared to death! i want to make sure its ... (150 words

Do I "hang on" or "move on"?

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22 January 2010 (F age 51-59 - I met an awesome guy online last September and thought we were going to be freinds, but he had other ideas, as he wanted to meet and I was over the moon. However, the day before we were supposed to meet, I guess I got a weird vibe, as he still wouldn't tell me where we were ... (287 words

Should I just be her friend for now? I don't want to get stuck in "friends zone" though.

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22 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - i went on a first date with this girl, and we had a great time, she admitted it was a great time. She lives a little far away so we cant see each other a whole lot but we txt each other everyday and i make her laugh alot. but she told me after our first date that shes sorry ... (170 words

Am I doing myself harm by talking to him? I secretly want him back.

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - My husband and I had a rocky start but I had thought things were getting better (after he attempted suicide this year). He didn't get as much help as we thought he should. We were planning on moving to his home state (Mississippi) in June (from my home state of CA). But in ... (408 words

Is my boyfriend being childish by hanging up on me?

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22 January 2010 (F age - why is it that when my boyfriend of 3 years hangs up on me when he does not like hearing what I have to say he doesnt talk to me for a couple of days. Is this childish or isnt it. Hes had a bad very bad marriage. thank you. ... (53 words

How do I give a hand job?

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22 January 2010 (F age 26-29 - how do I give a hand job? Do I have to wait for him to get hard and do I just go up and downbur stay under the head? Help please!I just don't wanna make a fool of myself if I do something wrong :/... (46 words

Is he interested or naive?

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - In a few weeks im supposed to interview one of my old middle school teachers about an event that is going on in spring. Just to let you know, I’ve liked this guy for like 6 years and we have a really good relationship as teacher and student. However, he’s married with 2 ... (435 words

Is this some sort of STD from unprotected sex?

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - ok so I had unprotected sex... please don't bitch at me about that... but that was about a week and a half ago and lately, around the opening of my vagina is very itchy and irritated. is there some sort of std or other reason as to why it is? I've washed it and I'm a ... (73 words

Is more than friends possible with her?

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22 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - So to cut a long story short one of my closest friends and I just got through this huge fight. We settled our differences but things are still weird for me. I've always had feelings for her and I made the mistake of letting her know a few times. It got to the point where now ... (196 words

Will it pay off to look more my age?

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Is it really an advantage when you're nearing 20 and you still look 16? And if I don't want to look 16 anymore, how do I come to look more... my age? Thanks.... (33 words

How often do teenage couples spend time together?

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - How often do teenage couples spend time together? With work and school, how much in enough? I currently am interested in someone, but I don't want to commit because I may not be around all the time and it seems unfair making him wait around. I also like my alone time in ... (71 words

My wife and he talk all the time, but when I am there he pretends he doesn't know her

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22 January 2010 (M age 51-59 - I wrote before about thinking my wife could be cheating on me with my son's coach. It is just driving me crazy. He isn't the coach anymore, but yet he finds reasons to call her still. They were on the phone for an hour the other night and then tonight at a game he was there ... (141 words

How on earth can I get over him watching porn?

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok, so I have insecurity problems and feel embarassed and angry at myself because I feel I'm not "normal". I am one of those girls that feels really jealous, insecure, threatened, etc., about porn. I know it's my problem. But I just haven't been able to get over it, as much as ... (728 words

Why do I hang around my ex like a sad, little puppy?

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22 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - I broke up with my partner of five years (living together three of those) in August because of a whole bunch of reasons. I'm an artist and was attending Tafe while starting my own business (had grant) but things got tough over winter and he had to support me for a while. He ... (318 words

Is It Friends with Benifets?

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22 January 2010 (F age 26-29 - i broke up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago( lets call him Bitch-stewie) because i thought he had cheated on me.... so we just stayed as friends( so idk why but we were talking like we used to when we were going out, like playing flirting you know? )anyways.... turns out ... (256 words

Building a new social life is going to take such a long time, while my sexual frustration is increasing! What should I do?

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22 January 2010 (M age 41-50 - I'm a 26 year old male with very little experience in sexual and romantic matters. I became really fed up with this situation and i´ve decided to change it by making an effort to act in a more open a confident way and "put myself out there", leaving behind at least some of my ... (227 words

I am in a LDR and pregnant and jealous of my b/f's female friends

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22 January 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hey everyone, I'm 37 years old, I've been married once before for almost 10 years but am now divorced. In June of last year, I met someone on-line who lives in the States (I live in Canada) and we've been dating ever since. In July, I got pregnant unexpectedly and... (662 words

She wont do what I want sexually, should I break up with her?

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22 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello, I'd appreciate if it were girls who answered my question, it's not that guys don't have good advice to offer me but it's just that I'd prefer a girl's advice on this one. (Although if you're a guy and really think your piece of advice would help, feel free to do it.) ... (524 words

What's the general opinion on virginity

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay so here's a question for you guys. What do u feel about virgins? Does it turn u off or does the thought of having sex with a virgin excite guys?? I'm 19,5 still a virgin...so i'd like to know... (45 words

We had a group sex thing and now my g/f isnt talking to me

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22 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - my gf and I are both 22, we decided together we wanted to try a group swinging thing with an older couple. we met a cool older couple on line (54 female and 58 male) and met last night. During the thing my gf seemed to really enjoy herself, but once she got home she just went ... (118 words

I am hoping my boyfriend is jealous and will not break up with me

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22 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hello all, My bf is almost on the verge of breaking up with. He has told me he loves me but is not in love with me. Yes I have peppered him with texts and all but when he said 'you are not giving me space to think' I left him alone. In the meantime he found out that one o... (487 words

When my girlfriend is at work she doesn't call me as much, should I be worried

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22 January 2010 (M - My girlfriend and I have recently become engaged. Everything has been great. But one thing bothers me. She is an in home care giver to a handicapped man and sometimes when she goes to work for him for a few days she often goes long periods of time without calling me or ... (169 words

My boyfriend's best friend is a girl

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a bestfriend and she's a girl.. I knew about her before me and him became afficial.. the talk every now and then.. and once before my boyfriend gave her my number and she called me saying "you don't ever have to worry about me and him, he's like my brother, and ... (146 words

He never followed up on our date plans the first time. Is he reliable?

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I met this guy and we clicked instantly and have TONS of chemistry we chatted for a while and i gave him my number and were suppose to hangout. We talked over the course of about almost a week for hours @ a time . We set up a plan to have our date but he never followed up on ... (130 words

My stupidity is driving her away! What should I do

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22 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi, I am deeply, madly in love with this women, I've been with her for one year and four months. I lied to her about myself, so that I can have some type of chance with her, and I lied about my past (which I don't care). Everything started great until, I she found out about the ... (226 words

He's unemployed, no career goals...what should I do here?

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been with a guy for four years. Before I met him I was completely obsessed with the thought of him. I finally actually got with him, and things started out good. We are exactly alike, and spend all our time together. We both really love each other. The only problem is, he ... (166 words

Is this girl worth all this hassle?

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22 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've got a slight problem here, and I dont know how to address it. I like this girl, who happens to be related to an old friend who is dating a girl who hates my guts, and he follows her word on everything, and has more then on one occaision tried to kick my ass. I don't kno... (98 words

She lied to me about seeing her ex bf! what should I do?

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22 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - I just want your opinion. i've been with her 3 months at first she said she had 3 sexual partners before me. one month she went to a party with her ex bf, i was fine with this. Then she wanted to go out in his car after the party i said no obviously.. and she didn't the n... (272 words

He is hedging about dating me, but 'likes me'..is he stringing me along?

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22 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hey , i think that "guys" would help me in this case. im talking to a guy that uses the statement " i like u" frequently , and that he's afraid of committment. so im getting attached to him because we talk on daily basis. although i know that i should let go !and when ... (196 words

Haven't seen him in 2 years...should I get in touch?

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22 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I,m a seventeen year old girl (eighteen in a few weeks) and I've developed feelings for a guy i havent seen in two years. You see lately I,ve been having dreams about this guy and I havent seen him in two years. I,ve lost contact with him and the people we used to meet up with. ... (137 words

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