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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend thinks he is too fat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend, who I've been with since October of 2008 is always talking about how "fat" he is and how much he hates it. I think he's very gorgeous but, to him, he's fat. He's 15 years old, 5'10 and weighs 205 pounds. He's not wide at all, He's just a little built is what I ... (76 words)

Do I let a married man divorce his wife or should I move on?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay heres the deal, I have fallen for a married man, and he likes me as well. Hes going to jeporadize his marriage to be with me. Do i go ahead and let him, that way me and him can be together, or do I just cut contact completely? advice would be most appreciated.... (68 words)

I don't like the way I look!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a relationship question but, I didn't know who else to ask so, Pleasee help me out. I'd appreciate it. Okay so, I have a problem with the way I look, my boyfriend tells me all the time that I'm beautiful, and I'm not fat, etc. But, I don't like how I look. I'm ... (148 words)

Does my cousin like me as a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I was at my cousins new years party and we had just opened a 9 litre bottle of champagne (be jealous) and I gave him a hug and said I love you!! he squeezed me and said, no I love YOU!! then he started kissing my cheeks and neck and I was kissing his cheek it wasnt just a pec... (94 words)

Help! Did I cheat on my boyfriend!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently started seeing this guy who i really like and finally we've moved a step further and decided not to see anyone else and see how it goes. i am 100% faithful id never cheat on anyone. my family is pretty messed up i didnt know my dads side, and a few weeks ago i ... (665 words)

How can I cope with his lack of trust in me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age - I am a woman in a relationship with a cuckold boyfriend (live together) who wants me to have sex with other men. I don't want to, and he seems to accept that, although he often accuses me of cheating on him anyway. It seems totally contradictory to me and yet he says it's not ... (113 words)

I'm trying to get him back, but I can't tell what he wants.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my boyfriend because he changed towards me, acted as kif he didnt care anymore, i never planned on us making it permenant though. i really love him and dont know how to get him back, ive tried everything and he doesnt seem to want to know, yet he'll text me etc. ... (135 words)

What should I do about premature ejaculation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I suffer from premature ejaculation when having intercourse with my partner. I usually last between 30 seconds to a few minutes at most. I not only have this problem with intercourse but also when I masturbate I tend to last under a minute usually. My penis also doesn't face ... (100 words)

Do you think he might dump his girlfriend to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - theres a guy who already has a girlfriend, and i really like him, if we have a dance he will ask me to dance and not his girl friend, what if he dumps his old girl friend to date me? then every body would hate me.... (46 words)

She seemed enthusiastic at first, but now I'm not sure. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - last year i was rejected by the first girl i think i have ever truely loved, and i havent realy got over it. the other day i summed up the courage to tell her about a dream i had about her (basicly in the dream i found out she liked me as much as i liked her). after telling her ... (125 words)

I feel very much shut out with fiance and daughter

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am recently engaged. My fiance has a daughter 36 and single. Each time she is around he doesnt not even notice or pay attention to me. He asks for her opinion first on everything , including food shopping etc. I am due to get married but I really feel very much shut out.... (56 words)

G/f laughed when I told her the size of my penis

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and I am with my gf for 2 yrs now. We love each other and O don't think we are going to stop anytime soon. She asked for my penis size wen erected one day so i actually measured it and I got somewhere around 3.7 inches. I told her and well she laughed and it made me feel ... (171 words)

I feel like I'm pregnant..am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i got my period on october 22 and wasn't due again until november 18. i had sex on november 2 and then what i thought at the time was my period although i was spotting on november 6-this lasted a day. i didn't think anything at the time but missed my period on november 18. i ... (170 words)

Did her past experience sour her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - This is probably a common question but it's got me very confused. There's a girl who I've known for about three months now in the institution I'm learning at; we're on the same course and work on the same table so I see her every day outside of holidays. In the first fe... (268 words)

Do I have to be scared that I might be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok my period was on the 26 and I got through on the 30 but I had unprotected sex "I know dumb move " on the 31st at 11 55 pm " my question do I have to worry about being pregnant? Yes no plz explain CAZ im scared!!!!... (49 words)

A sex sore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i are sexual active regularly. Two days ago, he developed a sore, red and bumpy rash on the head of his penis, but nowhere else on his penis. it is apparantly sore to touch, its got worse in the past two days- i suggested it was man thrush, now im not so ... (113 words)

Do you have pains at the start of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im a 16 year old girl and im always feeling sick all through out the day an through the night to and really tired all the time just always feel like sleeping i had my last period in november havent had 1 in december at all but i still had like really sharp pains like period ... (87 words)

Should I tell my friend that her ex called her fat?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - one of my friends just broke up with their boyfriend, and i was talking to him and he called her fat, do you think i should tell her?... (28 words)

Being blackmailed! Husband cousin taping me having an affair

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am a pretty and sexy 25yr old girl, married for 3years. It was an arranged marriage and my husband was not able to satisfy me sexually. This forced me to have an affair. Whenever my husband is away(he travels a lot, sometimes for weeks) my boyfriend and I have sex. A ... (664 words)

Virgins, we don't know how to put a condom on, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys im about to have sex with my girlfriend and it will be our first times and we don't know how to put a condom on please help xx... (30 words)

Has any of you ever had a threesome. I need tips and every detail!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think this is like the funniest question I've ever asked on here. Lol. But here goes...I really am interested in having a threesome. I spoke to my bf#2 about it lol and he said ok. So last nite, he brought it up again and was asking me how do I want it to go down. Neither one ... (102 words)

Long relationship cheating man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i just posted this question but i don't think i gave enough information. i am in a relationship of 8 years with my fiance and we have 2 kids..I recently found out he was messing around with a couple females on his job. i was pregnant with our second child when i found out the ... (178 words)

So is it worth trying to talk it through with him or would you be finished with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age - I've been dating R for 3+ months. We have had a lot of fun together, but the more time that has gone by, the less enthusiastic I'm feeling. Now after the holidays, I feel hurt and angry and disappointed. I am ill with chronic fibromyalgia and struggling to survive on disab... (435 words)

She caught her husband spying & masturbating while her sister was taking a shower!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (?) age 36-40 - Ok i am trying to get help a cousing of mine here... just yesterday, she is a girl by the way, she told me something which i thought was shocking but i was eager to help... she said that she had to leave for the store, and she just pulled out of the drive way but forgot ... (331 words)

How long will it take to build up my lasting time again?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I just got back together after a 2 month breakup. I haven't had sex since the breakup and only masturbated once or twice. Now that we are having sex again I'm having a hard time controlling the time I last. How long will it take to build up my lasting time ... (55 words)

Any suggestions to help me get over the fear of giving oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for over two and a half years. I'm really wanting to give him a blowjob, but I can't bring myself to do it. I've had one other boyfriend who wanted me to and when I did, well it was a very very bad experience. And I'm just... scared. I don't want ... (119 words)

I need to detox myself of my ex, and generally tidy up my life. Help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello advice-givers of DearCupid! First off, I'd like to say, it's so ridiculous how this whole situation plays out and all because of my own stupidity. And trust me, there's a lot of stupidity in this situation. Extremely long story short: Ex and I were together for a y... (560 words)

Is It Possible For An Older Lady To Find genuine Love????

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age - Can An Older Woman Find Love? Most men prefer younger women thats a fact however I Who would love to find romance-its not a cse of being desperate I am divorced and not looking for marriage but a few dates would be nice Come on guys PLEASE reassure me (if you can) NOT... (116 words)

Why should I be faithful when he'll just cheat again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in a relationship of 8 years and 2 kids with him and i recently found out that my fiance was cheating on me with a couple other females at his place of work. It really hurt me, but we decided to try to work it out. now i find myself resenting him and feeling like i want to ... (85 words)

Sister doesn't realise hes bad, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i am 15 years old and my sister is 17. she has started seeing this guy from her work who is 26, the age gap doesnt bother me but what does is the fact that hes just not good and i know it. not only does he have 2 kids from 2 separate previous relationships bu... (206 words)

He left me with no means of closure. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, here I enter 2010 with a broken heart after a three year relationship and a year and a half or marriage. My husband was suppose to join me and my family for Christmas. I left early due to my brand new born nephew and my love was suppose to show up days later. In the mean ... (446 words)

DId he give up on our marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been married for 13 years and we have three boys. we only dated 2 months before getting married. i was 22 he was 29. he is from the middle east and i am american, i am catholic and hes muslim, any way. he lost his job in the states last year, now were living in the west ... (322 words)

Do we have a chance??????????????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay, so here is my dilemma, I recently met a terrific man on an online dating site. It was actually a rather explicit site that seemed to be mostly for flings and casual sex. I wasn’t at all interested in either of these things and was there solely doing research for a book I ... (1613 words)

Why no contact in the evenings now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Help Folks! Middle age male here having a 2 year 'full-time' relationship and subsequently on 2nd year a Long Distance Relationship due to work commitments. (she agreed to the long term plannings) First 2 years of Relationship was Very Solid. 1st year of Long Distance wa... (478 words)

Make the first move? Or let him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi cupids, I have a work related dilemma on my hands. My collegue and I have been friends for years we knew each other before I started working with him. The last year or so we have been spending some time going out visiting places we both have interests in, nothing has happ... (244 words)

Blast from the past..let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i met this guy about 5yrs ago he had seperated from his wife, we began as friends and over the course of a year became more than friends, 18 months ago without any explantion he stopped talking to me returning my calls text ect then on xmas eve i got a parcel from him with gift ... (98 words)

He said he'd make me have sex with him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so me and my bf had been going good since 8-7-09 and i know alot of people will say well your not in love but we were. Then last night came and i got 15 text messages saying so very mean and uncomfortable things about me and him having sex. Well i told him he shouldnt be ... (103 words)

Will he ever get over his past hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope someone can help me. I have met an amazing guy over the last few months. Everything has been going great. We had a temporary split for a couple of weeks as he had confidence issues and said he needed to sort himself out. We got back together he realised he had ... (301 words)

Why did I lose my erection?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - last night my girlfriend and i had sex 2 times and and hour apart once at 6 and once at 7 then after that we drank cuz it was new years so i drank a lot of alcohol then when we were going to sleep we were going to have sex and when i got hard and had sex for a bit i went soft. ... (178 words)

My gut's telling me something's wrong, is he cheating on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So I was at my boyfriends [c] last night for New Years, and he had 1 friend over [d]. To me C was acting kind of funny, he was more .... affectionate, he seemed to want more love. D has always cheated on his girlfriends, I'm afraid thats a bad influence on C. I didn't have to ... (135 words)

We are both divorced, I don't know if I am rushing things with my boyfriend of 6 months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I have been divorced 2 years and have 2 children, he has been seperated 1 year and has a daughter aged 9. We all get along really well, but now and then the conversation comes up about what we both want out of the realtionship. ... (216 words)

He is annoying me lately, but I still care about him, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for about 8 months now and he really is annoying me lately. I don't want to break up with him becuse I still care about him. So I really could use some advice as what to do. [Moderator's note: In what ways is he annoying? You can add details as upda... (59 words)

Will this feeling go as I become more used to fingering?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The problem I'm having is that I don't enjoy fingering. My boyfriend has fingered me 3 or 4 times now, twice for a long period of time. I love being intimate with him but fingering just doesn't feel pleasurable to me. I'm a virgin so he can only use one finger, it's just that ... (146 words)

He's a bad boy and I'm falling for him! I need your help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyaa, I really need your help. There is this boy.. and he was new at my school about 2 months ago. My friend and I welcomed him and showed him around. Then we found out he smoked, has lost his virginity and watches porn but we stilled laughed at his jokes and stuff. Recently, ... (161 words)

Worried about ex getting out of jail and trying to hurt us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with an alcoholic for about a year and a half now and have actually broken up with him as he was beginning to get violent and controlling.about a year in to the relationship he accused me of cheating as i let a few friends in my house when we fell out one of them ... (238 words)

After we kissed I realised he is 29, what do I do if he knows I'm 16?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 16 years old and I need some help! I met a guy at a ball for fund - raising and we began to chat, without finding out his age we continued talking and we ended up kissing. Since then, we kept in touch and it was only when I looked him up on facebook that I realised he ... (160 words)

I still don't trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i've a major problem in ma life.i'm engaged to the love of ma life.but the problem is that i'm always jealous that he knows someone else. I don't know why i never trust him though he actually does nothing.he works almost all day. But i can't escape this un trust feeling.. Help ... (53 words)

I can't forget the nasty words my boyfriend said, he blamed it all on drink, should we break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a big problem. I hope you can help. Last night opened my eyes quite a lot. Me and my boyfriend and some friends were out for New Year's Eve. We all drank a lot and my boyfriend's best friend, Jamie, kept hugging me and walking with his arm round me - my boyfr... (423 words)

Think I lost my virginity to the wrong guy!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I been talking to this boy for a while and I just recently went to his house. I didn't know that I would lose my virginity but I did. So now it's been two days and he still hasn't called me. Should I feel bad that I had sex with him. I feel as though he never really liked me he ... (96 words)

Dealing with an alcoholic--how do you know if they will stay sober?

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1 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am married to an alcoholic and have been dealing with this for 10 years. Over the years he has humiliated himself, my children, and me. He has been abusive and jeopardized our financial situation. I had a brief affair last summer with a friend who became a lover, but only for ... (194 words)

Why does it still hurt after all this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel as if i'm over my ex.. but sometimes I do still think of him and it really unsettles me, he has a new girlfriend now, I don't feel jealous, she seems perfectly nice, but I can't help feel hurt if I see pictures of them together. Me and his mum still go to salsa on a ... (146 words)

I cant sleep I'm so hurt,i want to stop this pain,please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been talking to this guy from ireland on msn for about 7 months and im really in love with him. He told me he really wants to come see me and that hes saving up to see me. I never btw pushed him to come visit me it was all him and his idea. I thought he was serious because ... (876 words)

Stomach hurting head spinning after sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it normaily mean when your stomack starts hurting and your head starts spinngin after a guy cums in you... (21 words)

Date the cute plane boy??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heres the deal: im am a 16 year old girl and i just moved out to california about 6 months ago. ever since those 6 months i have been getting a lot more attention from guys and i dont really like it, because im not used to it and i dont really know how to deal with it. Any... (247 words)

Legal advice in dealing with divorcing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i have married to an orpan girl and all the expenses are borne by me .once she went with me to her aunts house and never returned,her wants divorce from me and completyly brainwashed her. now she is askingfor divorce but she is not sending the documents and they are telling to ... (110 words)

15 girl dating 20 guy.... parents is the issue.. help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm Ashley. My boyfriend is Jose. I'm 15. He is 20. I live in idaho. He lives in Texas. We have been dating for 11 months. We haven't met yet but that's all we talk about. We met over the internet so its kinda hard to say I KNOW him. But I feel like I really do. My parents ... (330 words)

I can feel something poking out when I touch myself! Is it supposed to be there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Okay, so when I'm fingering myself. *Masterbating* I hook my fingers up, and I can feel something poking out, nearly touching the other side of the inside of my vagina. But... I can play with it, and it feels great! Like, I'm about to orgasim, but the only thing is, I'm ra... (104 words)

She didn't like my mood and now we aren't friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have recently fallen out with a girl i was friends with for months. We seemed to get on fine lately, but she wasn't happy with my bad mood and said she couldnt understand me, so doesnt want to meet or speak again. She has just started dating though, we are friends. I tried ... (81 words)

Into me? Or is it just for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay guys, here's the deal, there is this guy i have known at least since i was 10 years old most likely longer and we just ,in the past couple of years, started to be friends and we were always picking on each other just for fun and then he went to college about a year ago... (234 words)

How do I go about a relation wit a gul who always find fault with most things I do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this gul 2 months ago. A friend of mine introduced me 2 her and so we became friends, along the line, i started developing feelings for her, i tried as much as i can 2 beat off my feelings but the more i try, the more my feelings for her grows. I later realised that she ... (103 words)

She forces me to wear condom and I always lose my erection

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - okay picture this... me and my girl are messing around im getting turned on she is ready for me i am hard as rock and then i go for the condom. in thre time it takes me to get the condom, put it on and start tryinf to go in i lose my stiffness. I hate it so much and i believ i ... (147 words)

How do you get over someone who doesn't care about you anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Sory if this is long. We went out for close to 8 months, which i guess generally is a short time, but fairly long compared to many teenage relationships. I really genuinely fell in love with her but she broke my heart. Despite saying she loved me she flirted with other guys ... (171 words)

Am I still "straight?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a "straight" guy, age 25. I put straight in quotes because there's a bisexual guy that i think i like. He's 25 also and his birthday is two days before mine. He's tall, caucasian, green eyes, swimmer's build, covered in tattoos, and has a carrot colored mohawk with a ... (170 words)

Want to have child with another woman since wife gave me 3 daughters and I want a son!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am married but want a son with another woman because my wife cannot have children any more and we have three daughters. Please give me advice... (27 words)

Agony Aunts... please help. My girlfriend is getting abused at home...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunts, please help... Ive been talking to this girl for 2 months now. Shes gorgeous, smart, funny, sexy, has good morals, and i can hold a conversation with. Basically shes the perfect girl for me.. We're both juniors and 16.. Because we live about 30 miles... (998 words)

Men: How would you feel if a woman said this to you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello there, I would like to please hear from the guys out there on what your thoughts are about what I said to someone. I promise I won’t cry (too much) if you are harsh! There was a younger (single) colleague; he and I had what I could call a “Mutual Admiration Socie... (506 words)

I have major trust issues and self esteem problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5467 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone.. I am going to keep this short. I will highly appreciate it if you guys could help me with this. I wont say I came from a broken family but my parents never got along. Because of family and societal pressures, they just lived together. My mom was always n... (296 words)

Where are the true gentlemen and ladies?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Today's society does not shape or form true gentlemen and ladies. There are very few of us left. In todays world people are disrespectful and backstabbers. Just wanted to make a point. On to the issue, I' wouldn't say I'm high maintance, but I would say I have high standards. ... (148 words)

There's a trust problem and I don't know what to do? Am paranoid am not right for her even tho she says I am.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months. And about 6months in a lad in my school spread a rumour who said I made a bet that I would have sex before him. (he's was seeing my girlfriends best friend). However she heard fromher best friend thatthis happens and I ... (199 words)

22 & still living with parents, would it put girls off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

1 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My question is mainly for the girls, but anybody can answer I don't care. Would it really put you off if a guy at 22 is still living with his parents? Right now I'm trying to get my school debt paid off and it will go so much faster if I stay with them rather then have to pay ... (67 words)

Straight to sex and its just too painful!

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1 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Every time my bf and I try to have sex it is painful to the point where intercourse really dont take place. I like foreplay but it doesnt last long enough to get me very excited then we go straight to sex, but its painful. Is it that hes to big for me or am I not relaxed ... (59 words)

I'm doing all the giving while she does all the taking!

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1 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry its a long one but I think I need to say the whole story for this one and apologies i dont normally write these type of things. I met my girlfriend(lets call her anna)ten months ago and weve been going out for eight i met anna at work course we got put on a small task tog... (1629 words)

20 and never had a real relationship

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1 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive never had a real relationship with a girl and im going to be turning 20 soon, and im not going to lie that this does make me sad sometimes thinking about it. Its not like i didn't have a social life during my school years and now, i do its just no one really understands me ... (334 words)

Problems with IUD

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1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have an I.U.D and have had one for 1 1/2 yrs. just recently i have had really bad cramping and heavy period like bleeding it happened every other day for a week then just like it started it stopped. then i have had an increase of vaginal discharge and this white discharge ... (81 words)

She pissed me off and broke my heart at new year.

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1 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm currently not home, employed by the military outside the US, I was speaking to my girlfriend earlier today (well practically yesterday) and she told me simply that this fu**** did her, I argued why the hell she let him etc... she gave me reasons, that seemed clearly ... (77 words)

Is It Possible To Know Someone So Well & All Their Flaws That They Wont Have A Relationship W/ You?

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1 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it a possibility for someone to know someone so long/well (know all their flaws/worst sides)that they wouldnt want to date/commit to them? I have 4-5 yrs history w/ this guy who has been unable to commit, pulls me in w/ affection, I love yous etc but then pushes me away w... (351 words)

Crush for a year but just can't seem to get things moving!

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1 January 2010 (F)

age - I have had a crush on a guy for nearly a year but can not seem to get things moving. His mum really admires me for what I do and who I am career wise and as an individual. I get on with his sisters. We are very similiar in what we do professionally. Where I see him is at ... (254 words)

I want to date again but just can't seem to!

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1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having trouble getting back into dating. My previous girlfriend and I (I am a lesbian, if it wasn't clear) had been together for nearly a year and we were really happy together. I was even sure that I loved her. Unfortunately, this August her family had to move across ... (190 words)

I'm quiet and sometimes hard to get out of my comfort zone! How do I talk to guys?

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1 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I know this might be a dumb thing to ask and what not, but I need some help. I am sometimes a quiet girl when alone and by myself, or untill I feel comftable. And I never had a boyfriend, some boys asked me out but I didn't like them like that. And then my friend trys to ... (154 words)