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writes:I'm 22 and in a long term relationship with my 1st girlfriend (just over a year) about 6 months ago I starting having feelings for a woman I work with and we starting flirting. At 1st I just selfishly enjoyed the attention and then my feelings changed and I fell in love with her and she fell for me. We starting meeting up and things got serious. I still loved my girlfriend but the spark was gone and I was waiting for an opportunity to end things. When I told her I had feelings for someone else she seemed to fight for me and things got better and I fell back in love with her again. Now I’m lost and confused cus I’m in love with both of these amazing women and can’t make the decision. Its causing so much hurt to all of us. Do I stay with my girlfriend and see if we can fix things or do I start fresh? Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated thank you for reading.
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reader, iamwhoiam +, writes (6 January 2010):
try and work through things mate all realtionships after a while loose there spark and unless your just looking for fling after fling than you have to talk and plan things that both of you can do. and your 1st girlfriend clearly loves you back because she is fighting for you so the best you can do is to try and work things through. As for this other girl i think you should just be friends. But remember everyone to there own i do not know everything about you so can't really judge but in my case i would try and work at it cause she clearly still loves you the question is do you actually still love her??
Take care
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