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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2010 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Confused by mixed signals! How can I get her to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi All, Wonder if any girls could help me here? Ive known this girl for some time now and she said at the end of last year she liked me.... I turnt her down as nicely as I could saying that I didnt know her enough and wanted to get to know her more first... we had been ma... (262 words)

I like it tight! Do you think I should only go for virgins?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi,this question might sound funny,but it's troubling me so much.I've had sexual experience when i was very young and it felt so good,now i'm in my mid twenties and all the girls i've dated in my adult life are loose,even my present girl's pussy is too loose for my ... (103 words)

Should I break my own hymen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So yesterday while masturbating I felt my hymen and I now I don't know if to just pop it or leave it be? So should I pop it or not?... (31 words)

She wants more of a commitment but idk what she means!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are only 15 and 16 and our relationship isn't as strong as it was before. We have been going out for 8 months today and she wants to have some kind of commitment with me but i don't know what to commit to her with. she said she don't want to get ... (94 words)

We've been together 4 months and thinking of getting engaged! Don't want ppl to think I'm stupid.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 19, and me and my boyfriend are thinking of getting engaged. We've both finished college and we both have good jobs. We've only been together 4 months, but i've never felt like this about anyone before (and i've had a fair few relationships) I've heard tha... (88 words)

Got back with my gf and she wont get over me sleeping with someone else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me and i slept with someone else because i thought there was no chance that we would get back together. Now we are back together she cant get over it and keeps making me feel really guilty about it but it only happened because ... (84 words)

Will his children ever forgive me for breaking up their family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. Well, shortly after that, a family member of his (whom I've always been attracted to but never thought anything would ever happen because he was married) contacted me to consol me for my breakup. We made small talk and ... (167 words)

She cheated and is unappreciative and I don't want to leave her because she's pregnant.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

- Hi everyone! Let me thank you first for reading this topic ,all your advice is really appriciated ! I am in a quite difficult situation now, my girlfriend is pregnant ,but our relationship has been really hard for me ,since this was my first real relationship (and to be h... (229 words)

Feeling sad! I don't think my boyfriend is the one but don't want to end it either!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in my mid twenties, living at home, have a good steady job and a boyfriend of 7 years. I am now utterly depressed. My boyfriend and I were about to fill out a form for a flat but i just broke down in tears and couldn't face doing it. Problem is, I don't think he's the one ... (320 words)

I was raped and need advice on what to do

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'am really lost and really do not know what to do, it's really hard to say but i have not told anyone in the 2years that it has happened. i was raped when i was 15 there was more to it, as i formed an attachment towards this man. he was a security man who was old enough to be ... (203 words)

How can I tell her I liked her without hurting my other friends feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i had to choose between 2 girls and now i've picked 1 but another one of my freinds asked her out and she rejected. Now i dont want to tell her how i feel in case it hurts his feelings and damages our freindship. i wont see her til saturday so i have time to think and i h... (136 words)

Things were great and as soon as we had sex things changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I hope I'm not just avoiding what I already know, but I just want to make sure I'm not over reacting or letting my emotions get the best of me. Ive been dating this guy for about two months. Its a little wierd though because we met over the holidays and spend every day together ... (330 words)

How come sex ends so quickly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfreind and I have sex very often but I honestly wouldn't even call it that. Anytime we do have sex there is never any foreplay involved unless its me going down on him and as soon as he gets his "guy" in.....he "Cums" really quick. Within a minute were done!! This has ... (317 words)

My boyfriend buys porno mags and hides them but I don't understand!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I was 17 when I fell for my brothers best friend. He was 25. He lived in Alabama and I lived in Michigan but he had come up to visit and that's when we got together. I moved to Alabama on my 18th birthday and I am now 21 years old and he is 28 (almost 29). Its Goin on Almost 4 ... (361 words)

Should we date or just stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I like my friend. We have great chemistry, but the problem is that I'm reluctant to date. I think dating is too cliched as teenagers (holding hands in school, calling each other every night, etc.) I feel as though if I date him things will be too stereotypical of teenage ... (100 words)

I want certain things in the bedroom and he won't listen to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - In work I am the boss of 60 people, of which 35 are men.I've been with mu now husband since I was 17, he was my first everything.Few years before we married I met a guy who I just had sex with, he suggested that he ties me up and has sex with me, I agreed, it was the best ... (158 words)

She has a kinda promiscuous past! how do I deal with this when it comes up?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been dating a girl for 7 or so months, and she is great. A little while into dating her, I started to find out that, to put it plainly, she was a huge slut in her past. Not only that, but a lot of the people she was promiscuous with (im talking drunk parties of multi... (697 words)

His ex is causing trouble! Is he telling the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i`m having a bit of trouble i talked to a girl who claimed to be my boyfriends ex girlfriend and she told me that he asked her out a few weeks ago when we have been going out for 5 months he has already been out with her and she went out with him when i was going out with him. ... (133 words)

Why do you think my husband wants me to colour my hair different?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My new husband asked me to change my hair color. Why do you suppose he wanted me to look different?... (21 words)

Are these symptoms of pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - First im 39 years old. 2nd I have my days at the first week of this month. It last 3 days and it look's like normal days like other womens. Now! The end of month is soon to come. Since a week ago my nipple is a bit pain specially when i touch it? Im scared. Is it a symptoms of ... (88 words)

I'm 13 and fantasize at night and think about the girls in my class, just some questions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 13 and I fantasize at night about sex, I feel excited in a way I never used to before and I don't know whats happening. Can anyone give me some answers? Also, i fantasize about my best friend and the girls in my class in school. Am I lesbian? I really need help. What can I ... (58 words)

Why don't I have a boyfriend if I get checked out all of the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Guys tell me im very attractive all the time and i get checked out while im out quite often, but i haven't got a boyfriend and i'm just wondering why?... (30 words)

Should I continue this complicated secret friendship/relationship with a teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is the deal. I was infatuated with my female performance teacher. 47years old, 1 child and a partner. I am 16 years old, graduating in 2 years. Since I have managed to tell her about my feelings for her we became friends. But that was one year ago. We are still friends ... (538 words)

Something I can take to make my period end faster?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I'm on period, and well, I'm on birth control. However up until a couple of weeks ago I was working long shifts which meant I had to take my pills on different times each day. So the thing is, I started spotting like a week before my actual period started. I had actual bleeding ... (214 words)

Issues with my boyfriend, pregnant with his baby, upset by his actions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5356 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in quite a serious dilemma... I met this guy and fell pregnant the second time we slept together. The good news is that we've both stepped up to the plate and decided to embrace our situation. The only problem is, i'm battling to accept is emotionally unavailable attitude. ... (516 words)

Mothers medical conditions! need advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles I'm asking this for my mum,(aged 57) she wants to know why she is getting 'hot suddenly' she's had her menopause 7 years ago ...the heat comes up suddenly and lasts for about an hour, makes her sweat and only slighty cools when she outs wet wipes on her ... (134 words)

Think I have bi-curious feelings for my best friend but should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am female and I think I might be bi or bi-curious, because I like my best friend quite a bit and I don’t know whether I should tell her or not. We’re quite close. It’s kind of weird but, we just have moments where we look at each other and somehow just know what each other ... (313 words)

What kind of fetish is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When I am doing anything sexual, I have found that animalistic things turn me on. For example, i wear a cat collar with a bell around my wrist, and my boyfriend wears a dog choker collar loosely around his neck, like a chain necklace. I'll use the collar to pull him toward me, ... (148 words)

How can I handle having this baby on my own?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am in such a bind and I would like someone to help me please! I am currently pregnant with my 2nd child with the same guy I had my first child with. Well me and him have been broke up for a year now and he does not want nothing to do with me. But I want to be with him so ... (225 words)

I want plastic surgery to 'fix' my breasts, but I'm lacking in funds! Do I have to wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and I've been struggling with having underdeveloped breasts since i was 12. I've researched it a little bit and I'm pretty sure that i have hypo-plastic breasts. I really just want to be normal like every other teenage girl. I know that every girl's breasts ... (198 words)

How do you stop talking to an ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - What is the best way to cut contact from an ex? I am in a very toxic relationship right now and I know that cutting contact is the best thing to do. But how? What if you can't resist yourself but you have to cut contact? I wish it would be that easy just to ignore, your gui... (149 words)

He didn't respond to my texts! what went wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man online we had two very nice dates in the same weekend. I asked him if he liked me on our first outing he said yes a lot staright away I said I did too. We hugged and cuddeled a bit both times we saw each other, and I mean just hugged - we did not have sex. We ... (341 words)

Having dreams of incest and now I can't look my father in the eye, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had the same extremely disturbing dream the last couple of nights. My dreams consist of my dad and I... doing something really disgusting with each other. Committing incest. In my dream last night, my dad wanted to go again and I screamed out, "We can't! It's incest!" An... (158 words)

Do husbands always lose interest when their wives age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) age - I'm so panicked now... When I read this posts ,it looks like there is an epidemic, of marriage goes bad almost like scheduled ,for 20 -25 years. I keep reading about husbands ,who goes off sex, and losing attraction,or just simple luck of love. Me and my husband are on the ... (185 words)

Have any of you ladies out there been pregnant while on an SSRI (anti-depressant)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone - I am hoping some of the folks here can give me some good advice. I am in my mid thirties and my husband is in his early forties. We have a great relationship and are like best friends. Of course, there is a problem or I wouldn't be here! When we first ... (219 words)

My ex won't talk to me and he's seeing other people and I can't let it go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I am about to explode this minute. I don't know why but I have been broken up with my ex for a year and I never can seem to let it go. I know he's an asshole as he left me for another girl. I know guys like him don't deserve a single second of attention but I ... (385 words)

Is it a good sign she doesn't want to talk about women I'm involved with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been getting back in touch with a friend of mine through email. There was a lot of sexual tension between us when we worked together last year, but things never materialized for various reasons. She drops hints about men she's been involved with and I ask about them j... (123 words)

He said that I was better off without him for the moment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am really sad at the moment...im 40 and my boyfriend is the same age, anyway we had a great time on friday and last night he said he was thinking about me on email...we were still exchanging emails and he thought i was in a funny mood with him...but i wasn't...i guess i was a ... (135 words)

Sometimes I just feel that I want to escape from everything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'd like to know if anyone else feels this way. I wouldn't say I'm depressed but I definately get moments where I feel pretty down. There's nothing bad about my life. I just go through rough patches like everyone does. I don't like change at all. It upsets me big time and... (179 words)

How can I get her trust back?help me plz

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i had a girlfriend before and i was so in love with her.i did everything she wants but she only breaks my heart she loves someone and not me.she breaks up with me and it really hurts. the day after our break up i hang out with my friends and we all have drunk.i like one... (385 words)

My boyfriend of two years is an alcoholic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend of two years is an alcoholic. he use to smoke pot on a daily basis. after we started dating he quit because i didn't approve. i have accepted his drinking because he doesn't do the pot anymore. he has been clean of it for over a year and a half now. recently ... (83 words)

Our date was on thursday and today its tuesday and he hasn't contacted me. why is that??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i went out on a date with this guy and everything seemed to go very very well. the chemistry was there, we were laughing and had a really good time. probably the best date i ever had. we really clicked. he also kissed me first. and i think he had a great time as well, i mean, ... (148 words)

Do condoms clog up the plumbing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I flushed a condom down the toilet and im worried it will clog up the pipes, its only the one time ive done this and would hate to block the pipes and then have my parents discover it. I wrapped it in toilet paper first but im just worried that ive clogged up the pipes!... (55 words)

Her ex was 'bigger' than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - well, we are a evangelic couple, and we'll have sex just after marriage, before both of us turned evangelic and knew each one, we had another partners... we don't amke sex yest but she putted her hand on my dick when i came out from the bath and i was with anerecti... (86 words)

Jealousy problem.. is it that bad??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok its a friendship problem... My best Friend and i are really close even though we dont have a lot in common but we manage to be best friends and we understand each other... But i think were not getting along anymore because there are a lot of girls that are getting between ... (91 words)

Did not want him, until he had someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend that has this friend that she talks to on the phone and go out sometimes. Her friend has asked her many times to become his girlfriend, and she always said no, and she would tell him how she never felt nothing for him, that he was as a friend to her. Now last ... (185 words)

She blames me for having HPV.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - So this is kind of a unique situation...My ex girlfriend who I love with all my heart had cancer a few years back and it was very intense for her life and overall emotional state. It is something she would never want to go through again. Initially when we were dating we didn't ... (396 words)

2 guys! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well i liked a guy and he really likedmeback but i still had a little bit feelings for another guy but now the othe ne won't talk to me because i am aing his friend i feel horrible what should ido cupid and the obne already asked meon a date ... what should i do? ... (57 words)

Why is he not turning me on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - am dating this guy i thought he was really great but now am not soo sure. hes a rich kid at uni.. and very good looking..but when we kiss he doesn't turn me on and i dont know why. on face book, all his friends are girls..they give him soo much attention and he says... (175 words)

How do I get out of this sad, draining relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 28 and he is 35, the problem is we are always fighting as a result am so drained and dont think the relationship is going anywhere, i want out but he doesnt, we promised each other to change but nothing works.I tried everything to make this work, but no success, please ... (64 words)

She was a virgin and I was a virgin, I lied about being a virgin and she found out. What do I do?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and never had a girlfreind before ... (510 words)

I want her but she is hanging out with him and I'm hurt...what can I do?

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26 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - ok so i posted only last night and got one answer that was kinda helpful but you see the girl i like and want (my house mate and my best friend) shes got a guy in her room she said hes just a friends from work and that they are hanging out but i cant help but feel like hes... (128 words)

I am worried I crossed a line and did major damage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel bad about the most recent talk I had with my boyfriend and I don't know if I caused irrevocable damage to us. I am 25 my boyfriend is 20 and age has not been an issue until recently (and it isn't really an age thing anyway, just independence). I am not going into detail ... (569 words)

Issues with my body...any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I having been shaving, waxing and even plucking my whole bikini area to a holywood, my skin looks like a plucked chicken all the time even If I get it waxed. Im mixed race and I don't know if that's the reason. I just wondered if there was anything out there that would... (110 words)

Just wondering if there are any good dream decoders out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

- Hi, just wondering if there are any good dream decoders out there? Me and my boyfriend split up a few weeks ago and after I had found out it was because he left me for another woman I cut all ties between us and burnt a bridge so to speak. Anyway last night I had a drea... (147 words)

I need insight on contraceptive methods...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hy everyone. I am little bit suspicious with condoms as a prevention of pregnancy. I know that they are pretty much safe because they can also protect person form all kind of sickness, but there`s a small posibility that makes me nervous about condoms. A lot of my friends had ... (115 words)

Is she right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 5 years and we have been through everything together. I love her dearly but i am scared that my life as i have known it is completely changing and will change forever to suit her values and not mine.We want to be able to have a family soon. I am ... (224 words)

I cant have the girl I want because she is with another guy and is afraid that she will be blamed for my break-up with my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, there is one girl called H that i loved for 1 year. And H loves me too. But right now H has a boyfriend called J and she is afraid to hurt her boyfriend J. And second thing H is afraid of is that other people will think that the reason for break up with my ex N and me is ... (85 words)

I'm feeling confused about our relationship: I like having him around but I cant deal with his mood swings!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been seeing my b/f for around 15 months. In that time he has been moody at times (as most people can be). Last week though, after booking a short break abroad he rang the next day to say cancel as he was feeling unhappy in himself. He had been feeling light heade... (319 words)

While we have been having troubles in the bedroom, he has been secretly asking girls to meet up with him for sex online!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some help and advice. Have what I thought to be a good relationship with my boyfriend, but obviously I don't. He has had some trouble recently in the bedroom (don't need to say anymore) and I have been supportive and reassuring during this time. We... (248 words)

Does he love me? Or what the heck is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Good Day all.Well you see my husband is very rude these 2-4 days. i did nothing wrong at all but he is rude towards me when he wakes up, during the day and after work . he is a bit friendly late at night but he doesnt say goodnight, hold me anymore or talks to/with me. This ... (250 words)

I feel like I'm living with a stranger in the house, so I have turned to online affairs so I can live a fantasy of my own!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Been married for 3 years - we met over the internet and I flew half way across the world to be with him. We got married and have a child (an infant). However, it's been weird between us. We do argue a lot - however, we always seem to be very formal with each other. We're like ... (316 words)

My online guy already has a girlfriend, what should I do before we get any closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I am getting divorced from my husband (our marriage was dead for a long time, this is only making it formal) and broke up with my boy friend of 3 years . I have been single for close to a year. Now there is this guy whom I met on facebook and we text each other q... (221 words)

Why did he cum so fast? And why am I missing him so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i would like to ask you guys for some help. The issue that i have is love related. Il try and cut the story short. I have been going out with this guy for nearly 2 months. How the relationship started was extremely strange. I didnt know this guy at all i had just seen h... (487 words)

Obsessed with my wife's past...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

26 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have been married to my wife for 14 years,we have three children and on the whole we are happy. I was 19 when i met my wife and she was 23 and we got married two years later. Before i met her i'd only slept with one other woman and my wife tells me she had slept with three ... (234 words)

Will I ever be able to save our relationship and myself from this horrible mistake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have made the worst mistake of my life. I cheated on the love of my life. We have been together for 3 years and married for 6 months. I feel so guilty. Especially since in the beginning of our relationship we went to therapy because I caught him carrying on in his past rel... (315 words)

How can I get him to "unleash the beast?!"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I tend to be a sexually "dominant" person in bed. I like control in the bedroom. It's a lot of fun and a turn on for me. However, I do like to be challenged with man-handling and all things that come along with male domination (minus demeaning talk). Basically, i really ... (438 words)

Worried about my boyfriend's suspicious behaviour

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im about 2 months pregnant wit my bf's baby that we planned on having. We are both really excited. Or so i thought.... The past couple weeks he's been acting suspicious. He doesnt come over, doesnt call, doesnt txt, missing Dr appointments. Things like that. Then he finally ... (192 words)

I need help with anal sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my husband for 3 yrs. And he really wants to have anal sex, we have tried like 2 or 3 times,it is very painful,but I also enjoy it, but I always have a orgasm very fast. I want to give him what he wants.n e tips on how to not have a orgasm so fast. I have tries ... (77 words)

She reads old sexual emails from past boyfriends and says I have no reason to be upset. What do you think?

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26 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now, and for most of that time I've known she finds sexual literature a huge turn-on. I don't have any problem with her buying sexy fiction to read, but some time ago she started looking up erotic stories online. This wouldn't ... (153 words)

I have cheated and lied to my husband, how can I rebuild his trust?

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some help. I have cheated and lied to my husband. And he does not trust me at all.o%! And I know that he will leave me if he can't trust me, we have 2 children together. I love him so much and don't want to loose my family. How can I regain his trust? Why can I ... (86 words)

Even though we used protection I am paranoid now about being pregnant

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well ok I'm 22 years old. Last time my period ended was on December 25. I lost my virginity on the 7 of January. my boyfriend and me had sex three days in a row.. but every single time we used a condom we even checked before and after condoms completely ok. My period is never ... (119 words)

I took the doctor's advise but could I still be pregnant?

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together since we were young,and started to have sex in August last year, I'm on the pill and for medical reasons the doctor told me to miss my 7 day break last month, although this month I can go on my 7 day break, I have only missed 1 of my pills ... (92 words)

WIll he 'grow up' without my intervention?

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!!! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and a half and I am 18 now, and he just turned 20. I know that he loves me and I love him too. There is only one problem... I am afraid for our future. I know that I am young but I am very goal oriented and am taking... (237 words)

His friends staying over is affecting my sex drive.

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and have been living together for 3 years. Almost everyday his friends or his brother come over and play either madden or Modern Warfare 2 until late at night and one of his friends ends up sleeping over maybe like 3 times a ... (158 words)

My girlfriend spends a lot of time just thinking ......

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26 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and girlfriend been dating for couple weeks now, well it is going good by far. She been thinking a lot about stuff like us and she always seem to be down. What can she possibly thinking about? I don't know, it kinda bothers me... What can I do to cheer her up? Help Pl... (60 words)

I need tips on IUDs

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My college offers free IUD placement (paraguard) for students. I've been wanting an IUD for awhile now, but I'm terrified it will hurt a lot. Does anyone have any tips for when to go so it will hurt less, or how much it hurt or anything? I feel like now is a good time to get it ... (62 words)

We share a half sister but I still love her

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26 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well there's this girl, I've known her my whole life. Her brother and I are best friends. I'm in love with this girl. I see her every weekend when I stay the night at her grandma's house. I'm 16 and she's 13. A couple of summers ago I told her that I was in love with her and it ... (364 words)

Is this new guy serious about me? Can we ovrcome cultural differences?

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in this ambiguous relationship with a visiting prof in my school for a couple of months (I'm no longer taking any classes from him and would probably not be doing so in the future), and it's really kinda tormenting because I don't know how serious he is about me. ... (892 words)

I think she likes me but I'm not sure

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26 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello im 13 and there is this girl in my school that im preety sure likes me she hugs me all the time and today after school she ran and jumped at me and an rapped he legs around my waist how do i nkow for sure that she likes me and should i ask her out to the next school ... (62 words)

How do I protect myself and my baby?

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were together for three years and I thought we had a really strong bond. We had a daughter about a year ago. He told me I would never have to work, that we could live wherever I wanted in the world, that he would provide for me. He told his mother "I know I will ... (396 words)

I can't get my b/f to orgasm

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. We've gotten to fingering/handjobs, but I have a problem. I haven't ever given handjobs before, and I seem to be really bad at it because I can't get him to come. He can always get me, and I'm starting to get really frustrated ... (70 words)

I want my ex back in my life ...............

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm wondering whats up.My ex and I hung out. Everything was super good - no awkwardness, we laughed alot/flirted and yet nothing came of it.I thought atleast friends..but I havent heard from him much.Then I thought maybe he just wanted to fool around...cos we flirted n what ... (206 words)

I met a guy online, we met up, we stayed in touch, now he is too busy?

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy online. We talked back and forth for about a month through emails, texts, and on the phone before we met in person. The first date was awesome. We both felt that instant connection with each other. We then had a second date and it seemed like he was a completely ... (142 words)

I have had sex with my cousin but I cant decide if I love him

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i cant decide if im in love with my cousin. he is everything to me. we started talking about 4 years ago now and we are extremely close. we have done alot of sexual things. im 14 almost 15. i would do anything from him. i few weeks ago he told me he was in love with me..at ... (118 words)

Do I worry too much about breast size?

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26 January 2010 (F) age 30-35 - Moderator's Note: link to website removed. I recent found a site where some douche tries selling a PDF manual to convince a wife or girlfriend to get implants. I mean, not all guys are like that obviously, but do really most of them wish their partners were bigger? I'm ver... (250 words)

I introduced my husband to my bi g/f now he can only perform sex with her

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, to start off with, I am a bisexual female....I have been with my husband for 10 years...I am 27 and he is 29...We have a wonderful relationship but since I have gotten with this girl and let him join in, he can only get hard and stay hard whenever he is having sex with ... (113 words)

I really like him a lot and want to make him like me back

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok , so , first of all , i just wanna thank this website and all the people that take the time and amswer questions!!! :) so this may take a bit of explaining , ;) theres this guy that ive had a thing for , for a realyy long time, and i never used to be confident at all... (373 words)

My wife has cheated on me but I want to save our marriage

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26 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife left me last year. We were together for 5 years married for 3 years. At that time I had nine months of college left. I worked hard in school and my job for her and our two kids. She didn't live with me where I am attending school because it was too expensive. Little ... (287 words)

I'm pregnant but I don't know if its my b/f's baby or my ex's baby

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - OKay i had unprotected sex with my ex boyfriend dec24 and a couple days before that too.. then i had sex with him again on Jan 1st (unprotected) he ejaculates in me all the time.. then i was with this one boy on jan 5 i let him put his tip almost in me then i stoppd him from ... (106 words)

My boyfriend doesn't touch me ..............

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - how can i get my boyfriend to touch me.i wonder if he is cheating on me and am i teh problem... (21 words)

I was caught in a compromising situation at midnight by the police

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26 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my partner got caught with our tops off kissing in a car park at midnight by the police. I have never done anything like this and probs wont again. The police man took my name and done a check and then left...will that be the end of the matter or could i face fu... (66 words)

Is it normal for there to be several openings in a girl's hymen?

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for there to be several openings in a girl's hymen? (Before sexual intercourse.) (Mod Note - Op's own title) ... (23 words)

We are constantly at loggerheads and I don't know how to fix it!

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - if its not one problem its another!!! agian me and my husband are in a crunch... he says i dont treat him with respect and i say he doesn't treat me like the women i am... lol....how can i make our relationship better so we are closer and so i am more understanding.and any ... (70 words)

Trapped into marriage and wanting to get out

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26 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi im a 31yr old man who is going through the hardest time of my life at the moment,these are my problems. 9yrs ago i finished my apprentiship and had enough cash to head overseas. At this stage i meet a girl that i was very clear to about my plans and explained straight away ... (488 words)

This girl is driving me crazy!

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26 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - She teases me (makes fun of me). Whenever I talk to her she gets really loud like if I make fun of her she pretends to get mad (she almost hit me!). She's not a loud/flirty person at all and kinda shy. We usually don't talk (usually shes the 1st to say sumthin) but whe... (170 words)

I am feeling drawn towards a much older man

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this man who is much older than me.I am 25, and he is 44, and i am finding it difficult to talk to him about my feelings. We have known each other a couple of years now. At first, i gave him space as he had just come out of a long term relationship. He had been ... (465 words)

I keep questioning my boyfriend about his feelings for me

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so my boyfriend who is 21 and i(17)been dating for 11 months now. we haven't had sex. I feel like he might be cheating on me or has lost interest in me. we live 3 hrs away and he comes to my house every weekend, we are on the phone every night till late hrs..lately he doesn't ... (299 words)

I thought my feet were firmly planted on the ground and then ... I fell in love

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a college student (sophomore in my undergrad). I'm 18 going on 19 this year, and I am extremely mature, proffessional, and intelligent for my age. i'm level headed and care about my future a lot. I'm not trying to sound cocky here at all, just trying to paint the right ... (246 words)

I went too far with him on our first date, now I am worried if it made him think less of me

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello guys!! I have a question: I went out on a date with a guy I met at my college. At first I didn't even want to go out with him although i liked hiom because I had a huge crush on someone else. But when we went out I had an amazing time with him. it felt like we knew eac... (188 words)

How do I get my reputation back?

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I went back to a guys house, something I never do. I was so unbelieveably drunk and just out of a really bad relationship that lasted 4 years and was so intoxicated. I blanked out for 6 hours. He is 15 years older than me. It was akward after we slept together, but i didn't ... (256 words)

Unrequited love, what do I do?

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i'm 16. i have this really big problem. i really really like this guy, but he only likes me as a friend. i think its a case of unrequited love. i just can't get over this guy. i've liked him for almost 2 years. i also met him 2 years ago. and well out of every guy i ever ... (246 words)

Can you be friends with an ex?

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26 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Nothing's stranger than breaking up with someone you've known for a long time. Why is it that your new partner has issues with you still being friends with an ex? see someone every day and then suddenly stop all contact... it's unnatural. i have been in a long distance ... (279 words)

I'm a flirt with no backbone

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26 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Well here be the thing I flirt A LOT... but i never really follow threw. I guess the reason why is i just am not sure if i really like her or not, but its kind of annoying i guess you'd say. Any advice? (Mod note: title was written by poster)... (51 words)