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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've never had a girlfriend, is that normal?

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12 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive never had a girlfriend,is that normal?. I go to only boys school and really i havent spend much time meeting girls. With the last girl, i had a crush, she was maybe the most beutifull girl i have met, but she was not only beutifull, she was smart(she beat me in chess xD), ... (149 words)

Brothers or Lovers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - A few months ago I met a friend on the internet who introduced me to a friend of his. We started off as cyber brothers, and I won't bore you with the details but we're now very much in love and have even said that when he's 18 he wants to move over here and marry me. Since we ... (181 words)

Friends don't accept that we are together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been dating this guy who is 2 years younger than me I am 16 and he is 14 its all been going good between us but still after 6 months, people wont accept that we are together. this makes it hard as I cant do things with my friends and him, as they treat him and me ... (107 words)

How do I get her in the mood and stop being so horny?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I've been having problems with my girlfriend and I don't know what to do anymore, I'm 19 and always horny and my girlfriend is 21. When we started going out we was having sex quite often but know after one and a half months she never seems to want sex which has ma... (221 words)

Husband doesn't want to make any lifestyle changes and its really bothering me

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12 January 2010 (F) age - My husband does not want to make any lifestyle changes. Works all day,on his computer,and never does anything else.He is totally inactive,and now impotent due his stress,and luck of exercise . He is not drinking,or smoking,but does nothing to keep active. I find it too early in ... (119 words)

Trouble reaching a climax

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age - i am having trouble reaching a climax. I have sex approx every three days. I climax every 7 or 8 days. I am male 75 years old. What should I do?... (33 words)

Phone dropped in toilet...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a relationship question but I gotta ask. My boyfriend was texting me one day, supposedly while he was using the restroom and he dropped his phone in the toilet(I know, nasty.) well, he got it to work, he used a hair dryer to dry it and he can make outgoing ... (80 words)

Do players get too old to play?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age - what happens to a player when he gets too old to play? the man Im in love with I know to be a player , Ive been seeing him 6months (casual) he is 42. He is very overweight and has to use viagra and gets very puffed out during sex so I have to do all the work. But I adore hi... (167 words)

Cant stop looking at ex's facebook!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I cant stop looking at my ex girlfriends facebook profile and its doing my head in. I'm seeing stuff on there i dont want to see and yet i cant stop myself. I cant bring myself to delete it, i just cant and anyway i want us to be friends evetually. She split up with me... (76 words)

What should I do about these girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - well first of all if i get like something wrong she quite alot teases me about it and goes on about it even though half the time in lessons she doesn't know the answer to a simple question even though its written up on the board and we went over it about 50 times just to be ... (467 words)

Is it possible to go out with some one in the army?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ive recently started going out with a lad that im crazy about ive known him for years n we have always been close. but only started going out for a few weeks. i knew when we were friends that he was going into the army but its only recently hit me hard. normaly we see each ... (114 words)

Not attracted to anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 13, nearly 14 year old girl. All my friends constantly talk about boys, and I find that I'm not attracted to them (or anyone). I'm worried, as I feel I should have started getting crushes by now. I've started puberty. Am I asexual, or is there something wrong with ... (54 words)

I don't want to be his "rebound" girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - am i gonna be a rebound...? ok this guy and his gf broke ul like last year. or maybe two years ago cause he cheated on her with his ex. i use to be attracted to him wen we were younger but the feelings faded. then summer 2008 me and him were together like all summer him ... (229 words)

His g/f hates me and I don't know why

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So... This guy I like has a girlfriend. And well you could just say that she basically hates me. I don't even know why. She doesn't know that I like him, but everytime I see her in school she glares at me and everything like that. Im a year older than her and obviously a grade ... (92 words)

How do I break up and return his necklace?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to brake up with my boyfriend how do I give him his necklace back??... (16 words)

I want to be one of the boys, but I am relly one of the girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - ok guys heres the thing, lots of my friends are boys i mean like its sort of a 60%, 40% split between boys and girls and the boys are the majority, but after a while i tend to run out of things to talk about them with i try talking bout football but that doesnt last very long ... (178 words)

Want to watch another couple having sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - lately l have thought alot about wanting my wife and myself to watch another couple makie love. it turns me on when l think about it. just to watch them makeing love and to see the passion involved. has anyone else had these thoughts or have you actually done this??... (53 words)

I told my baby daddy's g/f he was cheating & now he hates me but I am pregnant again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm going thru a lot right now and I know most of it was my fault. I'm still in love with the father of my child. We been broke up for a year now. Jus recently bout a month ago he got a new girlfriend. Of course I got hurt coz me and him were seeing each other until she ... (373 words)

WIfe only wants sex in the dark or under the covers

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age - I have a problem that I'm at a standstill over: I've known my wife for 10 yrs; we've been married for 3 yrs. and I have only seen her vagina twice. I've talked to her very lovingly several times, without any success of a normal sexual relationship with her. She will only ... (140 words)

"If you love something set it free"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

- You know they say 'if you love someone set them free, if they come back they're yours, if they dont, they never were' or something to a similar effect... what if you let someone go and they come back, and then they leave again? :-( X x ... (53 words)

His comments made me wonder "Is he just not that into you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently started dating a man who is 11 years older than me, we have known each other for a few years and been friends ever since. He was in a relationship until about 3 months ago and although it was always obvious that we found each other attractive, I never thought that we ... (374 words)

I'm dating a distant relative & worried it might be like kissing cousins

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This year I met the most wonderful boy whom I had never met before. We started talking a lot and later on, he told me he fell in love with me. At first, thoughts in my head screamed and said, "He's your cousin don't do anything your parents wouldn't want you to do." Then ... (121 words)

I've been waiting 6 years to find someone like him but worried about his employment

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am divorced for six years and although I have dated a little, haven't found the right guy. I have recently met a wonderful man, who is really decent and honest and treats me very well and I know he really cares about me and vice versa. The problem is he has been laid of... (299 words)

How do I get over the feelings I have for my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I dated this guy for 5 months including over the summer. Things were going great but then he said he had to move before the school year started. He was moving 3 hours away and he said he could make it work but I knew it probably wouldn't. So even though I was still crazy about ... (135 words)

I think the girl I'm dating has a drinking problem!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - dating this girl for about 8 months and i think she may have a drinking problem..she goes out a few times a week for "dinner" with friends and has called me from the cab at 1 am and seemed drunk on more than a few occassions..she also has a few glasses of wine every night to ... (213 words)

I broke up with him because he had a g/f but now he doesnt

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i dont know where to start. i live in manchester and theres this lad who lives in birmingham. i got his number and we text eachother, then in the summer holidays last year, he went wales the same time as me. he wanted to meet me, but i didnt feel comftable meeting him, i didnt ... (306 words)

Do women sleep around when they are in a boring relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. Thanks in advance for any insight you may have on this matter. I am sort of hung up on my girlfriends past. She lost her virginity to her first boyfriend when she was almost twenty. Their relationship got very platonic and stale after a couple of years. Her last semester... (180 words)

Best way to shave my bits and pieces?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hope its ok to ask this on here. Simple question for the guys- what is the best way to shave my c*ck and balls? I use an electric shaver for my face but this is far too scary to use down there! Do I use a razor/shaving gel? I want to leave the line of hair going up my sto... (114 words)

He said he found another girl, we were too serious, I'm hurt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some help. recently i've been getting involved with this guy, a few years older. i know for a fact he only wanted sex out of me, but i was completely smitten by him, and was prepared to give it. he lives a few hours away, but comes down to where i live about 3 times a ... (143 words)

Tried to finger a random girl then she told all her friends

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I was a nightclub recently and i was kissing a random girl and i was feeling extremly horny. I attempted to finger her but with no success. She told her friends and i am getting alot of stick about it. What should i do?... (44 words)

Ex moved on quickly, is it a rebound?

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year and half. We instantly clicked when we met and within a couple of days we had a really deep connection, and he adored me we had so much fun together and he said things like i was the first girl to make him feel this way (i was his ... (274 words)

First time sex - how can I make it feel good?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel bad because my bf and I had sex for the first time last night and I didn't enjoy it at all. his penis is pretty small. I was like just laying there and he knew I didn't enjoy it cuz he kept asking if it felt good and I said yes and he was trying really hard to make it ... (87 words)

Will the rebound marriage last?

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12 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - My ex has been in and out of relationships since we split up. He is now 35, slpit up with someone after 18 monthes together then three monthes later meets another one and marries her ten monthes later. Is this marriage likely to last if he was on the rebound??... (50 words)

3 packs of pill back to back and now I have irregular bleeding

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off thankies for reading this! Ok, I've been on the pill (Microgynon 30) for just over a year. And I've been having sex since I went on it, but not with condoms. Doctors told me that it was ok if I took one packet straight after the other so I would miss my period (one ... (215 words)

I'm a lesbian with a boyfriend

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. This is quite messy and odd for me. But about 4 months ago, my best friend's bf came home from college and he and his best friend came over to my best friend's house. The four of us drank and had a good time...and by the end of the night, I was sleeping with his best ... (432 words)

His mum controls his life!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 29 years old, my boyfriend is 46 years old, we've been together for four years now and his mom is 71 years old, she controls his life tells him what to do what he should be doing and what he shouldn't be doing with his life. she wants him to just think about his own family ... (231 words)

Why do people who get into a rebound relationship feel the new person is the ONE?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im coming from my friends relationship well, her and her ex had only been broken up 1 month before he started dating another girl. This guy was always hanging with this girl for like a month and then said that "it just happened" that he had feelings for her. Now he claims she ... (180 words)

What can you do to prevent sleep paralysis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

12 January 2010 (F) age 51-59 - What can you do to prevent sleep paralysis? Hi, so I just asked about my dreams and someone said that it sounds like sleep paralysis. So I looked it up and it sounds like I have it. Let me take you back to after I used to have these dreams where I would feel someone stand... (209 words)

She cheated on me at christmas and I don't know what to do for the best...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for about 4 months now and she told me the other day that over christmas she got drunk and ended up cheating on me, she didn't have sex with this person but they did other things. I really don't know what to do I still really ... (131 words)

I'm falling for a taken man... is he falling for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, im 25 and met this guy who is now 27 in a bar in february of last year. we had a great night together and he gave me his number at the end of the night. anyway totally forgot about his number then in july of this year i changed phones and saw his number. i text him ... (578 words)

Do I have to be friends with my best friend's boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this issue with my friend and her boyfriend! My friend's bf and I used to talk - then one day he stopped talking to me...I did not too much of it, thinking that he was in one of his moods...I would also try to make conversations about things that he might be interes... (700 words)

How do you put yourself in someone else's shoes to see their point of view?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So this is basically a short, right to the point question, how do you "put yourself" in someone else's shoes to see their point of view? And how do you figure out if its you or them with the problem? Ive noticed many relationships of all kinds end because people just cant... (118 words)

I fancy my best friend's ex!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i've been kissing on my best friend's ex of 3 weeks not alot but yea he came up to me and kissed me one day after 2 weeks of there break up and since then we been kissing and stuff for almost 2 weeks i like him before and i told her that and she said she was over him and ... (211 words)

Do women enjoy their clitoris being "tapped" on

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Do women enjoy men "tapping" or hitting their penis against the vagina, especially near the clitoris area. A couple of my mates said their girlfriends enjoyed doing so because it stimulates the clitoris. I would simply like to know your preference on the matter. Thanks... (52 words)

Married but still a virgin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i m married but still virgin? please give me some tips how to lose it? when ever i do sex with husband full of pain in my legs. plz help me. i m very thankful to u. ... (47 words)

She taken and lives far away..and I really like her! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's my story. A year ago, I was dumped for the 3rd time by my girlfriend, which happily ended what was, I realise it now, a disastrous relationship. We were only together for 6 months and long distance (she's English and she lives in France with her daughter, I'm French... (1525 words)

I'm deployed and my wife has gone through some changes! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I need help im so confused...im deployed and my wife has been acting really strange or i dont know what it is...before she always say she loves me and now she dont say it anymore...i ask her why and she says why does she need to say it when we know we love each other? i ... (418 words)

What is my first step to getting out of this marriage??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love again for the second time in my life, to the same man. We were High School sweethearts, and separated during our college years. Here we are 12 years later and we've found each other again, almost as if we never skipped a beat. However, we have found each other in ... (146 words)

Has anyone dated a twin and is that difficult?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i have just begun talking to this girl who i think is amazing and beautiful, and she has a identical twin. Has anyone dated a twin and is that difficult? i would think there are things that are hard to say, like if you tell her shes beautiful then she might think you are at... (88 words)

My friends have laughed at me because I worry I might be pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys.. Ok, this may seem really stupid and funny to ye but im actually freaking out here.. My periods a week late. My boyfriend and I haven't had sex (although we've talked about it). He's fingered me and I've given him hand jobs.. Is there any way you can get pregnant from ... (131 words)

I feel too guilty about a past abortion to feel okay with having children now that I am married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi evryone,it has been 3 mnths since i got married n we are contemplating abt getting kids.ma problem is i had had an abortion before(the pregnancy was of the same guy-we were not ready 4 kids then) and its like am not over it yet.i feel very guilty and i hav never shared this ... (70 words)

She has found somebody else but expects me to haang around nd comfort her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend met another guy and split up with me after we both got into a depression when our baby girls were born prematurely and died. She lacked affection and apparently found the perfect fairy tale guy to give her everything she needs. I have stopped every contact with ... (140 words)

I am confused, I want to appear dignified, but his aactions bother me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys.. i have a friend who i have hooked up with during the summer..we like each other and get on well together but until recently he did not want a relationship due to bad previous experineces..i really liked him though so i kept talking to him even though we are far away ... (633 words)

My partner puts me down all the time ... and I don't know why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm really hoping for some help. I think you guys are great (I've posted on here before) and now I'm very upset so I thought maybe I could get some perspective here. I've been with my partner since 2002 and when I first met him he was loving, funny and kind but I did see a ... (862 words)

It all seems very positive, but he says he doesn't want a relationship

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so I have known this guy for more than 5 years and in the past few years after loosing contact have been catching up. He was always a private guy and never really opened up to me, I can understand that as he was hurt sooooo badly in the past. He has been out socialis... (416 words)

I want to break up, but he keeps telling me how much he loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my bf have been dating for a good four months but it feels like so much more and now it's like smothering and want to brake up with him. The problem is not only the fact that he used to be my best friend but the fact that when ever he senses that I want to brake up ... (97 words)

We tried to make a go of it, but he hits me when I want answers about his affair

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age - I need some advice so please take the time and read my post. I have been with my h/b for 29yrs married for 21yrs,two years ago i found out he was having an affair with a 28 year old co worker i belive he was thinking of leaving me to be with her she was also married and my h/b ... (341 words)

My boyfriend kissed his ex, and I have started stalking her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a real mess and want to stop with what I'm doing... A while back, few months, my boyfriend told me that he met up with his ex oneday and she asked if they could kiss one last time, and they did. I was so hurt by this, since we've been together for three years now. I told ... (177 words)

I am the guy who always goes home alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if I could get some opinions on not only still being single at 29, but never having been in a relationship at all. Im 29 and Im starting to feel like some kind of weirdo. I was very shy when I was younger but came out of my shell in college, but when I did ... (125 words)

I regret that he told him he could talk to his ex again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do I let her bother me all the time? I personally have not met this ex of my bf but I started doing some research and looked her up online....I know then that I looked so much better and prettier than her.......but even still this didn't help with my insecurities.....my ... (284 words)

I don't like kids and now I have one!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a toddler daughter. I love her very much. But im going to b honest: i dont like kids, n now that i have 1, im still adjusting to the whole thing. I feel so awkward playing with her n trying to talk to her on a toddler level. Even my family laughs at me cuz they notice ... (105 words)

He loves me but hes not going to leave the other girl

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out that my man is seeing someone. When i asked he said he love me although he is not going to live his gal friend. What should i do.... (31 words)

How to get closure from the father of my child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I jus lost a baby recently about a month ago. He was going to b my first son. Well after he died, me n the father of the baby decided to stop talking to each other cuz he still continued to cheat n lie. I tried to get him to come to our baby's funeral but he wouldnt come n it ... (127 words)

In love with someone who is in love with someone else? (Sticky situation)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I apologize if this is too long, but i would appreciate it dearly if you could hear me out and provide me with some advice from your own experiences and such. I fell in love with a girl two years ago and as much as i would like to call her my "ex", she never really was. We w... (341 words)

I really like my friend, but he has a girlfriend, should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, well for the past 3 or so months I have REALLY liked someone. He is really good friends with a lot of my close friends. One night I was with him and I really felt he was starting to share the same feelings. And then I went on holidays a couple days after for over a month. ... (192 words)

Pregnant after menstrual cycle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone!I really need your opinion guys,please help me...Is it possible you get pregnant after you had menstrual period?hving unprotected sex?well,honestly...im doubtful if we had sex that time coz it happens that i don't feel pain or anything coz i told him to stop before ... (58 words)

I feel like I'm missing out!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

12 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - Here goes, im 36 years old, have a daughter who is ten and me and her dad split up when she was six monthes. It took a long time to get over him, stopped crying every night for four years and since then i have dated every once in a while, slept with a couple of men but never ... (383 words)

Ex stole my jewelry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - have a problem? my ex has said to me on phone after i discovered my jewellery is missing, i said where is my jewellery? his words where, "its down the pawn shop where i took my watch you know the one in so and so" i said where is my jewllery again in another call, he said i ... (135 words)

Been out of the game too long.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's the problem I was in a 2 year relationship. We had a very healthy sex life. She was beautiful and very experienced I was not but she taught me well. I am no stud but we got the job done. We have been broke up for almost two years now I have only had one successful sexual ... (188 words)

He's on his way, should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I just joined up wondering if I could get some advice. Me and a guy I've been talking to for about 6-7 years on the internet have recently become more... involved I guess you'd say. We've never done anything like cyber or all that jazz but we've always joked about ... (360 words)

Really attracted to him but don't want to take it far unless we are in relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 years old and Im scared to have sex....this guy I use to work, we had really good chemistry but things wasnt so good for me then so I quit my job and we lost contact....Recently Ive gotten back in touch with him and I would really would like for us to become couple and he ... (130 words)

I'm getting mixed signals from her and a lack of communication and it's driving me insane!

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12 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - 'm 31, a single father (never married) and a business professional in my community. I have a 4 yr old little girl that is so well behaved. I am very blessed, and grateful. For almost 5 months I have been dating a 27 year old woman that I think the world of. I seem to always end ... (705 words)

Should I move to be closer to her again?

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12 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hey there, i am having the worst time of my lifetime. there is this girl whom i am working with, we first start it as friend,we were best of each other, she told me that i am the best person she has ever seen and god is compensation her for the time she lost in searching for ... (274 words)

Father Left Me With Emotional Damage..what to do??

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello(: im 16 and i just have a few questions about fathers. to start off with, my father left me when i was born and i have only seen him once when i was about 5 and since then have spoken a word to him. sometimes i feel like he completly ruied my life. i feel like iv had... (351 words)

Should I get the morning after pill?

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - should I get the morning after pill? I just had sex tonight w/o protection but he didn't cum inside. do you think I should?... (24 words)

Cut my losses now?

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12 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - so i met this girl at a party over the weekend, we have been talking alot since then and we are going on a date later on in the week, shes very cool and seems so chill and not fake, i really like her but i just found something out that may ruin things... starting next ... (128 words)

Why are Teenage Girls so Self Conscious?

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I use to be so care free, happy and have virtually nothing on my mind. High school has bought me nothing but depression. I constantly worry about how I look, I get so Parinoid it makes me want to cry, when I think I have to go to school I usually do. I have to plaster my face ... (156 words)

Best friend engaged but I love her!

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12 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have this problem. I have this bestfriend. We have been friends for 5 years. Well I've been in love with her for a couple years now and never admitted to myself. I have just got out of a relationship. And of course she's been there for me this whole time. She comes over and ... (123 words)

Can stress and being physically and emotionally abused affect my pregnancy?

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out that I am pregnant...about 5 weeks. Not in a healthy relationship, please don't lecture about the relationship, I know what I need to do. What I need is advice from people who have been through this before. I was hit in the lower back earlier this mor... (153 words)

I try to maintain the "I'm fine as I am" stance, but most guys seem to go for the trophy girl sort

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12 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have always thought that it was best to be myself- people always say "just be yourself" but then you have the Hollywood idea where looks are everything. Perfect hair, tight clothes, no brains. (Apparently it isn't "cool" to be smart or well-spoken.) My one friend who was ... (227 words)

I keep having bad dreams about people I love, or have loved, dying

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've asked a similar question to this before, the situation has only worsened since then. I suffer from extremely disturbing nightmares, in which often a loved one dies. Usually it's my best friend/ex boyfriend that dies. It's been a variety of ways--plane crashes, car cras... (132 words)

I feel I am a few years behind everybody and that I'll be rubbish at sex

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12 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok heres the deal. I'm 18 and a virgin... I had a few relationships when i was younger, and have done a few "sexual" things, but never actually had sex. Then something happened in my life that put me under extreme stress and girls were no longer my number 1 priority. Now howe... (117 words)

We were going great until his friend referred to me as his girlfriend!

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so here's the deal. I met this guy while we were co-workers in the DHSS office we worked in. We started talking and dating and he ended up leaving the office for another job. Things started getting more serious, so I asked him what his intentions were to make sure that we ... (422 words)

I can't attract girls!

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12 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - No matter what I do, I just cant seem to attract girls, and the rare occasions I do, They get bored and move on after a short while. (But that's another issue). I'm not very confident, so going out and meeting new people is a bit hard for me. I'm ok if someone introduces me to ... (188 words)

When does the crappy feeling go away?

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12 January 2010 (F)

- I feel so awful! I met with my soon-to be "ex" husband to discuss me filing for divorce. We've been separated for a few years and I guess he thought we'd get back together. So I gave him the opportunity have closure and talk everything through one more time, but I just ended up ... (241 words)

My friends say he is just using me, but he just makes me smile

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - First off let me say he has a very good job. Now we met in September and by October he had to be deployed untill this summer. When I was with him I was the happiest girl in the world. I just got out of a bad relationship, my ex was marriend and never told me so I have really ... (166 words)

I hate my close friends

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - If your friends constantly unintentianally belittle you, and make your hopeful heart often sink to tears when they're not there, then they are not really your friends. If after not seeing them for a while makes you scared to see or speak to them because you know that you will ... (915 words)

My partner keeps putting me down and he's so moody

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12 January 2010 (F)

I can't say no to the ladies!

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12 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Help! I am a 24 year old male and the problem i have is to much sex/ relationships. Every weekend i go out and i will go through between 2 and 5 woman a weekend, i cannot say no! I am a good looking guy and very cheeky and flirt alot, i have settled down in relationship for ... (171 words)

I'm in love with my pregnant principal

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i think im falling in love with my principal. shes all i ever think about, theres not one day where i dont talk about her and i cant walk by her office without saying hi. She sometimes stops by my cafe. at lunch, i always have to go up and talk to her. even if its just to get ... (293 words)

Is it possible to love someone at 15?

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Do you think it is possible to love someone at 15 i honestly think i do..its something i can't explain and then its like there is nothing i could do to change it?... what do you think it would be very helpful... (42 words)

At first I never liked him, and now I do, is this an infactuation?

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy who liked me for a long time, and while he was my friend, I never liked him. The thing is, i've grown to like him. There are things about him I don't like, but they don't matter. When i'm with him, i'm happy and comfortable. but it seems my feelings for him ... (67 words)

Who could the father be?

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I'm 7mnths pregnant! Due march 18th! The 1st day of my last period was 11th june which means I ovulated 14 days afta on the 25th! My most fertile days were from the 20th june to 25th june and I had unprotected sex with my partner on 21st and unprotected sex with someone ... (92 words)

We can't date so I feel guilty about leading him on a dance

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy and we've been friends for a long time. he likes me back, yet we aren't dating. I feel as though i'm leading him on though because we aren't dating. Dating isn't convenient for me (parents, school, etc) but i still care about him and he knows that. Would ... (94 words)

Should I leave the love of my life to go to medical school?

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for 9 months tomorrow and plan on making the relationship a lot longer than it is now. I have not had sex with him yet...yay me! lol...We are very very close and have been friends since we were 4 or 5. I plan on marrying him but there is a problem. ... (122 words)

Signs of a player?

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12 January 2010 (F)

age - I need advice!! I have pushed myself to get back into the dating world. I went online and never thought I would meet someone I would fall for and BAM! Two weeks ago I met a man and we have been emailing 24/7. We have clicked. We have exchanged pcitures and are so attracted to ... (272 words)

I didn't get to say goodbye to my crush and now I think of him all the time

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone I have a bit of a problem and I hope someone can help me with it every Answer I,ll be greatful For :)( It kinda rambles on but I want u 2 know the whole story ). About two years ago my friend Brought me to a Church youth group.The reason she brought me there was so ... (512 words)

Being teased about a crush on the teacher

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i've got a crush on a teacher.all the kids are teasing me.i'm worried about turing my computer on because the kids leave me messages about us on facebook myspace and so on.they tease me at school too.i'm worried that my parnets will give me a speech on trusting people if i tell ... (56 words)

I thought I had it all, now she tells me she was faking it all through

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12 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there, im 18 and and i am in a relationship for 1 and half years and i love my gf alooooooot more than myself. she accepted my proposal and said even she loved me. we both hugged, kissed, fought, loved, said srry 2 each other and did everything what a perfect teen couple ... (300 words)

I don't want him to take advantage of me!

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12 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have finally gotten enough courage to ask a guy that I have been flirting with over that last year. By talking to him over this year he has given answers and made comments that made me think he was single. After asking him out I found out that he was not single, and was ... (133 words)