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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can I play tennis at 20 weeks pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi and thanks to all who responds to my post =) I was just wondering if i can play tennis while i'm 20 weeks pregnant. Thanks. And how active can I be while i'm pregnant. I would just like to know my limits bc this is my first pregnancy... (51 words)

My ex bf is messing with my head but I can't let go! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i broke up with my ex tim* 4 months ago (we were together for a year and a half and completely in love) because this is our senior year and i felt like i missed out on having fun with my own friends and i felt like i was in a committed relationship for too long and i was scared ... (552 words)

I moved across the world to be with him-now he's not sure if he loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a hard situation. I moved to another country to be with my boyfriend, he was pretty scared/nervous/unsure about it but he still did a lot for me as well as his family. I live with them now the last 6 months and he broke up with me because everyone has something to say ... (196 words)

I thought I was happily married for 32 years until he found a younger woman! How do I cope with the anger?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age - I think it's ridiculous how common my current situation has become in recent years. In a nut shell, my husband of thirty-two years and I just finalized our divorce two days ago. He'd been having an affair with a much younger woman for nine months and I found this out exactly ... (286 words)

Is highschool fun?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im going into highschool after Summer, and I was wondering is it fun? And will guys take interest in me, finally? Thanks. P.S. - Anything else you can tell me about fun things to do in Highschool or if you had fun or anything would be great. :] ... (52 words)

I'm scared to let him give me oral in case I smell!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - heyy, i am in a relationship and love this guy a lot but i stop him going to give me oral because i am paranoid that i smell down there. can you give me any advice on how to over come this? thank you =)... (45 words)

We fist fight all the time and it's not getting better... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Well i was with my girlfriend for a year and a half. We spent so much time together, and as i look back i think that is where some of the problem started. I had so many friends even me and my exes was cool, and she did not like that. I talked to her brother and asked what to ... (595 words)

I become obsessed with famous people and feel like I freak for being this way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - okay heres the thing im a 15 year old girl and I become obsessed with famous people. it all started off when i was younger about 10 and im still doing it. its like i imagine being in that persons life and them loving me. im not in love with them, but it really want to know the... (118 words)

I went down the affair route as I wanted to feel love, but I don't want to do that any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i am not sure what i am feeling, but here it goes... I have been with my husband for 14 years. We met when we were 18 and got pregnant 9 months later, we have been together ever since, with a few breaks here and there. We have been married now 8 years, and added a few more ... (614 words)

I need to make a major decision here... any input would be appreciated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend of a year and half. I absolutely love him. I live with him already and it is going great. It hasn't messed up our relationship at all. The thing is I have to switch schools to get the BS I am trying to get and I have two options. One of the schools ... (313 words)

Love stories...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - I just wanted to say that I'm love, and it feels great. It's unrequited, but it really makes my life better. This isn't exactly an advice question, I just wanted to hear anyone else's love stories because this site always seems so depressing, why not have positive things once ... (56 words)

Am I investing my time for it all to end anyway???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love beyond what I ever thought possible. I was once married (for almost 10 years), and left that relationship a hollow (cynical) man. I spent a lot of time learning about myself, my needs, and ultimately what I wanted. At about the time I was ready to venture ... (557 words)

Help! I have a very high sex drive and my fiance doesn't - yet he's watching porn?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for seven years. We're young- no older than 22 and We've lived together for three of the seven. A few months back i woke up randomly from having gone to sleep early and noticed pink light on the walls from the next room. My very first th... (835 words)

My best friend likes a jerk! Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I've been really annoyed with my friends judgement lately! My best friend, let's call her Whinnie, really likes this guy I can't stand! He is in no way attractive, practically looks albino, has a pizza face, dorky hair cut, thinks he's totally bad ass, puts ... (295 words)

If he finds out I'm banging his "little princess" the man will kill me!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, I have a HUGE problem. I am 29 yrs old and have been working for a construction company for a year. My boss is totally cool and since I have no family in the area has pretty much opened his home to me. We get along great both at work and off work and I totally respect him. ... (183 words)

Does anyone have any insite on the "transferring" of feelings into a rebound?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i've read on various sites then when someone breaks up with someone that they have had a significant relationship with they end up rebounding shortly after and "transfer" there feelings onto the new person. And that the feelings are real but they are subconciously ... (408 words)

She's ignoring me and won't give me a reason...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i know a girl that i close to and i like her she likes me back but i hade some problem for 3 weeks and i couldnt talk with her all that time, so when i met her in school she was sad i tried to talk to her she said doesnt want to talk to me or even say hi!, then i have sent her ... (264 words)

I am not happy with him and wasn't before we got married either. How do I find the strength to leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just got married a few months ago. I am not happy with the marriage. I am not in love with my husband. I made a mistake getting married. I knew in my heart that it wasn't right for me, but there was a glimmer of hope things would change after we married, so I went through ... (127 words)

Is it ok to not have a boyfriend at 14? A friend in my class has had 45!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Just wondering if its normal to be kinda frigid at 14? It's just that I have seen girls my age who have gone past the whole "shy" thing and are dating boys whenever they feel like.Theres a girl in my year who' had over 45 boyfriends. I have never had one, never kissed a g... (111 words)

Is it just my imagination or does my teacher like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think it most probably is my imagination, but I have to be sure that this teacher isn't showing interest in me, because I don't want to report him if it's nothing. So - when I first had him as my music teacher I really hated him, he was the short, balding man who although... (447 words)

I don't tell my boyfriend about my problems as I don't want him to think I cannot handle things!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I miss my boyfriend a lot when he goes back to school. He occassionally comes back on the weekend, but I just feel so distant from him even though we try to talk at least once a day. I support him as much as I can so I don't let on to how much I miss him so that he does not... (346 words)

Just as I got over him he comes back into my life saying he wants me back. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend high school sweetheart of 5 years cheated, i believed he was the love of my life but i found out last August that he was in a relationship with onother girl, when i confronted him he agreed he was cheating and said he doesnt need me in my life anymore and that i ... (209 words)

Help, I'm in love with a married man (my son's father), what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupid my name is vanessa. im new to the site but i have an issue and i would love some advice. In 2005 i fell in love with a guy. In 2006 i got pregnant and i had his baby. He had another child and he said he had no dealings with his other baby's mother. They beginning of ... (172 words)

He got one of his friends pregnant while we were dating. Should I trust him and stay with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When I first started dating my now boyfriend he texted me all the time. I really believed we had a connection. However after dating him for a little less than a month he slept with one of his friends and got her pregnant. He told me right away that she was pregnant and that he ... (156 words)

My husband lost his temper and threw our wedding ring out the window!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F) age 41-50 - my husband is lightly controlling and its all come to a head when he lost his rag with me because I did some overtime at work today, we got into an arguement and he threw his wedding ring out the window, he is always really childish when it comes to me and I dont know what to ... (91 words)

I agreed that my wife have sex with another man and now she is pregnant with his baby and won't give it up!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my wife made a mistake but my wife thinks different, don't know what to do I’ve been married to my beautiful wife Robin for almost 2 years, we dated for just over a year before we got happily got married, I would say maybe about 8 months ago me and my wife ended up ... (993 words)

How can I break up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months and at first it was great and I really liked him He kept telling me that I was his soul mate and he really loved me it was sweet at first but now its Starting to get annoying he wants to be with me all the time and constan... (119 words)

She isn't taking my calls..should I keep trying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi cupid, i want to ask question.i need a reasonable answer for this. i met this girl just a week. she came to my office where am working with her elder sister who have married. they came to browse in our office. when i saw her, i don't know what happened but i know is LOVE. ... (373 words)

I can't tell if my boyfriend's best friend likes me..what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so I have a bit of a complicated situation. It may seem silly, but can someone please tell me what this situation seems like from the outside? Do you think my bf's best friend might like me a little? Please bear with me as this may get confusing. I've been dating my b... (333 words)

Lately, my gf seems to be going off me'. What can I do to keep her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I dont really know where to start I am in love with my girlfriend, I really am. But lately I dont know...she seems to be going off me. And that put's me in a really bad mood which makes our conversations not as pleasent. We've never had an argument in the time we've g... (161 words)

Problems with females in relationships! Help me understand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm mad about this girl...I liked her for a long, long time. I don't know if she played games with me or just didn't know how to reject me a way to not offend me. She broke up with me on prom night in high school, and I flipped out on her two days after. She felt bad, so she ... (235 words)

Discussing marriage with my bf...greatly upsets him. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my bf for 4 years. Whenever we try to have a serious discussion regarding our future (marriage) he gets extremely upset with me (i.e. yells, shouts, HUGE arguments). I try very hard to do special things for him. I cook, clean, do his laundry, go grocery ... (144 words)

I still love him! So how do I salvage this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles i need advice ive been having problems with my boyfriend and i cant seem to get him off my mind. he took my virginity and he did confess to me that he had female friends. but i believe its more. however i have male friends and a few of them want to be with ... (113 words)

Caught my bf masturbating while chatting to another woman, online!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we met when i was 14 and he was 18, i was dating his friend (nothing serious) and eventually he and i hooked up. We had a great relationship in the begining (as most are), then i caught him jacking off while chatting with a girl online. ... (279 words)

Scared of this gang girl who is mad at me! What shall I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ive some how been involved in a bit of trouble with this girl. Apparently I've been sending some slutty pictures around.[which I HAVEN'T]. She is the type of girl you dont want to know. She texted my mate to say "when i see her (me) she's gonna wish she weren't born" . The ... (91 words)

H's bashing me to other people, on this dating site! What is his problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (?) age - I dated someone who is now on match.com and is bashing me to the women he is now communicating with. A friend on match.com found this out through her community of members and told me. I texted him and let him know i knew, which of course he denied. He was getting divorced (i ... (96 words)

He turns angry and aggressive when I attempt to leave him! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi sorry this is going to be a long post but i will shorten it as much as i can. i have been with my partner 5 years - we no longer live together - i dont want to be with him anymore but am scared to leave him. He has been violent and aggressive - he doesnt live her... (298 words)

Husband addicted to prostitutes!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age - Can I regain trust in my husband, married for 28 years found out 3 weeks ago he has been seeing prostitutes for 11 years but stopped 14 months ago because he found one 55 miles away that he has seen twice a week, bought lots of presents for etc. Never bought me a present. Text ... (208 words)

I had my contraceptive rod taken out 5 months ago, now I'm trying to get pregnant and nothing is happening!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i got the contraceptive rod in , it last for three years, unfortunately i had it in for four. i just got it out 5 months 6 maybe due to trying to get pregnant, but nothing happening.. do i wait longer for my body to get back to normal or shouldn't it matter. i already have ... (67 words)

How do I ask him back? Its my wrong and I admit it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i broken up with him 3 months ago. I wanted him back after a week of breaking up but he refused because i hit him and scolded him in front of some people for some other thing he did. I was asking myself is pride so important? Then only recently i realise it is because i'm ... (209 words)

Am I cheating on my wife because my penis is too small to satisfy her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - my penis is too small in size even in most excited condition (4 inch long and max. 1 inch diameter). Nevertheless i got married 26 yr old lady while i was at my 36. frankly speaking my penis does not fit well into her vegina. i can guess 50% of her veg. mouth remain still ... (135 words)

My best friend's in love with me! But I don't see him that way.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met him two years ago.. (He's two years elder to me and we're in the same school) Since then we've been best friends. We used to hang out all the time, and talk the whole day. And he kept on having a crush on me. I didnt know about it till my girlfriends told me about it. I ... (177 words)

Am I wrong for getting upset at the way my bf disrespects me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

- Ok, my and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 years. I'm starting to question our relationship though because of the inconsideration he has for me and my feelings. Last night his nephews and niece had stopped by with his sister. His nephews came downstairs and I was ... (531 words)

Is it safe to give my boyfriend a blow-job with braces on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of three years and I are both 20, we're both old enough to be responsible and know the consequences of sex and... tomorrow I get my braces. I've been waiting for them for about eight years now (since I was 12 and found out I actually needed them). So, is it safe... (94 words)

I'm in love with my best friend but she doesn't love me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im in love with my best friend ive been friends with her for three years we have even kiss a couple of times and our other friends say we should go out and she the only girl that makes me happy and i feel like she the one but we're both in relationships and we're both miserable ... (234 words)

I really like this girl but I'm scared to ask her out in case everyone laughs at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - i am Polish, i really love one English girl but she just doesnt seem to like me.i am not sure if i should try to talk to her, i always go red when im near her... i think that everyone will laugh at me when they will know that i asked her out, what should i do??? ... (57 words)

Should I end my marriage to find real love, or just be happy that I have someone who loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age - Ok i get married to a wonderful lady to help her out of a bad situation. we have been married almost two years. i love her but am not in love. I am 54 years young. i think everyday about how to get out, but don't want to hurt her and dont want to be alone. she has some issues ... (143 words)

Is 1 hour a big enough distance for a relationship not to work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Is 1 hour a big enough distance for a relationship not to work. I've hung out with this girl who i like a lot and shes told me that she likes me a lot, thinks im cute but she's busy and lives 1 hour away and thinks that it would be too hard to do. I personally think... (124 words)

Opinions please... In love with my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is quite a complicated situation, so I'm going to write an entry from my diary in here, it probably explains my feelings better. Basically, I'm in love with my best best friend. Our "relationship" has been going on for about a year and a half now. We're not actually ... (701 words)

I feel my boyfriend is taking advantage of me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for ten months now on and off, i do love him but i think he is taking advantage of me, he works and i go to school, i do not ask him for money but he does, where does his money go? well from what i know he less than half of it goes to his car and ... (164 words)

Do I just leave her alone and let her live her life or do I try and pursue her and at least try to stay in her life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - It has been almost three months now since my ex and I parted ways from our one year relationship. Our break-up was not easy on either of us, but I felt that there was no resentment or hard feelings towards one another. We stayed in contact regularly even though it was me that ... (297 words)

What is this bleeding I am experiencing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i am a week late on my period and today i started bleeding the color is red not light pink is it implantation bleeding or my period? i have no symptoms of pregnancy no nausea, tender breast all i have is the flu! thanks ... (48 words)

Am I in the wrong for getting upset over my girlfriend chatting to men late into the night?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Hey everyone, I could REALLY use your independent opinions on a big issue I'm having with my GF! Help! Now, either I am nuts and the problem's all mine, or she's not treating me right! Please help me figure this out! We've been going out for a month...she's 47 an... (254 words)

How do I make my girlfriend happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - what i've 2 do 2 make ma girlfriend happy?... (9 words)

I am a female with a confusing freindship with my gay male friend who I love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all, I am a female and I have had a kind of 'bi' male freind for the last two years ( Well, I say kind of bi he is gay at the crux of it - he has dated and slept with a few women in the past, but now men)Anyway,he is very nice, we are very close ,and get on extremley... (533 words)

How can I get him to like me again now that I've lost weight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this boy but i dont no if he still likes me i mean like we went out and stuff but i got fat and i he called me fat and no thaqt im skinny again i dont no wat to do i want him to like me and i want to get back with him i need help can anyojne help me ... (65 words)

I cant stop questioning my boyfriend after he cheated on me while I was pregnant! How can I stop myself from doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend cheated on me when i was 6 months pregnant. 9 months on we are still together but im still having my doubts. i keep getting the same dream of him and this girl every night before i go to sleep and its really starting to get me down and question my boyfriend which i ... (79 words)

I'm finding it hard to trust my husband seen as he is on dating websites saying he is looking for someone to cheat with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having problems with my husband. I have seen twice now that he has filled out profiles on dating websites. Once this summer and once last week. After filling the one out this summer, he never went back to it, but the other he has gone back to. The most recent one is a pay ... (255 words)

I'm questioning the love of my boyfriend and I don't know why!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two wonderful years, and I couldnt imagine life without him. The only problem is, when he left to go to start some schooling I was lonely and made-out with another man, nothing more than that. I felt horrible for months and I finally ... (175 words)

I need some impartial views on my situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, I/we seriously need some help!!! A bit of background (some of you may find this familiar!) http://www.dearcupid.org/question/nothing-concrete-but-more-seems-to-be-going.html Anyway after a hell of a year last year, my husband and I have made the decision to stop... (676 words)

I don't know what to do about our problems in the bedroom department!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 9 months, living together for 8 of those, I've found out lots of things about him that I couldn't have imagined, but I love him with all my heart and he loves me, my problem is that he doesn't make love to me, he did occasionally at first, and it ... (260 words)

Can depression/stress cause you to be more aroused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my parents are going through a rough time at the moment and i think will eventually break up. my dads walked out twice but uses the house when mums at work. both times he's walked out its affected me pretty bad, (more noticable the second time) ive become stressed, tired, ... (87 words)

I'm planning on leaving my wife some day because I don't find her attractive. Does the problem lie with me or with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4766 days ago

21 January 2010 (M)

age - Dear cupid, I have been married for more than twenty years now. I have children (two teenagers) and the youngest one is 17 now. The problem is I married my wife for ten different reasons and none of them is love. I don't like her, physically speaking, and she's very far f... (165 words)

Should I finish with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend in a long distance relationship for 2 years. He lives in Bulgaria and I am in the UK. We have always been planning for me to join him in Bulgaria and we decided once he had a steady job there and somewhere for us to live then I would go over. My ... (156 words)

I want to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend but I cant trust him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't no wat to do! im really in love with my boyfriend and I want to be with him for the rest of my life, but I can not trust him. we been together for 4 and some years andd we had our ups and downs and stayed with him at those times. but now I think I have to let him go. I ... (170 words)

How to deal with my boyfriend's anger issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and I'm in love with him but he has anger issues..he lost his dad when he was 5yrs old. He says that's why he's so mad all the time but he takes his anger out on me. Few weeks ago I spilt like a drop of icee on him and he was like omg ... (393 words)

What should I do to help my friend's daughter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I had this friend who isn't being a good mother! She uses her welfare money to go shopping and clubbing instead of using it for her daughter! She sleeps with random guys and tells her daughter that's going to be her new "daddy!" every single weekend! Her baby's father is around ... (162 words)

Is it wrong to date boys in the grade below me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5448 days ago

21 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Mt friends are mostly guys that are my age but a grade lower than me. Because these are the guys I hang out with all the time, I usually end up liking one of them, but a lot of people say it's wrong to go out with a guy that's a grade lower, even if they are the same age as me. ... (77 words)

His mum's secret is haunting me and our relationship is becoming unbearable, what do I do?

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunties. My problem is my fiance sucked and licked a strippers boobs on he's bachelors party, i wasnt cool about it and told him im not happy he says it was only a party meant nothing. sometimes i think about it the people that arranged it told me there will be none but ... (651 words)

My marriage is falling apart after only a month, all because my husband wont stop his calls to this other woman!

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21 January 2010 (F)

age - Please can you help as my new marriage is falling apart. I am sorry but it is a long post. I have been married for under a month and things are not going well. Due to work we do not live with each other but see each other as much as possible and talk and text on the phone al... (426 words)

Since I mentioned he needs to go to the fertility clinic he has started smoking cannabis and wont listen to my concerns!

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old, i am with a lad who is 26 i have been with him for two and a half years. i love him and want to have a child but we need to go to the fertility as he has had a illness in the past which could make him infertile but since i told him he has started smoking ... (124 words)

What is the meaning of kisses on the end of text messages?

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I'm guessing all you guys and girls get "x" or "xx" or even a "xxx" after texting somebody you like or you care for i.e. mom, brother etc. The whole reason I'm here is because of a girl, I really like. I think she likes me because she flirts back with me. When we first me... (257 words)

Will these feelings for my ex ever go away? Its been 10 years and I still think about him every day!

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Below is a letter I wrote to my former lover explaining how I feel about him. I have no intention of sending it, I just needed to get it out there because I felt like I needed to get it out of me. Plus the therapist mentioned it would help :) My question is with these strong o... (699 words)

I'm a 22 yr old female married but no longer like sex!

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 years old and I'm happily married to my 30 year old husband.we've been together for four and married for almost 1yr.I don't have any type of sex drive anymore.its been like this for months we don't have a lot of problems I don't know what's wrong.I always have sex ... (80 words)

What makes you fall in love?

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I get someone to fall in love with me, also what makes you fall in love with another person. If your answer is “be yourself” please don't waste yours and my time... (34 words)

What shall I do when she has asked me to give her time?

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this girl bout 3years from friendster and we started till then but that time we less msg but juz a friend.. started 2009 we really started to msg to each other everyday although we haven meet yet and really get to understand her bout 1 years and she also duno that i like ... (715 words)

Should I ask this girl out?

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im 13 and there is this girl in my school i like a lot and i think she likes me she always wants to talk to me and she hugs me all the time but i dont know what i sould do , she is mature (she reads thees books about vampires giving blowjobs and wont hesitate to talk about sex) ... (93 words)

Endometriosis Surgery Aftermath?

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay everyone, im an 18 year old female and i have a few questions to ask, theyre about my health. A few weeks ago the doctor found out that i have chronic endometriosis, a bad appendix, and a cyst on my uterus. I had surgery to have all this removed, but here recently ive been ... (166 words)

I am in my mid-20's and still single, and I have no clue why!

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I am currently in my mid 20s and I have never been in a long term relationship in my life. Why do you think this could be? here are the details about myself The longest I went out with a woman is 2 dates and i have had countless first dates. The odd thing is that i h... (642 words)

Partner is MIA and has me dumbfounded, grasping at straws!

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21 January 2010 (M)

age - I need help feeling secure, or am I fooling myself? Being unemployed had been placing a strain on my relationship of 7 months. Just before X-mas I was told by my partner that he felt that he was putting in all the effort for us and that he couldn't do it much longer. I p... (486 words)

Should I be the bigger person or ignore him?

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so do i ignore this guy im tryin to get over or be the bigger person and say hi. two weeks ago me and him got into a big arguement over him callin me borin cause he tried to touch my leg and i pushed him extremely hard. in the past we have been attracted to each other on ... (99 words)

Why is it so painful when we try to have sex? The doctor says I'm fine healthwise.....

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i went to the doctor so its not anything health wise..ok so now after we tried to have sex twice, we tried again, for a third time. it still wont go in and it causes me excruciating pain... maybe i over-exaggerated but it hurts pretty bad. this guy is overly experinced and ... (210 words)

Does my teacher like me or is he just flirting?

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok well I see I really like this teacher of mine!.. But hears the problem he's 26 and I am only 14.I would just die for him to ask me to just at least stay after class with him!!! Well one day during a discussing I was looking around the room and my eyes kind of glanced over at ... (262 words)

My boyfriend's ex keeps calling him, do you think they could still be involved?

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf ex keeps calling him after so long whats up with that does she want something? are they involved? could he be lying to me?... (26 words)

It seems whenever I open my heart for someone I get crushed, its getting really hard to trust girls now!

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - love sucks. Ive really liked two different girls in the past 2 months, and both of them have hung out with me a lot, told me they really liked me, kissed me and everything looked promising and for one reason or another they slowly became distant and now we hardly talk. ... (91 words)

She has a problem with my drinking!

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So last night i was drinking shots and i popped a couple of xanex pills to establish a buzz faster than useuall well i was having a good time, and i went to sleep.. well i wake up this morning, and everything in my room is broken, one of my walls is knocked down to where my ... (332 words)

What is this weird ex boyfriend thinking? I'm so confused!

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my ex 8 years ago.. I was 17. We dated for only 3 months. We broke up because of stupid reason. Guess we were just young. We always remained good friends. But on and off a few times. We always hugged each other to sleep whenever we were watching a movie together or ... (610 words)

How do I convince him to have more kids?

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old female in a relationship with a 33 year old divorced man. I live with him and we have discussed getting engaged this upcoming summer. My problem is, he already has 4 children from his previous marriage but I do not have any. How do I convince him to try to ... (80 words)

He used me in order to make his ex jealous!

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i like this guy from same school but different class for 6months..i want to talk to him so badly,but don't know how to approach him naturally. one day he approach me and said he wants my number..i was so happy like crazy person.. so began contact each other.we talked in genera... (258 words)

Do I have to look like a model to keep the sex alive?

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21 January 2010 (F) age - My husband does not seem to be attracted to me anymore.He does not say it ,but he never touching me or looks at me sexy... Now he is very polite guy, and kind.He is not rude with me, but I just see our sex life dead. I did put on weight over the years,not really fat ,but out of ... (158 words)

Older man or younger guy?

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am soon turning 26 and would like to make some stable,serious choices concerning my life. I have been dating an older man aged 54 for 4 years. I was eventually tired of a distant relationship etc and decided to break things off.We split a year ago but were still deeply inl... (344 words)

Starting over with the same woman

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - so me and this girl who i dated for for about 2 years broke up with me at the beginning of this school year we are in college. now we have started talking again and we are slowly trying to work things out and start a new relationship. the reason she told me we broke up was ... (184 words)

I want to see my wife have sex with other men

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I am obsessed with the thought of seeing my wife having sex with other men. I am from a very conservative background, and my wife was a virgin untill she met me. We are not into wild parties etc either. But I just can't shake off the thought of sharing her with other men ... (190 words)

I broke up with him because I thought I couldn't handle a committed relationship, but then I realised how wrong I was! Now he wont take me back because he is enjoying being single too much!

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21 January 2010 (F)

She's rude so how do I get back at her?

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey one of my friends well not really friend... got my boyfriend number and texted him and told him things that weren't true so he broke up with me..he says would't have broken up with me if he hadnt heard that. so what should i do? i really want him back but he said we can ... (98 words)

Can my grandmother make me give up my baby for adoption?

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 14 and pregnant i dont live with my mother and father i live with my grandmaa and my parents arent together but my mom said she would help me i wanna keep this child its daddy will be 18 in a month and we have beeen dating for over a year and i will be 15 in 3 months im am ... (81 words)

She would really freak me out as a serious girlfriend...

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 26 years old and I've been having quite a dilemma lately. Here's the story: One of my two best friends is a girl, and well... she tells me everything... she's also very sexual and relates almost everything to sex in a healthy way i guess, and me being her friend... (815 words)

Does depression inevitably follow a break up?

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I just ended a relationship with someone who I found out was two-timing me. I knew I wanted to break up with him in the near future anyway because I didn't want to pursue a future with him for various reasons. I was always thinking about how unhealthy of a relationship it was ... (218 words)

How do I stop myself from falling in love??

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - There is a boy in my class and I find that I am falling for him. I do not think this guy has a shred of interest in me to start with and to be honest, all the girls fancy him - so a bit of a lady's man: a bit of a player and the sort who would definately break my heart! I am ... (146 words)

What is this cheesy off white fluid? Eugh!

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - The first day of my last period was Dec 16th 2009 and my period usually last about 4-5 days and then off it goes. And usually on the 28 or 30 day after it comes again and it's now jan 20th 2010 and my period is still not here. and i keep having these watery discharge along with ... (93 words)

He is such a flirt and it tears me apart...

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I am 20 years old and I have a 4 year old son and a 23 year old boyfriend. I am 13 weeks pregnant with his baby, high risk pregnancy. We live with his mom and step dad cause we are both unemployed. Well anyway my boyfriend has cheated on me a few times within the last 5 ... (273 words)

Average time to propose to your girlfriend?

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - For anyone who could possibly know... What's the average amount of time it takes before guys propose to their girlfriends?... (20 words)

The feeling of being unwanted...

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, well im a 21 year old girl and i believe that im having a real relationship issue. When i was 13 years old, i used to get in a relationship for only a week or two because i used to get bored immediately although i used to adore the guy. so i used to be a heart breaker, u... (252 words)

My friend confessed his loved to me - what should I do??

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a circle of friends from university - there are 4 of us and we are best friends. We would hang out together practically every day. One of my friends has recently professed his love to me. The reason behind him writing me this long love letter was because I was going on ... (350 words)

How do I get back with my stepsister?

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I was seeing my step sister but we broke up even though she still likes me. She is afraid people would not except it. How do I tell her it is ok? We have both fell for each other very deeply it's killing me and we're not blood related.... (51 words)

Being single sucks!

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21 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - im 14 and my gf broke up with me not too long ago, its middle school so thats to be expected, but i miss having someone to hug and kiss and just relax with. the thing is she was my first girlfriend and we were only together for about a week, so im not too confident ill have ... (114 words)

His ex is always there in the back of my mind and I don't know what to do any more... Please help!

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't do it anymore... I don't know where to go from this point. I've talked to everyone that I possibly can (except a therapist, because I can't afford one), I've looked up forums and posts on countless sites all over the internet (as well as posting my own), and I've simply ... (1289 words)

Update: Help!!! I really like my guy friend but I don't know if he likes me back

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Update: yesterday, a guy that i used to really like asked me to be his girlfriend. he was really scared that i would reject him so he wrote me a note to ask. i still kind of had feelings for him so i said that i would be. after he left, the other guy, im gonna call him jame... (240 words)

I can't bear my boyfriend's silent treatment...

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21 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Whenever we have a fight, he goes and locks himself away in our bedroom and doesn't speak to me. At first I thought this was just his "cooling off period", but he remains angry at me even after he has had his time alone. Once it lasted for 2 days - and we live together! It has ... (150 words)