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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

A crush on my assistant principle?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Well, ever since September I met my assistant principal, and ever since then ive been becoming more and more attached to her. My friends think im obsessed with her and a suck up. But the truth is i think i have a crush on her. I dont know though, but whenever i walk by her ... (252 words)

Is he trying to upset me on purpose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have no idea what to do this guy i ve been seeing him for 8 months ago but i dont know what to think about him he sometimes is nice sometimes very cold and distante and he says he cares about me,the thing is that he is planning to make vactions for 10 days and since he knows ... (152 words)

Should I be concerned that she hasn't called or texted me yet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - So, the girlfriend and I used to text all the time until I got upset with her lying to me and we had a big argument. When I talked to her last night, everything was fine. I have been trying to make myself "less available" hoping that she would pursue more. I haven't ... (84 words)

Does he not care about me at all?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf told me that he was entertaining his ex while i was at work wtf? he then said that she still has feelings after so long,after that he came to pick me up on work and was all jolly .then later that night he said he wanted have sex with her but she looks pregnant so he was ... (141 words)

Will mood stabilizers bring some hope back into my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Today is my birthday and I am so depressed. I was diagnoised with bipolar II disorder this summer and I have been having difficuly accepting it. Right now in my life I have few friends, and no prospective relationship. My birthday is a reminder that I am not doing anything ... (180 words)

Is it normal for a married man to masturbate to his wife's friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2745 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know if it is normal for a married man to masturbate to his wifes friends. My husband is wonderful but we are having an issue because a few months ago after we had our second baby we were changing memory cards in our phones when i found a picture of one of my friends ... (153 words)

Are there certain times of the month where she might not get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I really need to know. My girlfriend told me she was on the pill so we decided not to use condoms because she doesnt like the fell of them or something. Wel anyway a few days after we did it my girlfriend confessed to me that she had forgot to take the pill for a few days! i ... (112 words)

I feel like he took advantage of me. How do I fix things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So there's this guy I work with and we had been getting along really well. When we first started flirting I found out he had a girlfriend. So I backed down for a while. He kept at it so I figured what's the harm in flirting. It's not like it's actually gonna go anywhere cause ... (361 words)

My ex boyfriend gave me herpes. How can I cope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend gave me herpes. But it is type HSV-1, which is the 'cold sore' type, as opposed to HSV-2, which is 'genital herpes' type. However, I do have HSV-1 on my genitals. I've only had one or two minor outbreaks, and maybe a couple possible outbreaks which weren't ... (304 words)

Should I text him first on Thursday???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey me and my ex boyfriend have been over for about a month. We were realy good friends before we dated so when it was over we both wanted to be friends still. He broke up with me before but we got back together 2 weeks later. Now its over again. He started texting me last ... (204 words)

How can I get my 7 year old to stay in bed and sleep???

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi i know this is a site about relationships, and this problem is about my relationship with my 7 year old daughter in a round about way. I'm at the end of my tether with her at bed time, for the first few years she went to bed with no trouble, but within the last year i am ... (188 words)

Advice sought... Why is my period late???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

- 20 years old, my bf and I have just starting having sex together for the first time recently. We used a condom and he didnt cum inside of me. My period is late, by about 3 days. So I am scared that I could be pregnant. For the past 3 days I have been taking pregnancy te... (100 words)

Pains and aches when in a sexual mood for too long...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question. I've recently been getting pains and aches near my lower stomach and balls. It only happens when being with my girlfriend when we're kissing and touching but not actually having physical sex or oral. It seems to be something to do with me feeling sexually ... (84 words)

Help!!! How can I find out if my ex still loves me...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - HI everyone, My boyfriend and I broke up on Christmas day( i was super super sad since it happened on my fav day). After that, I tried to call him and showed him he's very important to that I couldn't live without him ....I knew I was stupid when doing stuff like that, but i ... (158 words)

I have only had 2 orgasms since we've been together... how can we change that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I stumbled across this website randomly and I'm actually quite happy I did. I have been in the military for 3 years now and as a result of that it's very hard to find and connect with women on a friendship level like I used to as a civilian. With people constantly on the go ... (572 words)

New bedroom tricks to wow him!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I just fixed our semi broken relationship and I want to spruce things up and maybe be a little more kinky without freaking him out. Any suggestions??... (30 words)

I don't want to wait around for my manager to have another meltdown. Work problems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been working at this job for only a few months, and yesterday we weren't really busy my manger told me to take a lunch break and then I could go home. So I went back to Check with him again to see if it was ok and he told me to talk to my other manager. So he agreed and I ... (123 words)

Winter relationships... Any thoughts?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Many people say not to start a relationship in the winter months for many reasons, especially if you have just broken off from a previous relationship. As winter is the time when most people become depressed and sad and this makes them want to seek out warmth and compassion in ... (268 words)

Will my wife cheat again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Will my wife cheat again? I'm in the army and was in Iraq, my wife told me she met a gay stripper. when i got back i found pics with other half torn out, stories not adding up, laptop shut when i walked in, her running for him all the time, hanging out with his friends, long ... (121 words)

I don't want to be a stripper any more

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 18, I went to jail for getting an ex beat up after he beat me up.. I put myself in a large debt with lawyers, fines, etc... I became a stripper and paid off my debts. After my parole ended I moved out to oklahoma to get away for while.. I came back about a year and a ... (294 words)

Did she love me or was she just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

- My girlfriend of 2.5 yrs split for 6 months last year. During that period she had a failed relationship with a new guy and got sacked from her job Then she contacted me again and said she wanted us to work. She moved overseas to be with me again.We recently split with mutua... (213 words)

Should I make contact with her or say anything at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I've posted here before. About two weeks ago i broke up with my girlfriend over some pretty hurtful things I saw on her phone (yes I looked through her phone). The month before she had told me she didn't know if she wanted the same life as I wanted and that she wasn't sure if ... (436 words)

How can I be more confident?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I broke up one week ago. I am a weak and unconfident girl; Since I wanted him back, so I was doing some stupid things like calling, texting, etc. And then he said I was a " stalker." When he said that, it hurts me so so much. I can't believe t he said that, ... (121 words)

Please Help! How can I take the relationship back to being casual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi All, I split up with my ex of 3 years 3 months ago. Got into a relationship with a new guy, who is really nice and stuff, but it's moved really fast and I'm not ready for anything too heavy or serious. How do I take it back to being just fun without breaking his hea... (140 words)

When I'm on top, do I sit up or lie down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Im going to my boyfriends tomorrow and sex is on the brain lol i was just wondering if anyone had any tips for me on how to be dominant of him i dont know how to have sex on top of him.. how do i move? do i sit up or lie on him? he likes it when i take control..... (61 words)

Does love exist? I've never had a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, well i was wondering a lot about love. Ive never had a girlfriend and the last girl i liked a lot, well she told me yes about going out, but when i talked to her by phone, she told that she had boyfriend, she was very beautiful(close to the dream perfect 10) and her ... (138 words)

How can I get him to see me as girlfriend material?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, you may be slightly bored of me now… I posted a while ago and didn't really get a lot of constructive advice... assuming, I like my friend, who is a diagnosed sociopath, and this really, really doesn't bother me, even though it probably should... how do I go about finding ... (525 words)

My wife and I just don't seem to be on the same page...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M) age - My wife says she has never done anything to jepordize our marriage but i feel hurt all the time by her behavior. I tell her how i feel but she denies ever doing anything inappropriate and says it it something i have made up in my mind. Any suggestions?... (53 words)

Sex and my virginity...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice here. I'm turning 16 in 2 months. I never had a boyfriend. I don't know how to kiss (i don't think any guy will want to go out with me when they see i don't know how to kiss) and I don't personally think I'm ugly, I am confident, my friends tell me ... (227 words)

How can I get through to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5454 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok everyone i need lots of help. I was kinda seeing this guy but then we stopped talking, (it was all down to an ex of mines.) Anyway i had not heard from this guy until sunday when he texed me something very random then again he texed saying soz wrong number, He then texed ... (247 words)

Missed the pill once, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am on the pill, but accidentally missed one last month and didn't realize it until after my boyfriend and I had had sex the next day. According to my prescription information, I should be ok because I only missed one pill and took two the next day, but my last two periods ... (106 words)

Should I ditch my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think that my best friends hate me. They discuss me online, and they think that I don't know about it. I feel like I'm alone, without any real friends. On New Years Eve, they all had a party, and they didn't invite me. I feel really left out, and they always laugh in ... (254 words)

Should I keep no contact with my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My ex is now in what i believe is a rebound relationship. They're going through the honeymoon stage, thinking each other is the best thing in the world, thinking they're already never gonna feel this way for anyone again, blah, blah, those things. While my ex and his new ... (492 words)

It hurts my girlfriend when we have sex in the missionary position, what other positions can we try?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend told me I hurt her when we missionary what shall I do, different position?... (16 words)

Sex and sexual positions...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - What position should I use to best please my girlfriend and me? What position works best for you?... (19 words)

Boyfriend says he needs time.. what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend through work about 7 months ago when he was with his ex girlfriend of 1 year, 7 months. He broke up with her about 4 months ago and we started going out straight after. However he went through a stage where he said he needed time to be on his own after being ... (486 words)

Can anyone advise me on ovulation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I are trying for a baby. I am really un educated when it comes to ovulation etc. My period came on christmas day and lasted for only a few days we had sex on the 28th 29th and 30th is this aroubd my ovulation period and therfore more likely to get pregnant. kind ... (63 words)

My girlfriend keeps breaking up with me so she can go out with other men, what should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone, so my girlfriend cheated one me broke up with me saying it was my fault, then when i found out it was cause she was cheating on me i forgave her and we got back together. then she started a fight so she could go on a date with another guy, which i found out ... (144 words)

Is oral sex considered losing your virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 14 and I want to save my self for marrage but I keep having sexual urges and dreams tempting me.and I think it oral sex would help but I dont know If its considered loosing your virginity please help me ... (43 words)

Am I doing the right thing by having a girlfriend right now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and my girlfriend were steady for almost 2 years. I loved her so much and consider her my first true love. In the beginning i fucked up when she said no when i asked her out and i ran back to my ex and then realized it was a mistake and that i wanted to be with her and ... (1088 words)

My penis was wet after having sex with her without a condom, will she get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi...i am 16 and my girlfriend has juz turned 18 last month.... today when i was at home with her fooling around.....i put my penis ingide her vegina juz 4 times without a condom....well i wasnt cuming when i had sex with her but my penis was wet....wil she get pregnant??? im ... (64 words)

Cheating on me and lying about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i been together for 5 months. well we always argue and we make it up;; but lately i heard he was going with this one girl;and matter of fact she was the one who told me they were together,but i thought she was lying cause i was with him everyday;; but he told ... (146 words)

She cheated on me when I relocated.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age - I meet this wonderful woman when I was eighteen right out of high school. I knew that she was the one that I wanted to marry. She is my all and everything. We have a wonderful relationship. We were open about our past. I told her everything about me and she told me about here ... (242 words)

Why do the guys always go for my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - why them and not me why is it my friends mainly 2 friends i will call sally and amanda get all the men its always the same at clubs and when amanda and me went sppeed dating she got 4 ticks i got none they are slim i am average but not uglier than them one guy got talking ... (221 words)

How to confront him... what to say

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - There is this guy that I work with. We had been flirting like crazy and texting too. I found out he had a girlfriend so I backed down. We both agreed we would just be friends. Then about a week ago he invited me out for coffee. The night seemed to go buy innocently but took an ... (191 words)

Husband texting and flirting with a married woman, should I tell her husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age - I recently discovered my husband has been texting and phoning a co worker with sexy suggestive stuff to titillate each other. He accidentally left some texts on his phone and they were sexy and loving. I am pretty sure it didn't go beyond that from what one of the texts said ... (433 words)

We made out and now 2 weeks later I haven't heard from him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i have been getting to know this boy for a really long time , we have been texting but he will never talk to me at school this boyy is so funny but hes one of the popular boys and he sometimes takes the p*** out of me . Anyway he texted me one day asking too meet up in a ... (135 words)

What are the symptoms of Thrush and Statitus for a male?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi cupid could you tell me what the symptons of thrush and statitus can be for a male?... (18 words)

How can I accept that I might be gay? Or should I continue to try and hide my sexuality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Greetings from an Asian teenager.. Few questions before I begin to tell y'all my lifestyle.. #1 - Am I Gay? (even tho I may already know what I am) #2 - Should I continue being gay? #3 - How can I accept what I am? #4 - Where could I go that could help myself find my ... (352 words)

I lied to my girlfriend of three years about where I went to school.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, This is a pretty desperate act here but I need help. I have been with my girlfriend of three years and I love her with every fiber of my being but I have been lying to her about where I went to school for the entire duration of our relationship. It started when I w... (230 words)

Has anyone been in a situation where you are best friends for years and eventually you do become a couple? I am really hoping that will be the case for us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 (male) and my best friend (same age, female) who I've known since school days suffers from low self esteem. There's too many details to go into, but basically her family are split up and she says she never felt wanted and no one ever cared about her. She went through ... (679 words)

Why would guys behave like that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, to keep a long story short, i’m from a small college and this guy and I are from the same faculty, though different majors. He’s supposedly from popular clubs in school and has a healthy social life from what i see on facebook - clubbing, gatherings etc. A lot of girls I ... (235 words)

What can we do instead of oral?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm currently in a relationship but neither of us are into oral. so i was wondering what other stuff could we do instead?... (23 words)

Why can I only get turned on by my girlfriend? Porn does nothing for me and I'm starting to worry!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok this may not seem urgent or even useful but at the moment I am in a very strange predicament, not serious or bad in anyway I do not think but never the less it is quite how should I put, well bugger it it is pure strangeness for me. My girlfriend is the only thing that can ... (143 words)

Should I tell him why I cant be around him anymore? I feel cheap and gutted that he doesn't want to date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - This is really long but I think I need some professional help. I have never had much confidence but when I started my new job a few years back it was meant as a new start and I felt really positive, however, after a few weeks things weren't going well, I loved the work b... (481 words)

What do women mean when they say they only want to be friends cause they are not ready for a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I've recently started talking to someone, she knows i have strong feelings for her, but she just had her heart broke by a guy and says shes not ready just yet and this is an email she sent to my ex gf who both get on well and are actually talking about me... I was wonderin... (252 words)

I cheated on my ex as a teenager, and now my current boyfriend cant let it go and says he wont ever be able to trust me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, well I'm with a guy at the moment and everything is amazing, apart from one thing, before I was with this guy I had a bf who I cheated on whilst drunk, the guy I cheated with was a total nutjob stalker type. It was complicated at the time, totally out of character for me ... (278 words)

Things had been going well before she suddenly decided she cant do long distance anymore! What does all of this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and this lady had been doing a long distance relationship for about 8 months. I would go visit her and she would come visit me. We never had the title boyfriend and girlfriend. i had come home in august and we talked about it and said that if we were still doing well in ... (162 words)

The physical element of our relationship is lacking so does he have the right to be with another woman?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I'm interested to hear from anyone whose been cheated on by their someone they love.. HAS cheated on someone they love.. or feels patient enough to read my story and give me their honest opinion... So I'm 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 9 years.. since... (1278 words)

Should I give him some more time or just give up completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hey guys help please..my guy friend told me he wanted to be more than friends with me but he was wary as well having been in a relationship in the past that hurt him..he told me he felt comfortable around me i was really pleased as i also wanted more but didn't want to pressure ... (146 words)

He's 2 years older than me and wants to have sex with me, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - what do i do ??? i was out at this club this lad came over two me and asked me to get with him so i did then he took he to this sofa i sat on his knee and he went to finger me i didnt want him 2 do but i let him he asked for my number so i did give it two him but now he wants... (114 words)

My boyfriend completely shuts down whenever something upsets him, how can I get him to let me in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have known each other for a year now and officially dating 2 months . I find that when he is in a bad mood or someone or something upsets him he shuts down completely. I have on numerous occasions tried to make a break through and offer my help . But he says ... (137 words)

He is obsessed with me... I don't know what else to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this guy for 14 years and he has ALWAYS been in love with me... Warts and all! I cant do anything wrong in his eyes and believe me I have done some dodgy sh*t haha! He has only ever had 1 serious girlfriend and even then he was still in love with me and even... (311 words)

How can I prove to my girlfriend I don't watch porn and I have no interest in ever watching it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - How do I prove to my girlfriend that I'm not watching porn? She worries that she's not enough for me, we've been together for nearly 2 years and I want to be with her forever, but can't move forward until I feel like she's ready to be with me. Porn is the biggest issue bu... (379 words)

She has a boyfriend yet seems to flirt with me all the time! What's going on with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. im in quite a dilemma here. I love this girl that has a boyfriend. she's my coworker and is the same age. she has had a boyfriend since highschool. we are really good friends and she is really close with me. a couple weeks ago she was texting me and asking me to distract ... (297 words)

Should I tell my new partner that I enjoy dressing in women's clothes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age - I am a man in my early fifties and I have recently met a lovely woman. I want this relationship to be successful and I want to be totally honest with her. My problem is that my honesty could destroy the relationship. I want to tell her that I like dressing up in women's ... (123 words)

Is there a way to separate from my second wife without having to sell my house?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age - dear cupid, I sadly lost my first wife 16 years ago age 58, I also lost her sister age 56 who was a widow, life can be a pig, I met a lady 9 years younger than myself who I regrettably married 12 years ago, the marriage has never been consummated because she was raped by an ... (139 words)

Help me please! How can I get my boyfriend to trust me and believe in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a serious problem that i so desperately need help with .... I have been with this guy for 9 months now and at the time we were just seeing each other i was still talking and see my ex boyfriend and well i was very confused on what to do cause i had been with my ex ... (489 words)

How can I bring back the spark in our relationship and stop worrying about her actions with other guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend and I really love each other, however there is a slight issue. She is close friends to another guy and sees him as her good friend but then they used to like eachother in the past, although it was at different time. They would phone eachother late at night and ... (328 words)

What does she mean by sending me a message like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

6 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I had a crush with this girl for like 2 months back in March. We both know that we liked each other at that time but as it got complicated(cuz we are really distanced, she's from a state 4000km away from me) we didn't start. I know from then she had like 2 boyfriend... (344 words)

What would you do if your friend's boyfriend is in love with you, and you have feelings for him too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - What would you do if ur friends guy is in love with you and u have feelings for him also,before they meet.and now he is back for you,but you dont want to hurt your friend? ... (36 words)

He has Erectile Dysfunction and I am not sure if this is something I can cope with long term

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 43, divorced and I've been on the dating scene for 6 years. I started dating this guy a couple of months ago. For the first time since i've been single again, I feel like I found a true match and things were going great. But we are having a little problem in the bedroom ... (351 words)

My husband has been watching real life couples having sex on a porn site whilst he is working away, is this normal?

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6 January 2010 (?) age 51-59 - been married just less than a year and found out that my husband who works away has been viewing real life couples having sex on a porn sight. i am shocked and wonder if anybody thinks that this is what men do when working away and is it normal?... (49 words)

Wait to have sex until I'm married or listen to my friends?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I want to wait till I'm married to have sex because I want to lose my virginity to someone I love. I told my boyfriend we could make out just no sex, and he said he understood and is perfectly fine with it. My friends said its not good to wait till your married to have sex ... (81 words)

Could staying single but still messing around with each other become a problem?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend and we both like each other. The thing is, we're not dating and probably won't. We've kissed and stuff before, so it's almost like we are dating, but we don't have the title "boyfriend and girlfriend". Could staying single but still messing around with each ... (73 words)

Is there someone I can talk to about making friends?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I think I have Social Anxiety Disorder...... I haven't made any friends in over 20 years. Sure I have "acquaintances", but no one I would consider "friend". I have always considered myself "shy". I have trouble talking to people I don't know. I'm afraid what they will think ... (533 words)

He says he'll get help so should I go back to him?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - The other day, my boyfriend and I were arguing in my car. He kept saying he was going to leave me so i fianlly got tired of the threats and told him that i was not going to beg him to stay anymore. At one point he just sat and let me express my fellings about the situation and ... (205 words)

How do I stop destroying my relationships?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with destroying my own relationships. Between the insecurity, short fuse, and accusations I push guys away left and right. It took me awhile to realize that it is a trend and its my fault. While some things I have every right to get upset, theres things that ... (217 words)

Do I ask her out?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so im starting to get feelings for my friend she's pretty cool. We hang out every now and then like we went to a few college football games this summer and a couple movies. And lately we've been talkin alot i think she might have some feelings for me to. Like the other ... (101 words)

Does anyone have experience with sensual massages?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age - This posting might seem strange to younger readers but I assure you that it is genuine. I am 64, was married for a long time, divorced 21 years ago and have had several (non live-in) relationships up to about 15 months ago. For more than a year, no woman has touched me in a ... (189 words)

Why after an orgasm do men leave women hanging?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Ok I have a question I no a lot of women would liked answered. Why is when a guy has a orgasm first its over they get up and go on with there day. They just leave the girl hangen they don't even try to finish what they started. Guys what if your girl orgasm first and just ... (72 words)

How do I advise my friend about her coworker?

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6 January 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I need some advice on how to handle this situation with my friend. "Emily" is 25 and last year at work, one of her male co-workers asked her out. Mind you, he also asked out ALL of the other female co-workers as well. My friend said no. She said she felt comfortable talking to ... (219 words)

Is it reasonable to ask them to stop talking about past relationships?

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6 January 2010 (F) age 30-35 - There is a man that I like very much. He lives far away and is at the moment to old for me but he is definitely a possibility for the future. The only problem is that while I am a virgin and I have never been in love or even kissed someone, he is not a virgin and he has been in ... (341 words)

My guidance counselor gives me the creeps. What do I do about her?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi...I just need some advice on this situation. Okay, my guidance counselor (female) and I spoke with each other regularly for a few weeks because of a near-divorce thingy between my parents that is now resolved. But now she calls me into her office at odd moments during ... (216 words)

Why don't any girls like me?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a teenage boy in high school. I am pretty athletic and many guys compliment me daily about my physique. I also am dual enrolled in college level classes through my high school. Im not extremely outgoing but im not shy either. What I want to know is is why no girls seem to ... (321 words)

I'm so scared of losing her and I need her so much! What can I do?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I've been with this girl for more than 2 years now, she's an intern, and will graduate in august, so on 3 Dec 2009 she broke up with me because she wants to continue her studying and become a surgeon, after 3 days of crying and begging her to stay i decided to go ... (271 words)

How do I know if my erection is hard enough?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a virgin and I'm a little worried about if my erection is hard enough. I can get erections easily and things fill out well, it just seems like the "grip" is lose. I don't know how much sway it should have while I'm erect. Can anyone give me some insight?... (63 words)

Do you think my jealousy is going to drive him away?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello DearCupid, I met this guy on online and after 3 weeks later we started to date and now we became a couple. We are having relationship for four months. I also met whole his parents and he everytime told me that he loved me so much. My question is I am little bit... (374 words)

Why isn't my girlfriend attracted to me?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i have been dating my girlfriend for a year and 8 months and i love her with all of my heart. we have had a great relationship and we are basically best friends. we rarely fight and when we do we always work it out. our relationship started off kinda slow and we didn't ... (327 words)

Why couldn't we make it when we loved each other?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in process of separating from my fiance. It is mutual. However now i am having second doubts and having moments of panic and anxiety and crying all the time and thinking i've done the wrong thing. We were together for 3 ish years and it was a very turmutulous relation... (365 words)

Male suggestions: does he like me for the wrong reasons?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - idk wat this fool thinks about me: urgh idk where to start. i kissed him my prom night cuz he was my date but we were not a couple. after prom he has bothered me many times to kiss him again because he was attracted to me after prom i told him no everytime! then we had stopped ... (258 words)

I don't want to mess up his relationship but how do I ask him out?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy a lot in my school and even though he has a girlfriend, were really close and occasionally flirt (not to bad) and he looks at me a lot. The thing is, I haven't had a real convo with him because I only see him once in my whole day (class). And Im scared to ask ... (119 words)

Have I done something wrong or did I make the right decision?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Well my ex bf and me were in love until somethings like problems came and things i didn't like about him so i felt like i was with him so he wont be sad and do anything stupid to him self well then my best friend really like each other and he understands me soo much and i am ... (108 words)

Any ideas on a good emo haircut?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, this doesn't have to do with any relationship question, but im getting a hair cut soon, and I want one thats like scene/emo looking... So any ideas? Pictures? Or links? Cuz I can't really find any. Thanks. XX =]... (42 words)

Am I too protective of my girlfriend?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so some how everyday theres always some how i get upset or pissy about what my girlfriend says or does its like always something about a guy just little things to but it still pisses me off ever sense she cheated on me but not a big deal just 2 kisses as i know but its like ... (254 words)

What is my long-distance boyfriend thinking?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend got into a big fight about 5 days ago. This is the biggest we've had in the year we've been together; granted we never really fought for starters. Our relationship is long distance and is been getting harder to handle because his parents don't like me for ... (604 words)

Niko or Hector... Which one do I choose?!

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so theres this guy "Nick" and well we've been going out for a while,after we heard the news that i was moving out of state he suprised me with a comitment ring. So i moved out of state with my family out here and i started talking to this guy, "Hector" i used to talk to when ... (304 words)

What do you do when you fall in love and they don't feel the same?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So....what do you do if you fall in love with someone and they don't feel the same? Says he just got out of a bad relationship and isn't ready for all that...YET! But he hugs and kisses you all the time and shit...but wants to be friends right now? Says when he would stay ... (126 words)

I am going from guy to guy since I have had my heart broken! Why am I like this?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - So i was dating this one guy' for 9 month's and we were like diggin' eachother alot.. but i f**ked up alot and then i broke up with him and he told me he would always love me no matter what he just doesn't know if he could take the shit anymore .. so we didn't get back together ... (243 words)

Girl A or girl B?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, first off I'm only 15 so this decision isn't totally crucial. There are these two girls, both go to my school. Lets call one girl A the other B. I've known girl A for around 6 years, I like her but she's not really in my friendship group and so don't have that much in ... (221 words)

Boyfriend lies about porn and accuses me of cheating!

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i havent been getting along the greatest ill tell you why after i get throught this, after almost everyfight we have i talk to one of his friends ,lately it seems like his friend is hitting on me.. im not attracted to him at all but he keeps throwing thing out ... (374 words)

My boyfriend won't give up his friendship with her so how do I stop being jealous?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a lot of friends who are girls. This doesn't bother me in the least...except when it comes to one specific girl. I try not to let it get to me, but I am starting to feel extremely jealous of this one in particular and frustrated when my boyfriend even mentions ... (162 words)

I suspect my brother is gay so what should I do?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I have always looked up to my older brother but over the years i have had some suspicions as to his sexual orientation. He is a small guy, a lot smaller than me. He is about 5'5", and he is really metro. He has many pairs of shoes and belts and accessories etc. that is my ... (326 words)

Would a prostate infection weaken erections?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey people..So heres my sad story I am 17..an athlete (soccer) so anyways..i went to my urologist coz i had weak erections and couldnt penetrate when i was tryin to have sex..And i made some test and it looks like i have prostate infection.. so i was wondering if that could po... (91 words)

Ex boyfriend's friends yelling at me. How do I deal with my emotions?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated my ex boyfriend for a year now. I broke up with him because he didn't treat me like i wanted to be treated. We broke up once before a long time ago then we got back together again. My ex asked for his stuff back so i waited for him at my locker on Monday (we are... (256 words)

How should I start a relationship?

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6 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. before i ask, I'll tell you about me. i'm 15 and a sophomore in high school. i'm like the nicest guy my the whole school pretty much. i've actually done my friends hw for them, that nice. i have an awsome sense of humor. i laugh at everything pretty much, unless it ... (402 words)

How can I keep this friendship alive now that I'm leaving?

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6 January 2010 (F)

age - Help! I'm devastated! I have told my story here several times. I'm the girl who met Mr. truck driver man at work.(Please read some of my posts from mid dec 09-jan 6, 10 for more info on the goings on with this issue). Here it is briefly. We've been flirting for about 2 months n... (488 words)