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Break ups to make ups, why?????

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Question - (5 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 January 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend and I were togehter for 5 years. We both put each other through alot, till one day i threw her out. I didn't realize what I had till it was gone and begged her to come home. She decided to move out. I would see her every week and ask her if she was dating anyone and she would say no. Then a month in to the break up her girlfriend called me to tell me that she couldn't stand sseing me the way I was and that she was sleeping with someone else. I confronted her and cut her off completely. For some reason we still couldn't stop making contact with each other until I finally told her, I hope you find what ever it is your looking for. The next day she showed up at my apt and we have been back together ever since. We are noe married with a baby girl on the way. I can stop thinking about how she was so quick to hook up with another guy who she just met. I think about it everyday and i try to forget about it but i think of her smiling with him while i was upset ect. Will this ever end???

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A female reader, girl from bristol United Kingdom +, writes (5 January 2010):

hi she was with somebody else when you were apart but its still hard to think of her ever have been with anybody else, yes i think you should try to forget about the guy she was with and just enjoy being a husband and a father, she loves you thats what is in important she obviously did not have feelings for the guy as she came back to you

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