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I feel like sex completely ruined everything.

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I've been dating this girl for a little over a month. She wasn't sure of her sexuality but decided to try it out. We've had an amazing time together. She told me she sees me in a romantic way, is attracted to me, turned on etc. She's been so sweet to me and I thought it was ... (342 words

She's replying to my texts a day later... is there still a chance?

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27 January 2010 (M - I need help...and I hope you can help me! It is a bit long winded but I'll try and keep it short. In early Nov 2009 me and my then girlfriend of 3 years split up, well I guess you could say I left her! The reason for the split is as follows - earlier in the year she had got ... (515 words

What do his actions mean in guy terms?

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm On a break with my ex boyfriend. He wanted the break because he couldn't handle a gf and wanted to get back on his feet, which is ok i guess. But Im getting confused he says he wants me and he wants back together again. last Saturday we hung out and tried to keep our hands ... (219 words

Razor burn sucks!

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27 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - so i shaved my pubic hair and i was pleased with the results. my girlfriend really liked it too. :) she was really turned on and she couldnt hide it either. my problem was that a few days after i shaved i realized some nasty razor burn and i also had to painfully dig out about ... (74 words

Help! Why are his friends like this?

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27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hey everyone.... I have a partner for quite some time.... I need your input about his friends.... even before we got together and had my housewarming his mates ignored me... even though we were housemates... went out for dinner they shut me out... went for recreational act... (108 words

I soooo want to kiss her...

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27 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - I realy love my best freind and I know that she likes me as well but she is too I guess locked in what would be the correct word... I mean she won't even kiss until she's married ! were both seventeen her parents are the churchs youth group leaders. ( I swear if anyone makes a ... (146 words

Why is flexibility such a turn on?

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so when my boyfriend and I have sex, he seems to get turned on by the fact that I'm on the dance team at school and stuff and knows that I'm really flexible. So, when we have sex, we usually start off folding deck chair style, and he carefully puts more and more weight on ... (156 words

Opinions appreciated. What are my chances???

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27 January 2010 (F age - hi there , i have known my turkish husband since april 2007 , our relationship blossomed and i have been to turkey several times to see him as he has not got visa as he didnt really want to come to england until about a year ago . i know everybody says this BUT HE REALLY IS A ... (233 words

Is he unable to commit to marriage?

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27 January 2010 (F age 51-59 - I have a boyfriend who has been divorced and single for the last 15 years. He has had long term relationships but has never lived with or made a commitment to any of them. We have been dating for a year and a half and he recently asked me to live with him and I did move in. ... (419 words

Scared he will say NO!

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I liked this guy we where best friends and I asked him out. To make a long story short he said no I was heart broken. Well now I like this new guy we will call him "DAN", Dan is very cute, funny and smart. I really want to ask him out but.... Im afraid he will say no I have ... (194 words

Sometimes a peach can have too much syrup and it doesn't mean the tree is getting too much water.

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27 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - Well I am in a s*load of trouble over a relationship I had with my boss at work. I handled the whole thing badly and it blew up in my face. I tried to get some advice on this problem the other day but my question wasn't posted because it was deemed too "sexually explic... (613 words

Should I just ignore her and move on?

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27 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - me and my female friend know we like each other but none of us are doing anything about it because we know that in the long run it would never work out because we are both from very different asian cultures so if we did get together it would cause complications on both sides ... (114 words

In order for them to 'improve' their own life and become strong men, I have to boot them out! Right?

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27 January 2010 (? - Hi, I'm a 53 year old lady, with 3 kids. Husband and I are divorced and he works away, in another area of the country. My kids are all adults, 2 sons aged 29 and 18, 1 daughter, aged 31. The older 2 kids have 'boomeranged' back to living here with me. Daughter took a career ... (934 words

The "I miss you game" blues...

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i were texting and we were playing that no i miss you more game and oh my gosh!! he sent this to me, i miss you so much id take a bullet for you, then i said you win then he's like all my stuff was true, and i still miss you, i wish i could see those beautiful ... (209 words

Do cheating men believe their own lies, it's always the wife's fault?

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27 January 2010 (F age 51-59 - Do cheating men who abandon their wives and families feel guilty? Feel anything? Responsibility? Do they really believe thier own lies, that somehow it was the wife's fault? "She drove me to it"?, all the while still sleeping with their wife? If it really was the wife's, (... (181 words

Why do men walk out on their families, and essentially erase them from their lives?

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27 January 2010 (F age 51-59 - Why do men walk out on their families, no warning, institute zero communication, zero financial support, etc. Blame the wife, even though they have been the unfaithful one and rarely ever sees the children, one day out of the blue daddy just didn't live with us anymore, he ... (204 words

Funny kinda friendship?????

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27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - please help what do you guys think of the following situation:- I have known my 'friend' for the past 12 months, he stays at my house, has left some of his belongings also, we enjoy each others company, can talk openly and honestly, we kiss, hold hands and cuddle up on the ... (153 words

Do I give relationships another try?

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27 January 2010 (M age 41-50 - Commitment Vs. Want I'm currently 27 and still a virgin, in the past i tried to get into a relationships, or just ask a girl out, but i've been rejected way to many times, when i was 22 i remember hearing this quote "Some people were meant to walk this world alone" since the... (101 words

My friend sent my boyfriend love letters!!!

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - A few months ago my boyfriend was sent love letters by a mutual friend of ours, she was his friend to start with but as we got together she became one of mine too, I was quite open with her, and told her a lot and treat her as a good friend. When I found them I fell out with ... (225 words

Advice needed for a valentines get together!

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27 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - Long story short, I have a very special woman in my life. We get along great, we're the best of friends and we may be the closest person in each other's lives though we don't see each other often as it's a LDR. Before I met her, she had gotten out of a messy divorce. ... (264 words

Why do I give guys my number even although I KNOW I'm not interested???

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Why do i do this? i am not a flirt im just super friendly always smiling and laughing. now when i meet a guy for the first time maybe over three times i have given out my number even though i knew i wasnt gonna do anything or i was looking for anything serious with these men. ... (121 words

Am I a drama craver???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

27 January 2010 (F age 26-29 - Hey, ive been with quite a few guys (i started very early) with my first bf at 10 - we were more just mates with the occasional kiss on the cheek to show off to other mates. i then moved on to this boy who i was seeing for a few weeks and then he dumped me. then asked me out ... (320 words

My husband has no desire to have sex with me...

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27 January 2010 (F age - My husband does not desire to have sex with me, a few years ago. We have it , like every 3 months, if I ask. When I'm naked, he does not even look at me, not looking bad. Some extra weight, but man always looks at me, when outside. I do have a sexually appealing body, no ... (115 words

I fancy him but too shy to flirt

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Ok, so there's this guy who is funny, good looking, loud and just really great. Anyway, he goes to my college and for some weird reason I really like him. I talk to him when I see him and he calls me names as a joke which I love. But I can't tell him I like him because I'm not ... (124 words

I can't understand why boys want me so bad???

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27 January 2010 (F age 26-29 - So im 14 and im not interested in having sex at this young of an age, ive only had 1 boyfriend, the most ive ever done with him was dance or hug, no kisses, i didnt really like him either. but i really started liking this boy recently, and he asked me how far i would go, i ... (203 words

Why doesn't she answer my question about her feelings?

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27 January 2010 (M age 41-50 - my ex contacted me for advice on tax (im an accountant) after few weeks of no contact (she is currently seeing someone else). i took this opportunity up to tell her how much i miss her however she didn't acknowledge my feelings just carried on asking me the advice. so i said "... (159 words

Bending over got me a new name with my partner!

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27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - My common-law partner and I have been together for almost 8 years. I have never been unfaithful nor would I ever consider that as an option. My partner on the other hand has. The problem however is not the past affairs but an incident that occurred at our home several days ... (487 words

I instantly wanted to have him but I don't have sex or fool around w someone I don't know

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27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - I've been on 3 dates w this guy I've known for 3 mo.he msgs randomly to say hello and such.he flirts with me a lot.a lot of talk but in person he's a gentleman(he's incredibly naughty through txt). I assumed from his inconsistency and naughty txting that he's interested in ... (214 words

She wont kiss me and wont say why!

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27 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - im 17 and i have a gf but its hard to make her talk to me and she wont kiss me and wont say why, recenly ive been finding her friend very attractive. her and her freind often fall out about thing that each other has done. its usually my gf whos dont something stupid like trye... (213 words

I don't think that I have actually been in love.

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I dont know if i am the only one but from all the relationships ive been in i dont think that i have actually been in love. i find this very confusing because everyone talks about how great love is and all. what do you think?... (48 words

I want to marry another woman

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27 January 2010 (M age 51-59 - i am 38 years old business man. i married 9 years back and i have one child. these last few months back i fall in love with another girl and her age is 25 years. for my business that girl is very important, i love her and she also love me so much, we decided to marry but i ... (75 words

We say some rally nasty things to each other.

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27 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hi all, just thought id come on here to vent a few of my frustrations and get some feed back as i dont really have anyone to turn to for this sort of thing. My girlfriend and i are in a pretty intense relationship, weve been together almost 2 years and love eachother to dea... (204 words

I don't know what I've done wrong and why things have changed??

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Dear cupid I started seeing a guy a few weeks before I went to Thailand for three weeks. We eneded up sleeping with each other on the first night, he pushed me into it and said he wouldnt judge me and said he was looking for a gf etc so it should matter. Anyway thing... (265 words

I am more than expecting that with his current behaviour hes about to run out on me again.

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Myself and my boyfriend have been on and off for a few years, we've walked away and come back to each other 3 or 4 times now, we lived together for a year but stuff happened and i left and im now living in a different house. In december we got back together it went well for ... (401 words

How do I find out more about this guy, I have a crush on?

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have a huge crush on a man who walks his dog in the same forest park as me,i see him nearly everyday at the same time, and we smile at each other and sometimes talk a little about our dogs. I'm 22 and i think he looks at least 30, and i'm worried he might even be married ... (159 words

How do I tell her I love her but can't see her anymore?

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27 January 2010 (M age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles. Have appreciated your advice in the past and need it again now please. Having weighed up previous advice, I now realise I can't go on with things as they are. I am in love with my best friend (who is female) and while other people believe she has ... (420 words

He abuses me because I am insecure..how do I stop being this way?

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We have an 8 month old daughter. We have always fought verbally but now its getting worse. He hits me and chokes me and throws things at me. And he says the reason he does it is because I am insecure and jealous and hes sick of it. And ... (151 words

Why did she message me after everything, I did to her?

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27 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - I'll try to keep this as short as possible. I dated a girl last year from about April to June. It was a very short yet meaningful relationship. I was in love with the girl, and I'm pretty sure she was in love with me too. We never confessed it to each other, but we would tel... (382 words

He is a good, kind man, but I want more from him

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27 January 2010 (F age 51-59 - Hi guys, I have posted on here before but sometime ago and your replies helped me a lot. I met my partner nearly 2 years ago on a dating site, we used to live over 2 hors apart then and only see each other on a weekend, He has 2 kids from a pevious marriage whom he sees oft... (508 words

My g/f sometimes sleeps in the same bed as her mum

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27 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - My gf (she's 22 years old) some times she still sleeps with her mother when her father is at work on the night shift. She is not the only daughter but she only does sleep with her mum, I find it kinda weird ?How do you view it? Thanks ... (53 words

Is he just taking it slow or am I in a FWB situation

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - So the scenario is: I've only ever had two relationships and I am 21. One was four years, the other was a year. I've only had two sex partners before this guy. I like this guy from work. He's nerdy and dorky like me, but much more experienced than I am at dating and WELL. Sex.. ... (375 words

My boyfriend of 9 years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. WHY, do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, If you've ever cheated on your partner, then I need your advice. I found out a week ago that my boyfriend of nine years has been cheating on me with another woman for more than 2 years. Other than feeling like I've been hit by a bus, I'm absolutely confused as to... (425 words

I thought we had a loving and trusting relationship but he cheated on me for at least a year, Did he EVER love me?

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27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I was wondering whether I could have your honest advice. Well there's actually two things I want your opinion on. Firstly, a week ago I found out my boyfriend of nine years had been cheating on me with another girl for at least a year. I have been speaking with ... (631 words

Hot, then cold?

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27 January 2010 (M age 51-59 - I recently started a new job, and i was working late i was speaking to a new female colleague, who i found attractive, anyway earlier in the day i had to send her an email work related. Just before she finished work we got talking about excercise and ipods, during this i me... (478 words

Is being gay and christian all right?

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been a converted chrstian for a year now. Most of the time, i'm into guys and its great. But recently i've been liking this girl whom i'm not sure is into girls. That aside, what i'm more worried about is 'is it ok to b gay and christian?' Thankyou all!... (51 words

My good friend is sick and is taking out her mood on me?

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27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - I think i have done the wrong thing with a friend and am afraid of how she thinks of me now. sorry its long.. My good friend ( friend only!) is sick at the moment with headaches and back pain, she sleeps a lot and isnt able to work much, she is very angry and bad tem... (368 words

She said if we broke up she would probably kill herself!

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27 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - I would like to be objective, but I realize being in the relationship makes it impossible. That said here it goes... I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 3.5 years. Were both 23. It has been pretty good save a few big blowups one of which was 6 mo. in where we... (971 words

My babysitter is a hooker!

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27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have a 6 month old daughter and I recently had a babysitter who turned out to be a prostitute who was all this time sending naked pictures to men for money and on holidays she would go out to sleep with husbands who she used to work for their wives, she always tried to make ... (223 words

Why do we argue over money all the time?

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27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - if me and my partner keep arguing about money, is it right to even consider marriage? we have been together 9 years and got together when we were 18. we love each other and generally get along well but our we tend to argus about money a lot. 2 years a go we moved back int... (377 words

What should I do about this guy situation?

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I need help for a situation that is driving me a bit out of my mind! There is this guy that I really really like in my class! But I haven't a clue how he feels about me as such as he acts the same way around me like everyone else we know. I mean, perhaps he is even friendlier ... (552 words

He promised he would stop talking to her, but I found out he still is!

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - So my boyfriend talkedto this girl that I very much hate, he promised he would stop talking to her, but I found out he still is talking to her thinking I don't know a thing. What is this suppose to mean??????... (43 words

I really worry about my inability to provide for majority of her needs.

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27 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hello,am 17 in love with a girl of 20. She really loves me,and i love her. But i am not working and i really worry about my inability to provide for majority of her needs,she tells me not to worry that she loves me whether or not i provide for her now,that she knows i will do ... (89 words

My dad and brother pop in to my head when I am masterbating! Do I need professional help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Okay so I'm 16 and I've just recently started masturbating. The problem is though, sometimes while I'm doing it, my brother or my dad will pop into my head. I don't imagine them doing anything or even want to think of them; I know its wrong and don't even see them in that way ... (88 words

She was a virgin, I told her I wasn't a virgin when I was, now she wont speak to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

27 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - Hello, I met this girl and we hit off, we became really close freinds and had a strong connection emotionally. She told me she had been sexually abused as a child by her father and had a boyfreind for 4 yrs, because i was a 23 year old virgin and never had a girlfreind before i ... (505 words

I was cheated on and since then I became paranoid and jelous!

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27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - I have a serious jelousy problem and I really need any advice you can give me to stop it. I was cheated on and since then I became paranoic and jelous, I use to be quite laid back about my guys and their time, but since the ex who cheated, I became a little monster, and it has ... (166 words

I have been having sex for a couple months now and now she's been having stomach problems.

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27 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - Hi my girlfriend and I have been having sex for a couple months now and now she's been having stomach problems that she's never experienced before, but she doesn't have any of the other pregnantcy symptoms and I was just hoping someone could help me out??... (48 words

My one and only is gone. Please help.

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27 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - im sorry if this is too long. a couple of years ago, the one girl i knew at the time i would spend the rest of my life with was murdered in a car accident. we dated since i was 15. i was on probation for a fight at the time. i got into a fight with my school councilor because ... (712 words

I'm afraid I will never love again.

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - im afraid i will never love again, truly love again. im over my ex, hes a completely different person than what he was before so all i have left is just the illusion of what was. ive been dating this guy for about 6 months roughly but weve been talking for about a year . he ... (155 words

Two days and no call. Should I wait a bit longer?

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27 January 2010 (M age 41-50 - Ok, Here's the scenario.. 10 years ago I was in a relationship with this girl..She was 18 and I was 20... I just got out of the Army and came back to the state. I passed by her town (80miles from my home town) and picked her up and took her home with me for a week. We had a ... (674 words

How can I spice things up in the bedroom?

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I been marrid 4 3yrs. And I really wanna spice up the bed room,I need sum suggestion,how can I turn him and want me BADLY besides oral,I always wantd to dance 4 him but I am horrible. He is not in to langurie. Please help me.open to new things... (49 words

We're getting married but we have issues

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Ok where to start I’m 21 years old I got with my first boyfriend when I was 12 my mother allowed him to move in with me, once I had sex with him at 13 he started putting his hands on me I stayed with him for almost a year only because my mother beaten me for many of years so I ... (893 words

I'm attracted to her sister and my gf is on to me!

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27 January 2010 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriends sister and I have had a "relationship" for a couple of weeks now. My relationship with GF has been shaky lately and I am really attracted to her sister, who has already said she loves me and would give up everything for me. Now my GF has checked my phone records ... (107 words

I just wanna have some fun but he's past it!

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I just turned 21 and my boyfriend is almost 29. I'm ready to party and get wild and just have fun! But he always says he had his time to party when he was "young and dumb" and all he cares about now is working working working! I wanna go out to the bar or the club and go to ... (297 words

How do I know if he is "The One"?

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I have ben together for almost 4 years and we def. Have our ups and downs just like every other relationship and I was wondering when the wedding bells should riing? I love him and anytime I bring up Marriage and Babies he gets freaked out and doesn't want to ... (212 words

I cheated and cheated and ...cheated and feel terrible!

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my guy for around 5 years on and off... on and off because of several reasons including me getting involved with other people. There are some serious flaws in our relationship like kids vs. no kids, religious things etc.. but nothing that I think couldnt be ... (277 words

First date nerves!

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27 January 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay, so last Saturday night I went to a dance with my best friend. At the dance she introduced me to a bunch of her guy friends. and eventually one of her guy friends introduced me to one of his (lets call him Max). After a while 'Max' and I really hit it off and got talk... (644 words

First date nerves!

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27 January 2010 (F age 26-29 - okay, so last Saturday night I went to a dance with my best friend. At the dance she introduced me to a bunch of her guy friends. and eventually one of her guy friends introduced me to one of his (lets call him Max). After a while 'Max' and I really hit it off and got talk... (516 words

I don' know if my b/f still loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hello Dear cupid.. I have problem here.. I'm not sure if my boyfriend really loves me or not.. It's been almost 2 years we have together and broke up once about 1 month.. When we started together he also, he treated me very nice and romantic too.. And we broke up once because ... (152 words

My husband wont say "I love you"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

27 January 2010 (F age 51-59 - My husband has never said I love u in the 10 yrs. We have been together. I asked him why when we first were together. He said when he has said it in the past that all went to hell after that. Well 10 yrs later and I still can't get him to say it. Is this normal? ... (58 words

I want to have my cake and eat it too

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27 January 2010 (F age 51-59 - I am married and have had a crush om a co worker for the last 7 months. I have been quite good at hiding my feelings from him til recently when we have spent a lot of time together at work. Working one on one. I let it slip about my crush on him recently and he said he was ... (283 words

My boyfriend wont believe he is my first

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone!i hope somebody could help me with this problem.I ve never had any man in my life,but my first boyfriend said to me that i was not a virgin.and that hurt me so much because i thought he was my only one.and every time i tell him that he is my only one,he got hungry ... (83 words

I have a b/f and a bit on the side and I just met the man I want to marry

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I'm here to hear how stupid I am when it comes to matters of the heart. I moved in with a guy I knew for barely a month, and proceeded to create the biggest relationship mess of my life. We dealt with alcohol problems, cheating, ultimately trust, domestic abuse, and now I ha... (623 words

I need cute nicname for my boyfriend

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - Hey, So my boyfriend has a really cute nickname for me, but I cant think of one for him. Aaaah! I was thinking snuggle bunny, but does that sound to girly?? Please help me find a cute nickname for him. =D... (42 words

I seem to have lost my direction in life

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27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - I'm truly stuck right now. I haven't handled myself well in the last year and I am scared to see how far I can go. I was doing pretty well for myself last year and then met a guy. We broke it off a half year into the relationship and he said and did some very hurtful things. ... (1070 words

I can't tell if she just wants to be friends or more

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27 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - Just needed some advice on something thats been going on recently. So I met this girl who was new in town and she barely knows anybody here, I took her out to a hookah bar and I just came back from the moutains right now, but the thing is I don't know if she wants to be friends ... (133 words

I want sex more often than my boyfriend, what's up with that?

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27 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - I am looking for some insight into my boyfriend so if you think you can shed some then please do! What I don't understand is how he can really enjoy sex yet not want it very often. He is about 40 years of age, enjoys sex, finds my attractive and sexually I am ope... (144 words

I can't stop loving her but I am setting myself up to getting hurt over and over again, what should I do?

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27 January 2010 (M age 41-50 - I am having difficulty in Switching off love?.. I have been in a relationship with my wife for 11 years we were 17 when we started dating and she was pregnant at 18 and gave birth to our son, we only got married 3 years ago. She was my best and only friend as well as my lover... (736 words

How do you get over a teacher crush?

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - So how do you get over teacher-crush? I'm a senior in high school, 18 years old. I do have this crazy crush on a teacher who just began teaching this year. He's 26, cute, funny, all that good junk. How do you get over a crush like that?... (51 words

Not sure how to get over this.

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - Okay, so I met this guy a couple months ago one night when I was really drunk. I often feel uncomfortable and tense around many people and mostly keep to myself, but this night for some reason I felt incredible. I didn't have any worries, and I talked to a lot of new people ... (367 words

I'm happy that they've broken up!

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - So of course there's a guy involved. I liked him a lot. We flirted a lot. Almost kissed. But my friend went after him to "get back at me" for going out with her ex (yes she and i are still friends). It hurt me and we got in a fight about this. Mostly because she did this out of ... (187 words

Is semen harmful if you swallow it?

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27 January 2010 (? age 30-35 - Hi, I have a question about cum. The past two days I gave my boyfriend a couple blowjobs and he came in my mouth. I was wondering if there is any way that that could be harmful or anything. It was the first time I ever really swallowed. And I know he doesn't have any STDs or ... (154 words

Love triangle and a baby!

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - hey huge problem, i a 19 yr old mum with a 2 year old lil boy. i have a fiance in bristol which ive been with 7 months now...before i got with my fiance i was seeing some1/not in relation but we had sex and other feelings, i was hed over heels for him but he didnt feel the same ... (228 words

What can I do to really turn my boyfriend on?

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - hi, i was wondering.... what can i do to turn my bf on?? is there any peticular thing that turns a guy on?? thanks x... (25 words

How can he just drop me like this??? I need to get over him! Help!

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I am hoping someone can help me! I am very confused. I was in an relationship with this guy I thought was the one! Sure enough he thought the same. A few months into the relationship, i found some messages in his laptop to other women, such as ''your sexy, I have a girlfriend ... (436 words

This is so mixed up... I love her like a sister!

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27 January 2010 (M age - I'm 48 my girlfriend is 36 and having my baby very soon. She's as sweet a person you could ever hope to meet and I love her a lot . Problem is I love her like a sister. I love another girl who's 22, I've told this girl how I feel and she told me she feels the same. Next ... (113 words

I want my scorpio man back!!!

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27 January 2010 (F age 41-50 - I want my scorpio men back he say's he doesn't like me anymore, but shows me differently. He also told me that he's with someone, but that was after the fact I told him that I was with someone. Please Help.... (41 words

Sick of being treated like my sisters personal slave!

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I,m 18 years old in a few weeks and I,m the youngest in my house. I have an older sister (26) and I feel like her personal slave. everyday I have to clean up after her and Make things for her. She acts like a 5 year old! I could never say no to anything and shes taking ... (192 words

This is my first boyfriend and all we do is sit closer! what now?

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - This guy asked me out and since then the only thing different is he sits by me more often on the bus. Half the time we're on the bus we don't talk. This is my first boyfriend and i don't know what to do. any advice?... (46 words

Not sure how I feel, do I want the relationship to go on?

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - I’ve been with my BF for almost 6 months. He’s a great guy and I really couldn’t ask for more. He treats me well, he respects me and he’s planning his future with me. I however often get confused. When we first started going out I left him for someone else. We weren’t a cou... (303 words

Do women enjoy this during sex?

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27 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - Do women like a nice 'pounding' session? I KNOW it depends on the woman, but generally speaking do you enjoy it? whats so intriguing about it? Tips would be helpful thanks... (35 words

What does his behaviour mean? Does he miss me?

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27 January 2010 (F age 36-40 - My ex and I dated for almost 7 months until he broke up with me 3 months ago (via text messaging, very cowardly). He said that he felt like it was more of a friendship than a relationship, but he said it could be because he was moving in a month, which I was never informed of. ... (976 words

My girlfriend admitted that she cheated on me. How can I deal with this?

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27 January 2010 (M age 30-35 - I've been dating this girl since August, but recently she built up the courage to call me and tell me how back in November, she got very drunk and accidentally slept with this guy. She was all in tears about it, and she truly seemed like she was sorry for doing it. She also ... (175 words

I'm so insecure in my relationship all of a sudden! How can I stop?

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27 January 2010 (F age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years and just recently (about 6 months ago) I've started to become really insecure. I am getting more and more insecure everyday and its for little things like if he says no to something that i ask him. If I asked him to ... (355 words

Tried to hack my girlfriends hotmail and got locked out! how can I tell her?

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27 January 2010 (M age 36-40 - i tried to log onto my girlfriends hotmail and got the password wrong too many time and now she has to enter security questions and is going to know that i tried to hack her account. how can i say i did it by accident?... (45 words

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