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writes:I work as a hair stylist and a guy that I have cut his hair for a few months started talking and teasing with me. When he would ask for my number I would not give it to him. I ended up giving it to him and we started texting each other. I was engaged to another man that I really do love, but I like the other guy too. He sells time shares for a living. My boyfriend found out about us texting and got mad. I told my boyfriend that I did go to his apartment. I notice that he had very little furniture, a bed with no headboard a small clock and no radio. My boyfriend said that he is a loser because he has no furniture to speak of. He has been married 3 times before, he told me the first wife was a bitch, the second cheated on him twice and the third one abused him. After we texted for about a week he told me to move in with him. My old boyfriend found him on a dating site and showed me, he had been active within 3 days. I confronted him and he told me that it was old and he could not cancel it. When I ask him questions he will sometimes turn his head. My old boyfriend said that is because he is lying to me. What should I do? He says he is beginning to fall for me. He is more that 20 yrs older than me.
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reader, curious26 +, writes (6 January 2010):
Dude Wtf are you doing???? He's a loser!!!!! Lose him omg don't be stupid
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reader, Tori07 +, writes (6 January 2010):
Tori07 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I moved out, I asked the guy why he didn't have much furniture and he said that it cluttered up the place. I guess I just want to see what is out there for me. My old boyfriend is a great guy and owns his own home. My old boyfriend said that this new one is a con artiest. We found his picture on Match.com He had been active since we have been talking. So I asked him and he said that he could not cancel it because he was a paid member. So I'm watching to see he it becomes active. Its just that this new guy makes me feel good and is so sweet to me. I hope I have done the right thing. With I'm with him I think about my old boyfriend. Help.
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reader, curious26 +, writes (5 January 2010):
He sounds like a grade a loser. What are you doing??? And what happened with your boyfriend? You dumped him for a loser? Dump this old loser ASAP.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): What is the question here?
Are you asking if you should dump your current guy? Is he still there for you to dump?
Are you considering moving in with this one - the one with "no headboard on his bed"?
How are you even considering this man if you are already in a relationship?
What does it matter how many wives he has had and how much furniture he owns if you are happy in your relationship?
This is about you and your stance on commitment. Is this what you plan to do... each time you find someone attractive or someone pursues you, you consider them as boyfriend material even if you are in a committed relationship?
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