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writes:k so ive liked this guy for 6 months and he likes me back and were pretty sure we love each other, and we just made out for the first time on new years, but it was my first time and i was drunk but when im sober im scared to even hold his hand or be alone with with, why is this? and we fight allot could you maybe tell me how to not fight with him? and last night he tried leaving, but he stayed. and were not in a relationship because im afraid to be in one but i don't know why, can you please tell me if you think you know why or what i should do cause i do want to be in one but im afraid to be can you tell me why maybe? and also how can you tell if someone doesn't really want to stay like i kinda feel like he doesn't want too but i don't know. like i just want to make things work and he said hes ready when i am, cause he knows all of this but i don't know. we tried to be in a relationship but i changed i dont know why but i just felt different? it was for three days, but can you tell me why this too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010): 1.Nervousness is normal it just takes time. when I was with my second girlfriend she said "call me babe" i was like uhhhhh *nervously stalls* but eventually you get over being nervous.
2. He tried to leave but stayed he obviously has some kind of feelings so i gaurentee those r real.
3. Don't be scared of relationships, you just are scared of a bad breakup or sumtin but how things happen on tv and things you hear, breakups r bad but its not like he's gonna drive away with another girl, chances are he would never do that to you and you would break up with him if he did something bad.
4.If he's wonderful enough to say that he'll wait for you, this is a great guy and don't miss your chance. Good guys can sometimes be hard to find.
5. How did u change when you were in a relationship? cause idk wat to say until i know how u changed.
i know some things in here might make me sound gay in some way but im not....just thought that might be a...side note.......k bye...
best of luck
-Curser656
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