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female
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26-29,
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writes:Hi, Me and my boyfriend been going together for 5 months, and on our 5th month anniversary, he wanted to tell me something, because he thought it was best for me to know, and he told me a year ago, he was attracted to men, but he never went with a man, last year he was depressed, and didn't know how to handle his stress, but he says he know how to handle his stress now, so he said that's why he had those mixed feelings. I was soo shocked, I really didn't know what to say. Then, I've been thinking "Do he still have those mixed feelings?" "What if he get depressed again, and he might have those feelings?" I told how i felt, and he started laughing, saying he don't have those feeling anymore. But how do I know that?. So what my boyfriend had told me, it was too much for me to bare, I was confused, because I love him so much, and I know he love me, but I don't want to get hurt like with my past boyfriends. I told my boyfriend I needed time to think, and he said okay, and hung up. I started crying because I really love him, and I want to stick by his side through thick N thin, but that was just too much! He called me again, saying he couldn't help the fact that we was actually breaking up, he told me that he would do whatever to keep us together, because I'm his everything. He said he don't have feelings for men, but I'm just scared that he might be depressed again, and have those feelings that men are attractive, I know he said he know how to control his depression now, but I'm just scared wouldn't you be?. So he said that he don't if its going to take him a years to prove he's not attracted to men, he's going to do his best. So I was crying, because I don't want to loose him, but then again, I don't want to be i a relationship, and my heart wit get broken. What should I do?
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reader, Jager  +, writes (7 January 2010):
if hes not attracted to men no problem. If he's attracted to men again no problem its called being bisexual he's with you and no one else you should except him the way he is. Get over it and grow up its no big deal
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