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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Girl needs space... I think!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I've talked with a few of my other friends, and they are girls, some are guys... and it's regarding my situation with this girl. We hung out almost every night when I was available (work, etc...) Whether it be by phone, or something else. We started our days tog... (357 words)

I just broke up with my fiance... advice please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age - Hi Everyone: This has not been a good week for me as of Monday I called off my engagement my fiance is using drugs we live together someone wrote me a letter last week stuck it in my front door saying he was a crack head and that is where all his money goes he has until the ... (273 words)

How to get back with my girlfriend...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so thank you for reading my question and I really need help so any suggestions would help a ton! Ok so lets start off with this im a guy in high school (sophmore) and I HAD a girlfriend and she was sophmore too. I started dating her in late October and we had relationship ... (309 words)

I love my husband AND my brother in law!!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3636 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with my brother in law: yes, I know it is extremely wrong but this is my story: I've been married for 11 yrs. My marriage is a good one though there are things I don't like about my husband...in any case, I do love my husband too. When I first met my brother in law ... (333 words)

I need tips on how to be more confident

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone :) i was just wondering if ye guys could help me out :/ i have a little problem, okay here goes.. I need tips on how to be more confident..i find it really hard to look people in the eye, i want to be able to be more socialable :/ i also go red really easily,which ... (108 words)

Sex worries because of his size!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - im a virgin and my boyfriend isnt, i have seen his penis before and it is rather big and thick, he has poked me a lot of times and the most with three fingers, is my hymen broken yet? and will sex be really painful with him seeing as he has a big penis and i don't really have a ... (66 words)

Do I communicate with him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i handle a relationship when something goes wrong? (it's major, he has been dishonest with me, hiding something from me for a while). i'm not writing the details because it would be too much. i was devastated, and i'm trying to figure out what to do with this relation... (283 words)

Does my mate have feelings for me but is too shy to say? He's acting really strange.

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. Im a little confused, im think my mate could have feelings for me but im unsure. I do like him and he got told that a long time ago now, meaning like a year and a half ago by someone. Things werent easy between us at the time and theres no way we could have been together ... (659 words)

I am doing the right thing in stopping him from kissing me, aren't I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy that I was sleeping with tells me he doesn't feel he is ready for a relationship and he doesnt want to have just causal sex, so we both decided to remain friends. The day we decided that, he came over to mine and we were watching a movie and cuddling but then we ended ... (129 words)

Why the sudden interest in me again by the ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex started to talk to me all of a sudden, its been almost a month since ive seen him really. He has talked to me before and basically telling me to contact him any time, text him, and to see each other real soon. But then he just disappeared and i was hurt by that. But he's... (157 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want to kiss.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he has stopped kissing me. He doesn't like kissing me and when he does there is no passion. It was not like this before... is there something wrong?... (38 words)

Why am I so hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated a girl on and of for 3 years or so. When we broke up it was always my doing and when we last broke up a year ago, I told myself and her that it would be the last time. We had just moved in together in a new city and the relationship was not working out. I left her there ... (197 words)

Part time boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay hers my problem. Back in Nov. I met the most amazing woman. She was everything I have ever wanted in woman and more. During the next month we had a really great time together. She told me that she loved me and that I was the first person that she had ever said that to. I ... (446 words)

Sex isn't great with him, how to spice it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, ok so here's the thing me and my bf have been having sex for a while now and have done it a fair few times, though not millions!!! But it doesn't feel as good as I think it should for me. I mean yeh it feels ok but not as amazing as I have heard. Can anyone help ... (104 words)

I was sexually attacked 2 years ago. Why am I getting nightmares now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont really know where about to start as this is a very long problem and been goin on a couple of years. in november 2008 i was sexually abused + was repeatedly abused every week for 18 months. I will not say anything about the attacker as im scared to tell police and have... (295 words)

I really do feel that he is the one for me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so i met this awsome guy and it seemed like we were really into each other, and for the first time in my life i went all the way..a week later he told me that he wanted to remain friends because he was going to join the marines. he explained to me that he doesnt want to hold me ... (167 words)

Feelings for my first cousin once removed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone! I want to pose my question in a short manner, so here we go! Last January my much older cousin (she is only 5 yrs younger than my mom), and her daughter visited us from Iran. They stayed with us for one month then returned home. Anyways to cut to the chase,her... (195 words)

I've been 2 years now with my best friend's ex but now she's started to like him again... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend went out with a guy for like 2 weeks and they broke up. about 3 months later he asked me out and i realy liked him so i asked my best friend if she was ok with it and she said yes. We have been dating for almost 2 years now and i really care about him but my best ... (89 words)

My parents don't want me to have him as a friend any more and I don't know why...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i just wanna know what people would do if they were in this situation!? ok so me and my bf have been together for 8 months now and my parents dont know about it! They know him and have met him as my friend but lately they ha`ve told me im not allowed to talk to him or h... (101 words)

I'm infatuated with him but I so much want him to like me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and in high school. i have this problem, ok theres this guy i met last year. i've liked him ever since i met him. sometime during last year he liked me but i didnt know and i said i only liked emo guys which he's not, so he gave up. towards the end of last year he found ... (385 words)

I want my lover back!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I want my lover back. We had so much fun going from friends to "secret lovers". My husband never found out, but others started talking...so after I told him others were suspicious we stopped.. never really talked about it, and our friendship has fizzled. I miss him and I know ... (136 words)

Do you think my ex will think of me at all...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When your ex is in a rebound, I read generally they start doing extravagent(sp) things together and making big plans usually and spending all there time together. I just found out my ex is going snowboarding with his new girl and her family. This kind of made me sad... (217 words)

She is seeing someone but I keep telling her I like her, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am madly in love with a girl. I have told her this but she says she thinks i am an awesome guy but that she is seeing someone. I kept texting her telling her how much i like her but she now doesnt reply. What should i do? I really love her, but i dont think she has much con... (74 words)

Shyness towards the girl of my dreams...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hi. im 17 very shy and unconfident. never had a girlfriend or hardly even spoke to any girls. but since the first day of college i have fallen in love with a beautiful girl. i just cant seem to bring myself to talk to her. ive said a quick hello as im walking passed but thats ... (160 words)

My friend thinks she is worthless and lets others put her down. How can I help her love herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you make someone love themselves? I don't suppose you can MAKE them - but maybe some support that would actually help? I have been friends with this girl for going on 11 years now. Her parents were abusive and always talked down on her, and they are still that way. If ... (229 words)

Caught wife with the vibrator by herself and didn't know what to do - what should I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Been married for a long time and have a few kids. Sex drive for me has worn over the years, she can have sex a few times a week, seems like everyday to me. I can go a week or two before Im ready. Everytimbe we do Im always irritated because Im never in the mood, its always too ... (544 words)

It's so unfair, I should be able to date who I want to!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well hi there it's kind of a long story but anyway here it is I have met a guy after a year he asked me to marry him, we are completely coming from different culture he is christian and I'm Muslim he changed his religion as I can't marry someone who is not muslim, anyway i... (191 words)

I have to hold a speech about Canada, any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have to do a speech (after dinner) in school about canada and i was wondering if you guys could help me come up with funny things to put in it if you have a funny story or just something funny for me to say i woud really aprreciate your help thank you all so much... (63 words)

We are both 17 and have been secretly been trying for a baby - please advise.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

16 January 2010 (?) age 30-35 - Thankyou if you read this. I have been with my partner for nearly two years now and she is the best thing thats happened to me. However, we are both 17 and we cant wait to get our own life started. Really I am looking for personal advice rather than relationship advice. ... (192 words)

Body image - I need reassurance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I just need some serious reasurrance. For the last year ive noticed i have a little extra skin down below and its really starting to get me down. I dont thinks its really bad but its a little more than i would like. I know its normal, but that dosent mean guys wont find ... (97 words)

How can I strike up a decent conversation with my teacher who I adore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I havent written on here before and I have tried a few times but every time I write something it doesnt sound right so I never publish anything. Basically, I think I am in love with my teacher and have been for a few years. I will not go into detail about it becuase that is ... (252 words)

Could this be my first period, at 14?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so my mom didint start her period till she was 16. so today I started bleeding like dark brown and it was In my underwear? I'm only 14 never had sex what's going on? PlZ help? ... (37 words)

I am close to my dad now, should I tell him or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well 3 yrs ago i was sexually abused by my sister's boyfriend, i wasnt very close to my dad back then, so he is the only one out of my family who doesnt know, i dont want to worry him if i tell him, but i dont know wearther it will cause arguments? i have a good bond with him ... (75 words)

Should I turn to lifting weights?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I asked a question a short time ago about how my confidence is so little when I am at school. From what I can gather I need to make myself - be myself. I need to stop careing about what others could think of me and be who I am. But I get so bitter after a bad day at school, and ... (137 words)

My ex is playing with my feelings, how do I go back to no contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend dumped me at the beginning of December because, in his own words, he didn't have time for a girlfriend. Straight after he dumped me I applied the No Contact rule, and was doing great until he text me at New Year asking how everything was. It threw me a b... (448 words)

Hypocritical boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for a long time now and when we first started dating i made big life changes for him; i gave up smoking tobacco and weed, i changed friend groups, i started eating etc. for the simple reason that he wanted me to. now, just over 1year on hes started ... (99 words)

Trying to be friendly to my ex but he just acts so rude, no contact...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I havent talked to my ex in about 3 weeks after he made out with me (while with his new girlfriend) he asked if we could just be friends and i said no and he said he understood. I tried to keep my distance hoping it would drive him crazy that i havent talked to him but i don... (655 words)

She never climaxes... and I can't understand why!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - so ive been seeing this girl and well shes 11 years younger, im 30, come on, do the math its quite simple! ok so we rock out together and have many things in common but i can spend hours and hours yes much oral then penetration and yet she never climaxes. why is it something to ... (75 words)

Is she a woman or a man??? HELP!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm totally confused and I just hope somebody can help me make the right decision. I met this girl at work about three months ago. It was her first week in her new job and we got talking on our break. We hit it off straight away. After a few weeks I asked her out. She said yes. ... (659 words)

Can you point me in the right direction here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Just before the new year I went through a really bad phase of my life. I just didn't feel the point of being around, nothing was going right then. Now however I am the happiest person alive (even though my A-level exams are currently going on but they are going awesome). The ... (475 words)

Help needed!!! Dazed and confused...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age - one night my wife and her best girl friend were having drinks. i had a camera and coaxed them into kissing and a little boob feeling with each other. i honestly thought i would be told to smarten up and stop, but next thing i knew they were making out heavy, but not before my ... (238 words)

With this implant is it safe for my boyfriend to cum inside me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I can't think of an intelligent way to say this so I am just gonna' say it :) I currently have the contraceptive implant in my arm. Me and My boyfriend have a great sex life, and on occasion we have sex without a condom and he pulls out so as not to cum 'in there' ha... (130 words)

Should I see whether she misses me by not having any contact with her for about a week or two???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I am really in love with this girl for 2 years already. I waited for her even though I knew she was in a relationship with her bf for 4 years. Her relationship wasn't going well. She broke up with him a couple of times but patched back with him because her bf forced her. ... (234 words)

I'm tired of him and want to break things off but how do I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - 3 days ago I told my boyfriend that I didn't feel like talking to anyone or dealing with anything without bitching and he said okay I won't talk to you. I was having a really hard time cause my period was late and I was stressing out cause of school and being around him just ... (114 words)

He seems to be so mean to me when he's drunk.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay - This is probably not a big deal but I don't know how to handle it. My bf and I have been together about 1 year. We are buying a house together. Twice now he's gotten drunk and and is so mean. Not physically abusive or anything. But he'll say F* and K you or LEAVE - Get ... (129 words)

He is my ex and I am his... so why should I care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - so my problem is that im too shy and too scared to call up my ex, and totally depend on msn. It's been a a while and he's nowhere to be found. I feel like he doesnt want to ever talk to me. But he was the one who wanted to be friends in the first place, and to see each other ... (99 words)

When should I mention to her that I want us to be exclusive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i met a girl online, and we talked for about a week or so and everything was going good! it was easy to talk to her, she was funny, and we had a good time, we then decided to plan on a first date, which she came down for the night, we had alot of fun, laughed all night, i ... (144 words)

How do I completely cut guys out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so done with lying, cheating, good for nothing guys. My ex boyfriend was enough to turn me into a nun, and the two guys I've met since being with him have made me want to reconsider my sexuality completely lol. Seriously, I'm still young, but I'm utterly disgusted... (150 words)

Texting affair...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age - Hi again, I put the following post on last night but the site seemed to be faulty and it didn't appear for hours. I have had one reply but am wondering if due to the fault it wasn't read by many other people. In case you could offer me help and advice, I hope nobody minds if I ... (534 words)

How do I make sure we move in the right direction...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

- me and this guy have been talking on and off for like two years I never continued talking to him because when we first met I guess he just wanted to get me in bed because he was always talking about coming over my house or his house but never let's go out and get to know each ... (140 words)

I don't want to sleep with him and feel used... do you think he's serious about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - for the past 10 months i've been 'getting to know' this bloke. We both fancied each other from the start, but for a couple of reasons couldn't 'date' properly. Still, since all that time ago we have spoken every day, and just got closer and closer. The most we have done is ... (435 words)

Is this twitching normal???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it normal for the area around your vagina and labia to "twitch" every ten or so seconds after coming close to orgasm? I only started masturbating a few years ago and have never orgasmed before. I come relatively close (or so I assume) but my body sort of shuts down the ... (68 words)

Adopting her legally... and the problems I might face.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf and i have been dating for a year and a half. Im 26, shes 24. She has a 2 year old daughter. We were just friends when she fell pregnant, but the child's father wanted nothing to do with her once he found out she was pregnant. So i have been there since she was born. I ... (252 words)

What music to heal my pain?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so my girlfriend who i was crazy about and so in love with has recently finished with me to be with another guy. This all happened a bit out of the blue and has shaken me bad. we were together 3 years. Can anyone recommend any songs that I can listen to to help with the pa... (102 words)

Participating in my ex's life - how?

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up over a month ago and he has a new girlfriend. He wants to remain friends which I accepted. However I don't want to interfere in their relationship but I want to be present and not disappear alltogether. How can I be present in my ex's ... (60 words)

Hi mood swings drain me but I am crazy about him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 18 and I'm 21. I've never been bothered by the age gap, we get along very well and were friends first. When we first started sleeping together I'd just come out of a 2 and a half year relationship, and knew he was a total player, always cheated on his ex gfs ... (385 words)

What lesson can I learn from all of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i actually thought he liked me.. made me feel so Special. He would ring and text me all the time but he then pressured into sex.. and i gave in and I regret it and hate myself SO much. He didn't even ring to find out if i got home safe or not.. it was tuesday and i dont thi... (122 words)

HE asked for a one night stand does this mean he likes me or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - this guy in mii class asked me to have a one night stand with him...oh n i aint in skool...so does this mean he likes me? that he wanted to start a conversation? or was he just a perv? n he never texted me/messaged me since i said no... but i really like him!!!!!... (54 words)

After 10 years I find I am not his one and only

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just had the shock of my life and I need your advice! Just a few weeks ago, my boyfriend and I decided it was time for us to take a break. He had been very distant over the past few months.. and confused about where to from here with his career. We mutually decided... (1053 words)

I am 16 and expecting twins!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going two give birth to twins for the first time and does it hurt... (16 words)

His behaviour seems to be opposite to what he is saying

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Oki, here's the problem, iv been with my bf or about 7 months and I love him so much but there's a major problem which is bothering me . I was left really hearbroken by my ex doing some online cheating stuff, and one day this came around into the conversation withy current ... (250 words)

We haven't met since we were little kids, now I get butterflies thinking about meeting up with him again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so, i went to primary school with this guy, we didn't speak for about 5 years after that but now we have started speaking again, i'm starting to fall in love with him and i think he's perfect for me, but the thing is im not sure if he likes me. i'm meeting him today wi... (145 words)

She wanted a break but gets angry because I don't contact her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend of a year now decides that she wants a lil break. i for the last three days now, i've haven't actually called, text or tried to get in contacted with her in anyway, but we still would talk because she would call me or text or even when we happen to be on the ... (368 words)

My husband is often angry, it isnt his fault but I need to work out how to communicate with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband is angry a lot, it isn't his fault he has an explosive anger disorder. Lately he's been snapping at me for asking simple questions. He's more of a private person and I'm a very open one. We know that we are very different but I'm scared that we won't work.. I want to ... (82 words)

SHe just wants to be FWB but I wondering if I should wait for things to change

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay, so I am a pretty inexperienced person when it comes to relationships, well, really inexperienced, and this girl is confusing me to no end. So, I finally met this girl I liked, we got hooked up by a bunch of friends, we were both sitting on the couch and we had our arms ... (541 words)

Everytime I hug and kiss my girlfriend my body reacts and its embaressing ...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

16 January 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok I'm 14 and i know some of y'all won't think this is serious and all but it is everytime I hug or kiss my girlfriend i get an erection and it embarrases me and I feel akward and I ant just stop hugging and kissing her because shell notice it and she broke up with me not to ... (181 words)

My boyfriend's life has gone pearshaped and there is no room in it for me right now

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend who's now my ex just broke up with me two weeks ago. He used the line " I think we should take a break" I"m trying to move on but can't help but wonder, what if. Were both young I'm 20 and he's 22. He says he has alot on his plate and can't handle a girl friend ... (201 words)

We met online by accident, and now we are talking of meeting up some place

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, So this is a first for me. I started talking this guy online some, basically by accident, and we have talked more and more, spending hours on the phone, texting, and web cam. Hours and hours on web cam. It's unusual that I would get involved online like this. I hav... (209 words)

We went too far too fast and now I feel resentful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my bf for 3-4 years, almost entirely long distance. It's so dumb to worry about but it's really getting under my skin recently how quickly we sexually progressed, especially after reading things on here like "if he's worth it/ if he's a gentleman he'll be ... (322 words)

My b/f is coming home from Afghanistan, how can I tell him I'm not ready for marriage yet?

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I am in a long distance relationship, with my bf in afghanistan in the military; i'm nervous that when he gets back he's going to propose to me and i'm not ready. while i feel strongly about him, his coming back will signal our first time together living in the same... (254 words)

I don't think he is into sex as much as I am

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just recently moved in with me dec 3rd. We have been together for over a year, we are both 20 years old and experiencing sexual problems. We have been sexual for about 4 months now and at first I just thought since he was a virgin he would not be very experienced ... (431 words)

He often goes out without, I would like him to stay home with me now and again

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating the same guy for a year now, and I keep getting annoyed by things lately. For instance, I am 21 years old and still live at home, which means I do have a curfew. It is lame I know, and my parents obviously do not trust me,even though they have no reason not ... (110 words)

She was my first, but I wasnt hers, and that makes me angry!

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16 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - She told me about one of the guys she has had sex with before me and Ive been wanting to kick his ass so bad. I saw him tonight and got so close but it didnt happen. She was staying with him when she got kicked out of her house and she had sex with him. She says that he said ... (190 words)

It seems to me the good people lose out in love but the wicked continue to prosper

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I seem to notice these around me, the faithful, good, God fearing like myself for example still get heartbroken and suffer in love while the ones that play around, deceitful still seem to easily find love. Why?... (37 words)

His mouth says he loves me but his actions say different

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a boyfriend who is upset at me because of somethings i had done in my pass. he has been giving me a hard time about it and even calls me every name in the book.. he claims to love me and will never deni that to me but his actions show different he dosent raise his voice ... (133 words)

My boyfriend has temper tantrums, and my older lover wants us to continue after he marries, I feel he is using me

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am in a relationship with a boy i love however his emotional tantrums over the smallest things are starting to get to my nerves and i do not know if i will be able to stand this for long. However, on the other hand i was seeing an older man who i have feelings ... (89 words)

I told a girl I loved her, and she said she has feelings for her ex

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16 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - i told a girl i loved her n her reply was "oh rite" the following day she told me still has feelings for her ex but she cant go with him..... was i right to till her to stay out my life forever?... (43 words)

My boyfriend confides things in my best friend that he doesn't tell me

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy I really like who is really sweet and funny and great. He and I have been talking and getting really close. He always compliments me and tells me that I look pretty. We talk about everything and I tell him things I don't tell anyone else. My best friend is ... (176 words)

I often have fantasies, but my wife wont join in!

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16 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - i have lot of fantasies. some is against my wife's wish. i want to get some opinion. i fantasy that my wife flirts with somebody else too. when on a trip i told her to expose little bit to our friend who was with us. i enjoyed when i saw he was looking at her sheepish... (154 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend but he wants me to let him back

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend, and also my daughters father have been together for two years. i have not been in love with him for about six months but i want it soooo badly to work out. he's done some really hard things to look past in our relationship and has tried to bring me down ... (260 words)

My b/f and I fight often, my mother hates him and he also lacks self esteem

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have this boyfriend, I've been with him almost five months and we have a bit a LOT of fights. We're kinda in a tight situation because my mom hates him because of something that happened, and he won't let me go to his house ( yeah, i know) so we have this relationship w... (431 words)

A general enquiry about sex and pregnancy and timing

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Lets say you have unprotected sex two weeks before your period is due to start. If you were to get pregnant would you still have your period that month...like two weeks after you have sex?... (35 words)

I want to self induce, & I don't care if its not scientifically proven

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. My question is simple really. How do you self - induce labor? I am 39 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My doctor told me that if I have not begun labor within a week and half they will have to induce me. I really prefer not to have to be induced, so I'm willing to ... (140 words)

He texted he loved me, could he really mean it?

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy for over 3 years now. At the beginning he was going out with this girl and they were together for 3 years. I liked him for like a year and then him and his girlfriend broke up. The year I liked him was their third year of going out. I didn't know I was ... (496 words)

I have really liked him for more than a year, but he seems clueless to the fact!

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i need some advice, ok well there is this guy that i have really liked for over a year now and we are friends but hes completely cluless that i like him and i dont think he likes me but i want him to, what do you think i should do?... (52 words)

My ex lives in my house and its not working

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16 January 2010 (F)

age - Hello: This may sound crazy I have lived with my ex boyfriend for 2 months he uses drugs okay I have a small apartment and of course he sleeps when he has sometimes I think the walls are going to close in around me I can get so bored I have a 16 year old handicapped daughter ... (157 words)

After 5 years what is a girl to do???

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We now have 2 kids together. I am worried about our relationship...it seems to be fading away slowly. For the last year he has been taking 30 to 45 minute showers. This made me wonder so I looked through the bathroom and found ... (169 words)

Role playing...

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16 January 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - can you help us by suggesting role playing ideas! me and my wife are looking for some. some thing that is not off a filthy porn style, but of a nice fantasy.... (32 words)

I'm really worried about a date I was on tonight...

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really worried about a date I went on tonight. I was really nervous throughout the date, my shyness always seems to get the better of me. As a result I didn't express myself as much as i'd have liked to. We went for a drink first which calmed the nerves a bit, he was givi... (192 words)

Humiliation in front of my classmates... was it my fault?

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Around a year and a half ago a fairly new teacher started teaching me for my Spanish course. The first few weeks of term were relatively normal, as I came into the school year two weeks late as I was on holiday I had missed some of the syllabus. I approached the teacher and ... (342 words)

Is this bipolar... or something else?

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my ex has bipolar disorder but im not very sure. His sister is bipolar, and his dad died about 2 years ago. He hasnt been the same ever since, and goes through these phases of changes it seems like even if he is in a relationship, usually he gets into one relationship ... (525 words)

How can I get it through my sister's head that I can't and will not raise her kid for her?

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When my sister had her daughter, I promised to help her take care of her (for example, babysit her while she's at school). I never promised to raise her kid for her. My sister is a very blessed (aka spoiled) fifteen year old, who got involved with an older guy and he ditch... (256 words)

Accidental message!

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16 January 2010 (F) - my ex and i were together for over 3 years and broke up over a year ago but no one did anything so wrong..no cheating or anything..just arguments over silly things i contacted him a year later leaving a v-mail and he called me back a few minutes later and i explained my reg... (773 words)

He has NEVER gone down on me!!

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I've been dating a guy for about 4 months. I REALLY like the guy and we have a ton of things compatible. The sex has been pretty good as well. He is really good at the actual act, but he is not one for much foreplay. He NEVER once has gone down on me yet, even though I ... (236 words)

She says dating me is like dating her own nephew!

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16 January 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend been dating for a few weeks now, and everything was good until I told her how old I was compared to her, it really bothers her and she said that it changed how she looks at me, I don't know what to do and she said it's really weird for her, it's like her ... (82 words)

I want an orgy but my boyfriend is dead against it!

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im a freak. i love sex and sexual experiences. recently i've been craving an orgy. i told my bf about this and he was -so- not into the thought. he said he didn't and wasn't going to share me, and vice versa. is he being selfish?! or did i ask for something that we both cannot ... (60 words)

I married in secret and now worry my family will find out

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid , i will start sayin that i dated a guy when i was 19 and i loved him so much he cheated on me alot but whenever he needed i was always there , i come from a very strict family ,, ma bf was about to go to the army but cuz i have the american passport he could marry ... (218 words)

I don't know how to approach my partner about a sex problem

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16 January 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with this man for some time, and I realize that I probably should have brought this up earlier. Now when we have sex he pulls out just before he releases himself and more often than not I do not have an orgasm. I know that for a lot of women, we don't have orgasms ... (219 words)