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*oviefan
writes:My first love used me and killed me emotionally for over a year and the pain after 3 years came back without warning. Is it normal for it to resurface without a trigger and after so long. Reply to this Question
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (9 February 2010):
Moviefan is verified as being by the original poster of the question I just know ive looked but no one has liked me as much as she did or understood me like she did, ive tried with others but its never the same. I feel cold and alone a lot it feels like im stuck alone.
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reader, lola29  +, writes (7 January 2010):
nononono not pathetic, it may be sad, but no offence, to see that even after such a long time you still hold such dear feelings towards her and the memories, but you have to know that you can't just stop living ur life.
You will find someone so much better or atleast make you forget and trust me then u'd think ur pathetic to even bother urself with those issues again.
I wonder if you guys have had closure on this. Maybe thats why you're not satisfied with what was left in the relationship.
goodluck and cheer up, there are worse things in life to worry about, and many happy moments to experience yet.
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (6 January 2010):
Moviefan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts wierd because i hate her and because of this i dont even know where or how she is. Yet i still love her and if she came looking for me i would probably give her another chance, lol im pathetic..
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 January 2010):
Yes, it is. The trigger is that you probably tried to forget about it and didn't. Now it's back. Just keep working through it and focusing on your own life and you'll get there.
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reader, lola29 +, writes (5 January 2010):
something MUST have triggered ur memories to come back,but you don't know it or realized it. and no its really normal, since it was ur first love, and well ur young lol. I'm kinda going through that, but after a while (don't ask me how long lol) i just woke up and decided whatever, its in the past, hes not here to hurt me anymore.
i think u still love him, so just remember the good times of it.
take care
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